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sodsta -> Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 1:55:25 PM)

It's already been established that rape fantasies are one of the most common sexual fantasies among a lot of submissive people. In fact, rape fantasies are fairly common among even the most vanilla of individuals, so I wanted to find out just how common these fantasies were across the board by asking if there are many Dominants (male or female) who have rape fantasies in which they are the *victim* as opposed to the rapist.

Is the fantasy of being taken and ravished against your will as common for self-identified Dom/mes as it is for subs?

I am guessing the balance of subs and Dom/mes with rape/victim fantasies will be slightly uneven, but I thought it would be interesting to ask and see what the numbers were like.

Thanks for any input. :)



kccuckoldmist -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 2:00:49 PM)

Rape fantasy, no.

Now being taken hard and rough by a man in a way that overpowers my feelings in away that I start to feed and enjoy their lust for me that I really get into it then heck yes.

But no rape fantasies in terms of some stranger and against my will.




littlewonder -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 4:53:43 PM)

No rape fantasies here He just takes what he wants and since I'm giving myself to him to do as  he pleases it's not against my will and I never see myself as a victim.

I have a feeling that you won't see many dom/mes with a fantasy of being a victim or being taken against their will..kinda defeats the whole purpose of being a dom/me doesn't it?



Lockit -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 5:39:51 PM)

Beastly sex... yes.

Rape fantasy... none whatsoever.

The real deal assured me that I would never have that fantasy.



Hierodule -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 5:41:10 PM)

I have a persuit/takedown/capture gang bang fantasy. A very specific one that involves roller skates... but I'm a sub[:)]



LadyPact -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 5:44:25 PM)

No interest here as the receiver.  It just doesn't do anything for Me.

Could be related to the fact that I *like* being the person who has the control.



GoddessImaginos -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 5:45:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kccuckoldmist
Now being taken hard and rough by a man in a way that overpowers my feelings in away that I start to feed and enjoy their lust for me that I really get into it then heck yes.


Oh My. This just made Me think "Klingon sex" and the hair on My arms stood straight up. I'd love some, thanx.
Rape fantasies, however, just pour gasoline on My (finely-tuned) fight-or-flight reflex, and it's quite possible that someone would get hurt..



egyptofreak -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 6:24:15 PM)

As a real thing?  No, and disgusting.

As a fantasy?  Yes, as a vehicle for  being captured by victim and friends and made  to pay  dearly for the transgression.



DesFIP -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 6:39:15 PM)

Does he have a rape fantasy? No. The desire for me to be out of my mind with lust and not take no for an answer? Yes.

Actually he's had that fulfilled, sort of. Occasionally he will play with me in his sleep. I have been known to wake him up and demand he do something about it because I'm half crazed and I won't get any sleep until I'm satisfied.

For some reason he enjoys this despite the fact that I wind up waking him and he has difficulty going back to sleep. Talk about smug!



Reform -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 7:30:38 PM)

Well, I'm a switch, not a domme, but I do have rape fantasies. Both being taken and the giver. Not at the same time obviously.

Make no mistakes, I have no desire or wish to be raped for real. I've had one close encounter and that was bad enough.



Lashra -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 8:43:18 PM)

Rape fantasy? No, I never want to be a victim as to me that just is not sexy or hot in anyway. I do however like rough sex and I can seriously get into clawing, biting and taking what I want from my man. He never initiates it but does get into the flow of things. After we are done we are both bruised, sore, clawed, bitten and very happy. [:D]

~Lashra



pompeii -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 10:59:30 PM)

It's not rape fantasy for anyone I've ever met. They just want to be taken by someone they want to be taken by. Call it what you will, but, that's the closest I've ever come across to a rape fantasy. And, I daresay, I've obliged them as pure driven animalistic desire is a wonderful thing between two consenting adults!



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 11:10:46 PM)

You can't rape the WILLING!!!  [:D]




MasterJack53 -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/6/2009 11:51:43 PM)

I have a couple rape fantasy stories I help my slaves fullfill. Anyone wants to see them email me at [email protected] and Ill send them to you. Master Jack



MadameMarque -> RE: Rape Fantasies: Dom/mes as victims. (11/7/2009 12:21:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

You can't rape the WILLING!!!  [:D]



That's why it's called a 'fantasy,' of course! 



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