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TenderBlade -> Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 12:05:07 AM)
Do we develop more fetishes with time ? A fetish resulting into another fetish? Finally turning a person into a complete submissive ,who has all kind of fetishes. . Anything which is an act of submission?

GreedyTop -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 12:10:40 AM)
it depends on the person.

choccywoc -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 1:54:09 AM)
I would agree, it depends on the person. As time goes by i'm always looking for new avenues of excitement. As for being submissive, if you are a submissive, you will be a submissive for life.

ExiledVanity -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 4:04:13 AM)
i tend to gain fetishes that long term partners have, ex, i knew a girl big into drag/forced cross dressing which influenced my own fetish list, iv tried things that i got sick of as well. it depends on the person, i find my own grow and fade over time.

DesFIP -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 6:10:27 AM)
A person who is driven by fetishes is slave to the fetish, not to a dominant. Now if you're talking not a true fetish but just interest in different play activities, not necessarily. Could just turn them into a kinky bottom with a wide range of interest. Liking to get spanked does not mean you want someone else directing your life. Likewise, the fact that you enjoy inflicting pain makes you a sadist, it does not de facto make you someone who wants control over when their partner washes the dishes, or changes jobs.

LadyPact -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 7:01:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP A person who is driven by fetishes is slave to the fetish, not to a dominant. Thank you, Des. This is very specifically where many males confuse the two and then wonder why no one has interest in their "submission". Being fetish driven does not a submissive make.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 7:15:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TenderBlade Do we develop more fetishes with time ? A fetish resulting into another fetish? i wouldn't say that one necessarily develops more fetishes with time. However, i have found that the more things i am exposed to, the more things i find that i like. If you are an open-minded sub and are open to trying new things, most Dommes/Doms can probably introduce you to new activities that you may find that you enjoy. Personally, i had to be introduced to areas like rope play, electrical play, knife play, wax play, public play, being cuckolded, and forced feminization. i was surprised to find that i enjoyed several of these activities. i wouldn't say that any of them became "fetishes", but with time and experience, the list of activities that you enjoy is certain to grow.

bifunlady -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 12:57:54 PM)
quote: i wouldn't say that one necessarily develops more fetishes with time. However, i have found that the more things i am exposed to, the more things i find that i like. Truer words have not been spoken.

trueshadow -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 1:23:39 PM)
From my perspective, I don't think one develops fetishes as one ages. I think most fetishes are developed while quite young. Just my opinion. You could probably beat me out of it.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 8:11:42 PM)
Yes. I have known many slaves who learn of new fetishes they have as they experiment and get to know themselves more. Also a person who likes someone maybe attracted to them so much that they are willing to try a new fetish and begin to like it because they like that person so much. There are a number of reasons. I hope to mold a new slave into liking serving Me. Thus I am creating a new fetish for that slave; servitude.

aladdinsane -> RE: Fetishes and submission (11/7/2009 8:37:54 PM)
Yes. My vampire fetish became also a hypnosis fetish and they developed into plain old submission.

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