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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

I realize this has been undoubtedly asked before BUT..there are new ppl....dif circumstances and  lots of change....
soooooooo
 
Has/is ROMANCE been part of your M-s relationship?
From the beginning?
Unexpectedly?
OR
IS there no place/need/want/desire for romance in your dynamic?

i will never serve a Man i don't have the capacity to love. if the emotional is not present or has the ability to develop, i won't proceed. while it is easy in some respects to develop a mental connection, i've noticed i don't connect in the same manner with dominant men emotionally. touching my heart is much harder and it is a rarity in all honesty. nonetheless i want a balanced relationship that includes love. i consider it both a necessity and the icing on the cake as well.

porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: SnowRanger
I have had romance, as you define, it in a D/s relationship in the past.  I feel that it added a great deal to the whole experience.  I want to adore my Mistress!  I want to rub her neck/shoulders/back/feet for hours and not even notice (or if I do notice... glory in the discomfort I endure for my beloved).  I want to rub the underside of my tongue raw on my lower teeth because I am so focused on giving her pleasure.    I want to wake up to find my Mistress beside me... Her head on my shoulder...  Her arm across my chest...  Her legs entwined in mine... And feel the sublime satisfaction that my ardore is reciprocated... Even if it is just a bit....

I have had D/s relationships with and with-out,
I ache for "with."