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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:13:54 PM

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GFE = Girlfriend experience. Many prostitutes are non-GFE, which means they won't kiss and do that girlfriend/boyfriend stuff.

So it sounds like he paid for sex and kissing and stuff, and now she wants to ratchet up the kink aspect, but suddenly she's throwing power into it.

Cali

oooooooh....man, I am so sheltered...I had no idea that was a service...thought you just had to "be" to get experience....lol

Damn, I didn't realize that is what GFE meant. (lol)

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:15:09 PM

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C'mere Drk, I'll kiss on ya and hold yer hand for free.

Cali

Sweeeeeeeeeeeeeet! I need all the experience I can get...lol

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:19:09 PM

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And a fuller explanation from our good friends at Wikipedia:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girlfriend_experience

Edited to add: It would appear that the OP is confusing a prostitute with a mistress.

wow....well lick me and call me myrtle.....I had no idea about this one. That answers a few of the questions that I had....still waiting on the OP to answer the other ones though...lol

thanks Venatrix

edited to add: Also, I'm going to have a "whole" new set of thoughts next time I use an ATM....lol

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:24:27 PM

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edited to add: Also, I'm going to have a "whole" new set of thoughts next time I use an ATM....lol

Just remember that there are penalties for early withdrawals.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:27:45 PM

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edited to add: Also, I'm going to have a "whole" new set of thoughts next time I use an ATM....lol

Just remember that there are penalties for early withdrawals.

you'd think I'd learn by now not to eat or drink while I'm reading posts.....lol

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:31:59 PM

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wow....well lick me and call me myrtle.....

Sahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhlurp!

Thanks myrtle.

(somebody had to.... It was an order after all... And I'm weal and twue)

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 7:34:22 PM

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wow....well lick me and call me myrtle.....

Sahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhlurp!

Thanks myrtle.

(somebody had to.... It was an order after all... And I'm weal and twue)

ooooook....putting supper back in the kitchen for a while....lol

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/24/2009 8:18:39 PM

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Dude! is this for real??? Op is all "hey guys what should I expect from a prostitute?" FUNNY THREAD KEEP IT GOING!

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 6:30:49 AM

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Well I want to ask her. But am not allowed to email her because she said I was being a impatient and need to show some restraint in emailing her. I defiantly don't want to screw this up she is a amazingly beautiful woman with such a perfect body. I asked about vanilla love making with her and she said she does not enjoy being topped from the bottom. Please note I paying tribute to this amazing women and I already had a vanilla session with her before she knew I was Submissive.

You're paying her, mate. If she wants complete obedience and refuses to be topped from the bottom, then she has no business demanding tribute from you, and refusing to discuss what she has planned is completely out of order. In the worst case Venatrix could be right that she's just stringing you along, as well.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 7:38:50 AM

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You aren't allowed to ask her what she proposes to do? Now there's a red flag if ever I heard one.
You need to know what she is interested in doing to decide if you're interested in her doing it to you.

Do you have a safe word?
Can you trust her to honor it and stop if you use it?

Will you at least not play in private the first time but in public where a dungeon monitor will force her to stop if you use your safe word?

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 9:13:52 AM

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I have always been into bondage type stuff and always felt I was submissive, but the thought of a tied woman turns me on also. Well anyways, I have met a Mistress who wants me to have a session as her slut slave boy. I am a little confused and scarred. I don't know what to expect as I never been with Real Mistress before. She lives far away but is frequently around my area. We have fooled around with each other already as friends, but she did not know I was a submissive now that she knows her whole attitude is different and she wants me as her slut boy slave. What am I getting into?

What are you getting into? how would anyone know unless they had spoken to this Mistress of yours. We can guess but it is just that , a guess. If you have concerns, then ask her. If you are ok with her replies then move forward, if not, then decline her offer of a session.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 12:15:09 PM

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Who on earth knows what she means by *slut slave boy*? Who on earth knows what you're getting *into*.

If you were my son I'd tell you to *bloody well find out then , you nitwit*.

It could mean anything from spanking your bum lightly to crushing your bollocks with pointy high heels.

She's got a fab body , you can't stop thinking of her , you don't want to be disappointed in the *session*, as you're paying for it, she won't answer your questions........ well....you take your chances matey.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 12:38:58 PM

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Expect that if you are unable to protect yourself by properly negotiating exactly what you are paying for, you will be taken advantage of and disappointed. And possibly exposed to an STD. Some STD's are deadly, and some are just incurable. (AIDS is incurable and deadly- are you feeling lucky?)

Would you drive up to a used car dealership, hand them money and just wait for whatever they bring you?
If you would, I've got a car I'll sell you.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 7:04:29 PM

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It does sound a bit worrisome...

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 8:26:55 PM

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Ah, the plot thickens. So she is actually a prostitute who does dominatrix scenes. That's not what you said initially.

When you are paying a prostitute (sorry to use such a crass term, but that's what it is), then even subs typically top from the bottom. After all, you are paying for the session. It is very different from offering tribute to a true Domme. Real Dommes typically don't also offer GFE.

There is a huge red flag in what you've said. You should not become obsessed with a prostitute. She is pretending to be your girlfriend. That's what GFE is all about. She doesn't care about you. As soon as you stop paying her, she is going to disappear. I am concerned that you say that you can't stop thinking about her. You sound obsessed with her.

Sessions with a provider are fantasy. Regardless of how you feel during the session, when the hour is over, she is going to take her money and leave.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 9:04:57 PM

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this is like they guys at a stripper who THINK.."
"oh look she into ME...she looked at me..she took her clothes off..
our eys met..we have something"

OP:WHAT TO EXPECT..???
as much cash spent as you can manage..

GM

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 9:20:41 PM

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In the OP's defence, his profile indicates he's only 21. I suspect most of us had skewed ideas about relationships at that age, too. I can only hope that the OP has been lurking in this thread, and decided that he can do a lot better than a hooker who pretends to be a domina.

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RE: Serving my Mistress! What to expect - 10/25/2009 9:44:32 PM

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Dude! is this for real??? Op is all "hey guys what should I expect from a prostitute?" FUNNY THREAD KEEP IT GOING!

nah....it's not for real...I mean the guy isn't even in the discussion....he probably just thought he would get a bunch of scenarios

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