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Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 12:28:12 PM   
SuziAndJemma


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Status: offline 		Hi, just a quick ?. I am thinking of cuckolding my sissy pet. Can anyone give me any advice on the subject? Any advice most welcome!!
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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 1:41:59 PM   
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cuckolding my sissy pet


Umm.... lack of information = lack of advice. Try two lines, or maybe three.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:45:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Define cuckolding? i mean...uh my understanding of the word is that it means a wife that is not faithful. Am i wrong? If i'm wrong someone please explain to me what it does mean. If i'm not wrong.... How/what do you expect us to tell you? "Do it" or "Don't do it, it's a trick!"???

edited for spelling

< Message edited by SubOnlyForHim -- 10/27/2009 2:46:33 PM >

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:47:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your understanding is correct, they are using the word cuckquean for the reverse situation, I understand, there was a good thread about that just the other day.........

search:

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:49:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		And all this time I thought it had somn to do with some one holding my cock.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:50:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you cannot be more specific then try using the search function or look over in the Ask Mistress section as it comes up a lot as a topic.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:51:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim

Define cuckolding? i mean...uh my understanding of the word is that it means a wife that is not faithful. Am i wrong? If i'm wrong someone please explain to me what it does mean. If i'm not wrong.... How/what do you expect us to tell you? "Do it" or "Don't do it, it's a trick!"???



That's the traditional definition of "cuckold". It does seem that in recent years, in bdsm usage, the term has been used a lot more loosely. I'm not sure if it's even possible to define the term clearly anymore. I'm always skeptical of this kind of request for "advice". Often, such requests are just an attempt to get others to compose fantasies for the titillation of the questioner.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:51:44 PM   
SubOnlyForHim


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ORIGINAL: HerLord

And all this time I thought it had somn to do with some one holding my cock.



Well, in a way it does, along with various other's cocks



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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 2:53:21 PM   
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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 4:15:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HerLord

And all this time I thought it had somn to do with some one holding my cock.



Well, in a way it does, along with various other's cocks

 
Way too funny!!!! Thanks!

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 5:20:13 PM   
SubOnlyForHim


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ORIGINAL: sub2pleaseyou88

quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

And all this time I thought it had somn to do with some one holding my cock.



Well, in a way it does, along with various other's cocks

 
Way too funny!!!! Thanks!




Thank You, Thank You. i'm here all week...

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 5:36:57 PM   
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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 7:33:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe you could explain what you mean by cuckolding. As far as I know it usually involves other sexual partners and according to your profile...

"We are in an exclusive relationship and are not looking for sexual partners as we are happy together and are really only looking for friends."




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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 10:36:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some applicable advice:

Take it slowly and communicate often. If the idea is new, the emotions run strong and deep. It's not for everyone, but you may never know until you try. The same passion that can enhance submission to unknown levels can also poison a relationship. This is powerful mojo.

If you'd like to increase the power exchange effect, make your sissy work very hard for what you give others easily.

And remember, he might need reassurance from time to time. This is part of communicating.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/28/2009 10:10:13 AM   
NekoSnuffel3000


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Status: offline 		Only advice i would give, your saying, i am thinking of.
Do you know if he even wants it? Becomes for some it is a hard limit.., might be carefull how to bring it even, some see it as a huge turn on, others think they arnt good enough by theirself if you ask them.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/29/2009 11:03:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Make sure that everyone is clear about what is going to happen beforehand.  Ambiguity can be a real problem.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/29/2009 1:08:23 PM   
abuddingdom


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Status: offline 		ok - out of 16 posts so far two posters think cuckholding is related to chearing ona partner, which is how I've always thought of it. Others say it's evolved from its that definition(which admittedly isa very general one) to various other BDSM acts  but don't say what. The three posters before me seem to know exactly what the op means by cuckolding but don't say what it is.It's obviously significant to some percentage of those of us in the lifestyle as its listed as an interest/limit for our profiles. I'm now outing myself as having previously been embarrassed to publicly ask exactlywhat it means, asa kink. I'm guessing its  maybe the D type  exercising their power over their S type by having relations with another, BUT different from an open relationship?  Or / also  someone cheating but also getting off on it asa kink?

Somone or someones please define cuckolding  for me?

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