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Acer49 -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/28/2009 1:48:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SirsLass

[sm=imnewhere.gif] and have a very serious question. Why would a Master want to keep a slave who can't live up to her end of the dynamic? Things were fine when they began but with the economy and job loss everything has changed drastically (car breaks, can't afford to fix, etc...) she learned late in the game that she was expected to foot all financial aspects of the relationship,  supply all toy's and do all the traveling. she has begged for release. It has been denied. Just can't figure out the point of keeping her only to make her acutely feel her failure. Please advise. Thank you.


No, you should not be required to foot the whole financial bill. and just because he will not release you. it ultimately does not stop one from ending a relationship. Because of health issues, it is a wise idea for you to have your own toys depending on the type of playing you are doing




windchymes -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/28/2009 2:28:27 PM)

Seven months is hardly "down the drain" material.  Hell, you can't even have a baby in seven months (well, normally...you know what I mean).  Chalk seven months up to a few good times, a few lessons learned and move on.  If he won't "release" you, shut off the computer and move on.




antipode -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/28/2009 2:46:37 PM)

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begged for release. It has been denied



If you find that acceptable, why are you whining? What kind of advice do you want, considering you have painted yourself into this corner?




CaringandReal -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/28/2009 3:14:43 PM)

You've painted a bleak picture here. Was there anything about this relationship that was/is good and sustaining you?




DesFIP -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/28/2009 4:39:22 PM)

I expected this to be written by a 20 year old. Unless you're just out of a convent, you've had a relationship or two that lasted longer than 7 months in the past and then ended. Yet suddenly you've decided to retire to the old subs home because you picked somebody with your gonads, not with your head. Or do you always make stupid decisions in dating? Because if so, then yes you should quit inflicting your issues on others and go work on them so that you are capable of telling the good guys from the bad and refuse to date the bad ones.

The only constant in all your relationships is you. So why did you pick this one?




GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 6:07:27 AM)

OP:
meet him once more and hten when he is not looking drop cans of tuna down the heat registers or fill the couch cushions with sardines and then depart saying
"Fuck you and the horse you rode in on.."

GM




IronBear -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 7:26:25 AM)

GM I love your way of thinking. I used to find if you were near the coast and had the time, collect a bag if shell fish like limpets etc and hide them under or in the seat of the car and if possible in the boot/trunk under the spare wheel or in any one of the hidey holes. Also somewhere is it is cold in the heater duct. believe me as they get rotten, which happens fast, the stench will linger and linger and even stick to clothes especially if the target or mark keeps favourite gear in the vehicle.

Don't Get Mad.
Get Even




allthatjaz -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 9:28:41 AM)

Or insert shrimps into his curtain poles. They stink and he will never find where the smells coming from. Eventually he will have to sell his house and if he's as tight arsed as he sounds he will take the curtain poles with him [:D]




IronBear -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 10:21:39 AM)

Evil. Most evil... Love it
Takes BDSM and Punishment to a new level me thinkest.At what stage I doth wonder do we take a serious look at world domination...




Missokyst -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:10:48 AM)

My god, that is brilliant! It reminded me of my brother, when as children he used to stick dirty socks between sofa cushions.

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Or insert shrimps into his curtain poles. They stink and he will never find where the smells coming from. Eventually he will have to sell his house and if he's as tight arsed as he sounds he will take the curtain poles with him [:D]





breatheasone -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:13:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirsLass

 Point taken. Thanks to all who replied. Seven months down the drain. You are all correct, she should have used her brain in the beginning. Maybe it's time to put away the toy bag and retire. Happiness to all in your quest for fulfillment.

Who is "she" i'm confused




IronBear -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:15:44 AM)

OP is writing in the third person I think so "she" is "I" to her




GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:16:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

GM I love your way of thinking.
Don't Get Mad.
Get Even


I'm flattered..[:D]
ever done the bleach in the gas tank thing??
GM




breatheasone -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:19:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

OP is writing in the third person I think so "she" is "I" to her

i thought so too....but no, because the OP refers to herself as me and i in the other posts....so i am confused as to who is being spoken of....




IronBear -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:20:32 AM)

Seen it done and have done the chlorine tablets in a drum of break fluid, blew the crap out of the car the drum was in too.. 




IronBear -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:23:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

OP is writing in the third person I think so "she" is "I" to her

i thought so too....but no, because the OP refers to herself as me and i in the other posts....so i am confused as to who is being spoken of....



Agreed but it sounds to me that she is feeling totally whipped and absolutely submissive and wants to go home to hide her head in shame.. Pity if that is the case though. She probably deserves far better and the right sort of bloke to bring her out and onwards. However unless she enlightens us it shall remain one of those mysteries surrounding us daily.




breatheasone -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 11:28:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

OP is writing in the third person I think so "she" is "I" to her

i thought so too....but no, because the OP refers to herself as me and i in the other posts....so i am confused as to who is being spoken of....



Agreed but it sounds to me that she is feeling totally whipped and absolutely submissive and wants to go home to hide her head in shame.. Pity if that is the case though. She probably deserves far better and the right sort of bloke to bring her out and onwards. However unless she enlightens us it shall remain one of those mysteries surrounding us daily.


Indeed, i too have (and probably will again) go off to lick my wounds. i usually slither back to life after they've scared over.....and scar tissue is stronger !![:D]




Rhodes85 -> RE: Feelings of failure is dimming her slave heart. (10/31/2009 9:40:09 PM)

'GM I love your way of thinking. I used to find if you were near the coast and had the time, collect a bag if shell fish like limpets etc and hide them under or in the seat of the car and if possible in the boot/trunk under the spare wheel or in any one of the hidey holes. Also somewhere is it is cold in the heater duct. believe me as they get rotten, which happens fast, the stench will linger and linger and even stick to clothes especially if the target or mark keeps favourite gear in the vehicle.'

LOL! Remind me never to piss you off [:D]

now I remember why I like Australian humor so much




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