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RE: Face slapping - 3/8/2006 11:47:45 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Even if it wasn't a hard medical limit for me to engage, I would be too concerned about breaking a nail to actually slap someone in the face. ;)

Celeste

LMAO thanks for the laugh. As the slappee rather than the slapper, my nails remain intact :)

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RE: Face slapping - 3/9/2006 7:18:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Ok I researched this and all I found was a wanker thread and mentions of it as an aside in other threads--so

I adress this to Mistress' more than Masters, though everyone is open to respond but I noticed the female subs for the most part did not like this in their world--( and lets not go the abuse route, ok?)--but I am curious Mistress' how many of you incorporate this, to what extent, how did you get started, what does it do for your submissive? And any times it went wrong?


I enjoy face slapping quite a bit. I guess for me its kind of humbling and also kinnd of makes me feel fairly small. Usually its prefaced with some begging for the face slapping and these days in the context of sex. Its a good tool for making someone very aware instantly, I think.

A few years ago we had talked about face slapping, tried it once and it didn't do much at that time for either of us. Nothing went wrong that time, it just didn't click for whatever reason. Then a few months ago he just started doing it and it really clicked for us.

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RE: Face slapping - 3/9/2006 5:31:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Ok I researched this and all I found was a wanker thread and mentions of it as an aside in other threads--so

I adress this to Mistress' more than Masters, though everyone is open to respond but I noticed the female subs for the most part did not like this in their world--( and lets not go the abuse route, ok?)--but I am curious Mistress' how many of you incorporate this, to what extent, how did you get started, what does it do for your submissive? And any times it went wrong?


About two years ago I slapped my partner. It came as a shock to him and me also.
I personal like the feel of me hitting him. He was into pain and I was more then happy to give it to him.
Only once it went wrong. I hit him in anger. Even though it was a way to get my point across I won't do that again.

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RE: Face slapping - 3/12/2006 5:28:54 PM   
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I remember that thread, seems if I recall correctly there was rather the uproar from the female submissives.

My take, I do slap my little ones face. We have a rather entangled split personality relationship, lol. We have a rather involved Daddy/little girl side, and a Master/slave relationshp fit within. Daddy would neve slap her, Master on the other hand has rather the sadistic streak. She will tell you she can see distinct diffrences in me depending on the moment, but that rather off topic for the moment. She wondered at first why I was angry with her or what she did wrong when I slapped her, she has since come to understand that I am neither, it really is no different than me taking the crop to her. Though it can illicit a very strong response and without doubt gets her attention and works deeply on a power exchange level with us.. I have never slapped her in anger, nor hit her in anger the last time a spanking was part of her punishement it was performed the day after, when eveything and everyone had calmed. I most cetainly make sure I am in control of the motion of my arm,and the contact point, it is entirely balanced for effect and with care that she is never harmed. Depending on how hard she is slapped my off hand is next to her face so her head can't spin to the side, or often she is lying on the bed and her head can not be bounced or jerked to the side.

I have big hands, big arms, and strong as the proverbial bull, so I always take great care, with what ever I am striking her with, to not let my strength get away from me.

K

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RE: Face slapping - 3/12/2006 5:49:24 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		I have often been asked about and for face slapping. It is not something with which I am particularly comfortable. I can and will do it if seems natural at the moment, but it is not something I incorporate as a norm.
I have never been able to achieve a comfort level with face slapping for whatever reason. I can grab by the back of the neck, pull hair, force a boy to his knees, and all other manner of quick discipline. I am small (read short), and I have been in the habit of raising My high heeled foot and pushing a boy down with that. Maybe it has something to do with My height. No idea, really.
But face slapping is not, never has been, and may never be, in My normal realm of discipline.

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RE: Face slapping - 3/12/2006 8:13:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Even if it wasn't a hard medical limit for me to engage, I would be too concerned about breaking a nail to actually slap someone in the face. ;)

Celeste


ROFL

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