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Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:12:05 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		My curiosity is poking at me again and i was just wondering if any care to share how it felt hat thoughts went through your mind when you were collared.

For me it was OMG i am actually collared and i am absoultly thrilled. I was afraid i was dreaming it. I am glad i was not.

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:20:54 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Like a warm wave of pacifying excitement, electricity that hums and soothes.

I'm sure most people feel that sort of experience a few times in their lives whenever they are mutually enacting a commitment ceremony (even if the commitment ceremony happens to be just you and him in a parking lot).

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:21:19 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		A sense of exhileration...thoughts were..." ....finally" and "Im so happy" and "I just love you to bits".

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:32:16 PM   
MyCaptainsPet


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Status: offline 		When he first put my "play" collar on me, as i was kneeling at his feet... i felt a bit apprehensive but very happy at the same time... He hadn't gotten my daily collar yet, so when i had to remove my play collar i felt very let down and suddenly alone.. i wanted to wear it all the time and almost begged him to allow me the honor of doing it... i will admit, i had a very difficult time of things until i recieved the one i wear daily.

Two weeks later, he gave me my symbolic collar, one i wear every day and has never left my neck... The loving and tenderness i felt as he claimed me with our symbol can't be put into words... The warmth i feel when i touch it, or see it can't be described... This little chain represents us and who we are and what we are to each other...

Wow... can i be sappy or what???

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:40:05 PM   
LokisBrat


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so when i had to remove my play collar i felt very let down and suddenly alone.. i wanted to wear it all the time



That's exactly the same feelings I dealt with. Deal with them even now when it must come off.


brat

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 1:43:00 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: LokisBrat
That's exactly the same feelings I dealt with. Deal with them even now when it must come off.

brat

I actually have come to view that as negative. I understand we love symbols and they are good energy sources for us- as long as they do us good, not take away from us, and as long as we don't imbibe the symbol ITSELF as the important thing.

The "collar" that matters is the one you commit within yourself. I'd like to see a world where everyone had to take off ALL symbols of commitment for a week and still be peachy keen.

Again- symbols aren't bad in and of themselves, I just think new subs and doms especially put too much emphasis on having "the collar" than the foundations of the relationship FOR the collar. That's why you see so much collar-hopping and velcro-collars and the like.

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 2:09:46 PM   
LokisBrat


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Status: offline 		I feel I should clarify my own ideas a bit here. Loki works on the road, often for months at a time. When he comes home, the play collar goes on. I understand your thoughts on using the collar as a foundation for the relationship, but in our case, its merely a part of what we already had.

brat

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 4:52:07 PM   
Firmmaster4u


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Status: offline 		being collar is soemthing you wanted and need for a while now its not a dream enjoy reality ml

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 5:04:59 PM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		i have worn play collars before but not from my One. It is definitely a totally different experience. He told me He was getting me one - one to wear always. And because W/we were so new to E/each O/other i felt mixed feelings - OMG am i ready for this? WOW how incredible. But when He placed It on my neck i knew that was it. And now i treasure It so deeply - His ownership, His possesion, His property. And the feeling of peace and calm is indescribable. i hope to always be worthy of It.



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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 6:02:45 PM   
champagnewishes


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Status: offline 		I have a collar that was placed around my neck by my Mentor (yikes 18 years ago) that means enough to me that it would be the first thing i grabbed should the house catch fire. After two years of intense studying, training, learning and understanding He placed the collar around my neck and told me the time has come...i was ready to go discover for myself. This was the last time i was to see Him as he died soon after.

At the time, my collar was a simple representation of what i had accomplished during those two years, not unlike a diploma upon graduating school. But over the years, i have come to realize what His intent was in giving me my collar and in the same breathe, setting me free...He was a very wise old man. It was His message, i believe, for me to remember to always be true to myself...to always wear my own collar first and foremost. Not to be overly anxious to wear Another's collar until i was certain of my willingness to replace my own collar with Anothers.

To date, i have never found the One who's collar i am willing to replace my own with. When and if i do, i will travel back to Texas and leave my collar on His headstone...it seems only appropriate to do so.

< Message edited by champagnewishes -- 3/7/2006 6:05:01 PM >

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 6:06:32 PM   
angelic


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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

I have a collar that was placed around my neck by my Mentor (yikes 18 years ago) that means enough to me that it would be the first thing i grabbed should the house catch fire. After two years of intense studying, training, learning and understanding He placed the collar around my neck and told me the time has come...i was ready to go discover for myself. This was the last time i was to see Him as he died soon after.

At the time, my collar was a simple representation of what i had accomplished during those two years, not unlike a diploma upon graduating school. But over the years, i have come to realize what His intent was in giving me my collar and in the same breathe, setting me free...He was a very wise old man. It was His message, i believe, for me to remember to always be true to myself...to always wear my own collar first and foremost. Not to be overly anxious to wear Another's collar until i was certain of my willingness to replace my own collar with Anothers.

To date, i have never found the One who's collar i am willing to replace my own with. When and if i do, i will travel back to Texas and leave my collar on His headstone...it seems only appropriate to do so.


What a beautiful thing.

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 6:30:05 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

My curiosity is poking at me again and i was just wondering if any care to share how it felt hat thoughts went through your mind when you were collared.


It was in that moment, when it was private as opposed to the public collaring later on, that I felt truly owned.

Celeste

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Rock, paper, scissors."

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 6:38:09 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

I have a collar that was placed around my neck by my Mentor (yikes 18 years ago) that means enough to me that it would be the first thing i grabbed should the house catch fire. After two years of intense studying, training, learning and understanding He placed the collar around my neck and told me the time has come...i was ready to go discover for myself. This was the last time i was to see Him as he died soon after.

At the time, my collar was a simple representation of what i had accomplished during those two years, not unlike a diploma upon graduating school. But over the years, i have come to realize what His intent was in giving me my collar and in the same breathe, setting me free...He was a very wise old man. It was His message, i believe, for me to remember to always be true to myself...to always wear my own collar first and foremost. Not to be overly anxious to wear Another's collar until i was certain of my willingness to replace my own collar with Anothers.

To date, i have never found the One who's collar i am willing to replace my own with. When and if i do, i will travel back to Texas and leave my collar on His headstone...it seems only appropriate to do so.



I don't know what to say--but I feel the power, the love--and I am humbled--

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 7:11:33 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		It was surreal. Life became beautiful that day.

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 7:24:58 PM   
champagnewishes


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Status: offline 		Thank you MH and angelic...

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RE: Being Collared - 3/7/2006 8:28:34 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

My curiosity is poking at me again and i was just wondering if any care to share how it felt hat thoughts went through your mind when you were collared.


I can't recall *thinking* anything at all. It was just Him and me, on a rock high in the mountains overlooking a beautiful valley, and I was just so happy... I cried; He cried, and we held each other as time stood still.

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RE: Being Collared - 3/8/2006 4:32:28 AM   
shiava


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My curiosity is poking at me again and i was just wondering if any care to share how it felt hat thoughts went through your mind when you were collared.


i felt complete, i felt loved, and i felt His.

When it came off......well that i am still getting used to.

shi

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