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Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 4:54:44 PM

MUSCLEPHILLY

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I'm lost. I've been on this board for a few years now, and not sure where I fit into the community, but I want to find a home. I'm a bisexual seeking a monogamous relationship... either as a cuckolded male (with a female dom) or a sub (for a male dom). I am financially stable and emotionally available. I'm also a parent, and not sure where parenthood fits into the whole community... and can someone be a sub or a slave and a parent at the same time. I'd appreciate everyone's thoughts.

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 5:59:19 PM

CarrieO

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Welcome.

Now, to address your question. I looked at your profile and there are some discrepancies I'd like to point out. You joined in '05 and while in the body of your profile you say you're 40, you're listed as being 44. You say on this thread you're a sub but your profile has you listed as a switch. You make no mention of being a parent, if this is important...you may want to do so. Your profile is sparse and offers nothing of who you are and what you're looking for beyond being owned by either a man or woman 24/7.

Take the time and effort to make use of your profile as a form of advertising. You are product and yet there is nothing of you offered.
Do you "fit into the community"? Only you can answer that. You say you seek a home...home is where you lay you hat. It all depends on whether or not you choose to hang it on a hook or throw it on the table...as long as its a place of your choosing.

Good luck and do what you think is right.

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 6:02:11 PM

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CarrieO, if I ever need an investigator about anything on these boards, I swear it is going to be you. I think you have an exceptional trait of attention to detail. Something a lot of people don't have.

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 6:04:58 PM

CarrieO

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LadyPact,

I will take that as a compliment and offer my investigative services any time you need them! Thank you.

I think I may have missed my calling. BTW...thanks for the chuckle, I needed it.

< Message edited by CarrieO -- 10/31/2009 6:05:43 PM >

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 7:20:46 PM

sunshinemiss

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Hello Philly,
ahhh yes, Philadelphia - where I began my little jaunt into kinkidom.... sigh... fond memories.

You know there are GOBS of people in Philadelphia who are into kink. Heck, just go to the Bike Stop, and you'll find all kinds of great guys there! I used to go there quite a lot. There is a thriving community there. I looked at the website - a lot going on next weekend! Have fun.

There is one little question I have... just to make sure you're thinking this through... You say you want to be monogamous but you are interested in being cuckolded. In my head those two are opposites. Just a thought.

Good luck in your search,
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Hey there Carrie - nice tag line *wink

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 10/31/2009 8:30:30 PM

MUSCLEPHILLY

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I need to update my profile. I have been to the Bike Stop before... good bar.. but not a place to meet women. I am interested in being cuckolded. I want to be monogamous. If I'm with a woman, I understand that she wouldn't be monogamous, but I would be. Thanks for everyone's thoughts.

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 11/1/2009 2:17:08 AM

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RE: Where do I fit in? - 11/1/2009 4:23:32 AM

sunshinemiss

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Hello Philly,

Thank you for the clarification.

sigh, I miss the bike stop and all the raucous things there. I went to a deaf leather event there once - eerily quiet.

And of course all things leather go on there... at least for the queers. *Although I remember the Miss Philly Leather Contest and there were a bunch of straight people there, but I spose people change. If nothing else, they could probalby point you in the right direction.

Good luck in your search....
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