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angelikaJ -> RE: Do you think hes serious? (10/30/2009 8:35:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: monaslave
I could not see any marriage signs anywhere.
bi-polar? and how are they?
it might sound crazy but he really have an ability to talk for himself, and I tend to give ppl the bennefit of doubt,
especially if we have much in common. and no hes never been allowed dominate me,hes asked me several times,
if I want him as my DOM [:-] but I said I cant know that before we meet and later more than that.
(in the beginning he wondered why he only met 20 years old subs,and nobody elder,and I also questioned that,
but again,bennefit of doubts.. and 20 years old can be just as good enough so didnt really thought about it)
I am BAD at seeing SIGNS, my senses are blurred because of past abuse.
I AM over the abuse but Ive always been blurred about right that spot.
but Im also the type to give bennefit of doubt. and too nice. and also hes been pulling me around most of the times,
he sounded quite normal! this comes as a surprise. its obvious,he couldnt handle my emotions,for some reason. but what reason?
No, you aren't over the abuse.
If it is interfering with your ability to make good choices, then you are not over it and should seek counseling.
For him to handle your emotions he would have to care about them first, and it seems rather obvious that he does not.
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