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PainfullyCurious -> RE: Begging (11/3/2009 7:12:05 AM)

Eye contact during begging then.. Good. These are the subtle things I want to know about. Thank You!

As a matter of fact when I get my next question worked out right in my head I am going to start a new thread . Please stop in and give your input. I'll need feedback from people who are detail oriented.



mnottertail -> RE: Begging (11/3/2009 7:33:06 AM)

well, PC, someone already said it....beg like a dog does, plaintive look, look unwaveringly, in the, eyes be all ears (attention) to subtle signals.....



Andalusite -> RE: Begging (11/3/2009 8:24:44 AM)

I'm with lucylucy on this one, LanceHughes. My Master orders me to beg for things (or for him to *stop* doing something) at times, but I don't usually initiate it. I do sometimes request something, but if he says no, or "I'll think about it," I don't nag. My previous Dominant had a similar stance on begging. I have trouble begging for (or against) something unless I really do want it, since it feels a bit fake/insincere. For asking him to stop something, he'll usually do something I actively dislike, but which isn't likely to do any damage, at the same time. That way, I genuinely want him to stop! I try to be polite and respectful, but sometimes in the middle of a scene, I'm barely coherent.



Huntertn -> RE: Begging (11/3/2009 7:42:34 PM)

having them beg can be a big turn on.beg to cum,beg you not to turn the vib on low[lol]beg  to be allowed to wear the clovers with weights longer...betg not to wear that all yellow outfit to the mall on Sundays...grins..the list goes on and on...



lucylucy -> RE: Begging (11/3/2009 8:01:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

however, begging shows my willingness to prostrate myself before Him humbly. with the understanding He is not beholden to me and will respond according to what He deems appropriate, not my pleas.


I had overlooked this comment of porcelaine's earlier. For me, it's really important that I not expect a certain result from my begging. My boyfriend usually lets me have what I'm begging for (usually an orgasm or permission to masturbate), but I still have to beg with the understanding that I may not get what I want. When he finally gives me permission to cum or masturbate, I am always surprised. Sometimes I even say, "Really?" because I'm so surprised.



PainfullyCurious -> RE: Begging (11/4/2009 9:39:14 AM)

What's a clover?



agirl -> RE: Begging (11/4/2009 12:27:32 PM)

clover clamps..... sometimes applied to nipples or labia.

agirl



PainfullyCurious -> RE: Begging (11/4/2009 1:56:56 PM)

Thank You



SirRussellP -> RE: Begging (11/4/2009 5:36:13 PM)

Begging as in all things we do in this Life is up to the couple in the relationship. 

I personally want to be begged, not all the time but often.  When she learns that begging pleases me and makes me know that I own her, she learns how to beg quickly.  It does get her things that just requested I would say no too, not everything she begs for but those that I would be iffy about.

Russell



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Begging (11/5/2009 2:22:32 PM)

I'm not answering your question till you BEG... [;)]




DesFIP -> RE: Begging (11/5/2009 2:48:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PainfullyCurious

What's a clover?


Probably the most painful nipple clamps around.



sophiesback -> RE: Begging (11/5/2009 11:58:40 PM)

i know i had read part of this posting  before tonight. WHY none of it stuck with me before i just totally got my ass in trouble once again, is beyond me! Master is now extremely angry because i was told no and so i started begging. Begging was obviously NOT a good idea, but Sir gave in....Sir is giving me what i was begging for and then told me my begging would cost me.  i'm so freaking scared right now.

Begging is Bad
Begging is Bad
Begging is Bad
Begging is Bad
Begging is Bad
Begging is Bad



DesFIP -> RE: Begging (11/6/2009 5:29:11 AM)

 

He's punishing you because he can't say no? His inability to stop you if he really believed this is something you shouldn't have is his fault, not yours. You didn't twist his arm to force him to change his mind. Who is in charge in the relationship anyway?








sunshinemiss -> RE: Begging (11/6/2009 5:51:52 AM)

I don't know. I LOVE spinning. I don't find it... you know ... masochistic. It's hard, but I love how good I feel afterwards and it's such a great workout. The key is to not do more than you can do. Just keep pedaling.

As for begging.... sigh....



PainfullyCurious -> RE: Begging (11/6/2009 6:05:22 AM)

I see the point there. He is not letting the begging change his mind one way or another. He wanted to give it to you and will not let your actions change that... It's the begging itself he'll adress... separately.
I think I get it.



sophiesback -> RE: Begging (11/10/2009 4:14:45 PM)

Guess what? Sir didn't give me what i begged for, only told me that He would to get me to shut up apparently...and i've not been allowed to see Sir since.   *Sigh*   i suck!



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