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Lucienne -> Budding sadist or pedadogy kink? (11/1/2009 9:04:41 AM)
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I'm generally disinterested in an online-only relationship. When I get correspondence from someone in Europe it usually looks like spam (a generic message and search parameters that extend across the Ocean) and I ignore it. Well, last night I received a cmail from a young man in Ireland requesting that I punish and humiliate him. I was feeling wicked. The boy assured me he was willing to do anything. So I told him to read Finnegan's Wake and write me a 1000 word book report. He does not appear to be very bright. I told him to procure a copy of the book, take a picture of himself with it, then send me the pic as a testament to his sincerity.
Now, I don't expect to hear from the poor dear again (although he did say "ok" to the picture request). But after this exchange, I thought about it and decided that I actually would get a kick out forcing men to read books. I like learning, and helping others learn. I'm generous with my offers to share what I know with others, and have been told that I'm quite helpful. And the thought of commanding some incurious man to expand his mind and have him do it excites me.
So, two questions.
1. Is it bad to toy with boys who are asking to be punished? What limits do you put on yourself in this regard? I have an intellectual sadistic streak in me that I normally contain, but I find it hard to do so in the context of CMs from these men begging to be humiliated. It would be so easy for me to do so, but I worry that it's not the type of humiliation they're looking for. And, most importantly, I'm not inclined to get to know them well enough to learn the precise contours of their need to be humiliated. Which makes me think I should not engage them, even if it's for a limited bit of fun. What say you, Mistresses?
2. What I've styled as a pedagogy kink, anyone known someone into this, or are into it themselves? (Other than Susan Sarandon in Bull Durham). It seems that a great deal of being a Mistress, or Master, is helping the formation of the sub. So my desire seems quite consistent with that overall theme. No different than requiring a sub to eat healthy meals or work out. But I don't see people discussing this aspect. I wonder if people out there would be interested in this sort of service.
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