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Changing Roles - 10/24/2009 11:59:30 AM

humanalltoohuman

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It seems that every time I enter a relationship, my girlfriend at the time is dominant, but over time she becomes more submissive to me. Is this because I can be such a handful that it eventually becomes easier to just yield to me, or are my partners just not firm enough? Perhaps the unusual nature of my primary fetish is somewhat off-putting and they choose to back away from it rather than explore it. I suppose I don't really expect any answers here, but I hold out hope that someone may have some insight.

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RE: Changing Roles - 10/24/2009 12:21:21 PM

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I highly doubt that it has anything to do with you being too much of a handful. It probably has more to do with what role THEY are really more comfortable with. THEY may have been unhappy trying to be something that they are not.

I will give you credit. At least you are looking for the common element (you) about what goes wrong in your relationships.

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RE: Changing Roles - 10/24/2009 5:41:41 PM

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What LadyPact said.

Your fetish is one of extreme objectification. Someone like me, would take it and run with it. I am NOT looking, to be clear. But if you were mine I would keep you in extreme objectification, and love it. But it would have little to do with your idea of objectification.

If you are ready to serve a domme, you need to find and serve one- instead of trying to turn a vanilla girl (or a sub or switch, etc.) into your fetish delivery service.
Your domme will have her own ideas of how she wants to objectify you. If you aren't ready to actually serve a domme's needs, I'd suggest getting a pro-domme to help you live out (as much as you can) your dream scenarios.

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RE: Changing Roles - 10/24/2009 8:26:08 PM

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The reason why some Women become submissive over time might be a reaction to your own behaviour, but it could also be a natural tendency of Hers, since many Women are naturally caring and giving. They are not necessarily "submissive", but are nurturing, willing to compromise, and are considerate. This makes them good at relationships, marriage, and Motherhood. To help Her become more Dominant, simply give in more yourself. Let Her have everything Her way more often. Some say marriage is the best way to be dominated.

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RE: Changing Roles - 10/25/2009 4:55:35 AM

Elisabella

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Is there a reason you put "hates female supremacy" in your profile?

That might have something to do with it.

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