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ORIGINAL: vicioustoy

Hello, Masters.

I am new to the notion of finding Masters online and I'm in a bit of a quandry here.
In brief, for the last month I've been speaking with a Master I adore and really click with.
However, he has made excuses as to why we could not meet last week, the week before etc despite the fact that he maintains that he wants to and we will. It really seems like he's just pulling all punches to get out of meeting. We even had a deadline for meeting which fell through because he got "ill."
I do not know whether to give him the benefit of the doubt or believe I am getting toyed with (and not in the fun way).

Also, he has been neglecting me. Our communications went from constant to basically rare and he is basically ignoring me . He does not respond to my texts or emails, despite my telling him that I am beginning to lose faith in him but when he does reply he again maintains that I am "stuck" with him and we will meet etc etc etc.
It has been one week since he went from doting to barely around.
Is he keeping me on the line so to speak?

I figure these are the possibilities:

- He has been a fraud since day one, lying about
his physique, marital status or something else and knows
he can never meet and therefore has been leading me on for his own pathetic jollies.

- He is just an ass and he is getting off on messing with me.

- He is telling the truth about his excuses, is merely busy and this is all coincidental.

Of course I am (stupidly?) hoping for entry #3.

Have I been "velcro collared"?
Why would he continue contact if he has lost interest and just wants out?

Any feedback is appreciated on this matter.
I am rather distraught over this.
I thank you in advance.

Thank you.

V

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ORIGINAL: vicioustoy

His loss. Big time.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

And my cock size gets REALLY  big online.

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ORIGINAL: vicioustoy

Hello, Masters.

I am new to the notion of finding Masters online and I'm in a bit of a quandry here.
In brief, for the last month I've been speaking with a Master I adore and really click with.
However, he has made excuses as to why we could not meet last week, the week before etc despite the fact that he maintains that he wants to and we will. It really seems like he's just pulling all punches to get out of meeting. We even had a deadline for meeting which fell through because he got "ill."
I do not know whether to give him the benefit of the doubt or believe I am getting toyed with (and not in the fun way).

Also, he has been neglecting me. Our communications went from constant to basically rare and he is basically ignoring me . He does not respond to my texts or emails, despite my telling him that I am beginning to lose faith in him but when he does reply he again maintains that I am "stuck" with him and we will meet etc etc etc.
It has been one week since he went from doting to barely around.
Is he keeping me on the line so to speak?

I figure these are the possibilities:

- He has been a fraud since day one, lying about
his physique, marital status or something else and knows
he can never meet and therefore has been leading me on for his own pathetic jollies.

- He is just an ass and he is getting off on messing with me.

- He is telling the truth about his excuses, is merely busy and this is all coincidental.

Of course I am (stupidly?) hoping for entry #3.

Have I been "velcro collared"?
Why would he continue contact if he has lost interest and just wants out?

Any feedback is appreciated on this matter.
I am rather distraught over this.
I thank you in advance.

Thank you.

V

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ORIGINAL: vicioustoy

Ohhh yes. I've learned this. And me with my lamentable height/size fetish.
I'm such a sitting duck!

Edited to say: So it seems, men are always taller with bigger dicks online and women are always smaller with less emotional baggage. hehe.

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

At best, it sounds like he's just not in a place in his life where he has the proper focus to place on you. At worst, he has lost interest and you should be cutting your losses. Is what you have acceptable to you? Have you asked him why the contact has dwindled? Are you willing to wait while he sorts out life circumstances or do you want to continue your search? There is really nothing lost or gained at this point. What is right for you at this time?

lovingpet

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: vicioustoy

Again, I hear it and know you are right.
I have a lamentable fetish (I'm seldom able to see men under like 6'3 as Dominants) and maybe I was just stupified over finding a 6'5 local Dominant who didn't already own a pet.

So?  I'm 5'9" in RL but 6'8" online.  And my cock size gets REALLY  big online.

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Also, he has been neglecting me. Our communications went from constant to basically rare and he is basically ignoring me. He is simply not that into you. Warningsign I - He does not respond to my texts or emails, despite my telling him that I am beginning to lose faith in him. and i would hope the faith is gone by now....truly.  Warningsign II -  but when he does reply he again maintains that I am "stuck" with him and we will meet etc etc etc. And he only bothers to reply probably after you have sent teardripping and sad/scared to lose You messages - and he feels big by replying...Warningsign III
It has been one week since he went from doting to barely around - He has now found someone else to string alone - that in his eyes seems to be less maintenance or easier to string along. Warningsign IV
Is he keeping me on the line so to speak