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Slipstreme -> RE: A search for the illusive (3/8/2006 1:40:04 PM)
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He seeks her first as a person, just as is done for any relationship. Finds out who she is and develops from there.
No one can expect a relationship to start off at the very first, and there is no right or wrong way to go about searching for the one.
The chemistry between two people must work for anything to happen. Sure, there is no guarantee the women nearest you are the right type of gal, however, coming to this board is a good step in finding someone who shares your ideas of D/s. Again, though, even with that in mind, there is no way to tell whether it will work out or not. The only thing you can do is try and see.
It is like asking for what makes a good submissive or a good Dominant. Each individual's opinion on who or what that should be is different, aside from some common points. (which there have been many threads on, I'm sure LA can point you in the right direction, or you can search for the threads using the forum search option.)
But ultimately it all boils down to this single observation: what works for someone doesn't work for everyone.
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