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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (10/29/2009 9:25:57 PM)

I think you'd have to be a mental case  to mind if a sub politely courts you, unless you say in your profile I'm taken.

Who really has time to get upset over such petty things.

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

expresses interest, asks you out, .. asks you why you haven't written her today, etc. etc... ? I just wondered, because, I hate pursuing a guy and seems unnatural to me, and I'm terrififed it'd be very unbecomming to a Dom, but all the ones I like, for some reason freaking ignore me, and the other 99% won't go away, and it drives me crazy.




hermione83 -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (10/30/2009 10:32:32 PM)

Anything that doesn't involve a penis in an...




BoiJen -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (10/31/2009 9:25:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

Anything that doesn't involve a penis in an...


Wow...here I thought that sex was when there was intimate penetration of an orifice with anything primarily because even a dildo or finger or tongue can transmit an STD to your ass or your mouth. Ask those people with herpes or Hepatitis because of these very same activities without precaution.

Then again...I just did sexual education outreach for a while. What do I know?

Ever being astounded by the less than educated...

Now pardon me...I need to go inform the Ma'am that we don't have sex because there's not a penis involved. It should give Her a good laugh.

boi




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (10/31/2009 9:34:36 AM)

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I need to go inform the Ma'am that we don't have sex because there's not a penis involved. It should give Her a good laugh.


Awwww don't do that boi, she'll be crushed that all this time she's been doing it wrong. You know how sensitive those D types are.




hermione83 -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (10/31/2009 11:47:18 PM)

ERr, but he asked what the difference between anal sex and anal play. Tongue would be under the oral *sex* category as well. How could you could an STD from your dildo btw, seriously??!




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (11/1/2009 3:39:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hermione83

ERr, but he asked what the difference between anal sex and anal play. Tongue would be under the oral *sex* category as well. How could you could an STD from your dildo btw, seriously??!


Are you talking to me? If so I'm confused. BTW boijen is female.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (11/1/2009 4:19:50 AM)

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Then again...I just did sexual education outreach for a while. What do I know?

Ever being astounded by the less than educated...

Now pardon me...I need to go inform the Ma'am that we don't have sex because there's not a penis involved. It should give Her a good laugh.


Shockingly Jen, education is best proffered without snide remarks.  People tend to learn better when they don't have their defenses up because the educator makes fun of them.  Unless of course your goal is to merely taunt and say "na na na na na na I know more than you do!"

And for the record Hermione - I do believe there is a difference between anal sex and anal play.  Where that difference is lies for each person perhaps differently.  Heck even the former President couldn't define his own line for where "sex" and "oral sex" met, overlapped, or were differentiated.

To me *and perhaps ONLY for me* anal sex is truly about having penetration with a penis or penis like implement.  Anal play is rimming, fingering, and scat.

YMMV,
sunshine




Justme696 -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (11/1/2009 4:31:17 AM)

I don't mind them contacting me.
Always nice to meet new people..and who knows what happens.
Even if you just become friends...you gained something.




Level -> RE: Do you dislike it if a sub writes you first... (11/1/2009 4:38:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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Then again...I just did sexual education outreach for a while. What do I know?

Ever being astounded by the less than educated...

Now pardon me...I need to go inform the Ma'am that we don't have sex because there's not a penis involved. It should give Her a good laugh.


Shockingly Jen, education is best proffered without snide remarks.  People tend to learn better when they don't have their defenses up because the educator makes fun of them.  Unless of course your goal is to merely taunt and say "na na na na na na I know more than you do!"

Agreed. But I also agree with jen on the defintion of sex.

And for the record Hermione - I do believe there is a difference between anal sex and anal play.  Where that difference is lies for each person perhaps differently.  Heck even the former President couldn't define his own line for where "sex" and "oral sex" met, overlapped, or were differentiated.

He "could" have, he just didn't want to.





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