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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:34:16 PM   
Lockit


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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:42:05 PM   
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LOL Dream on...


No kidding.  The big surprise, though, is that AZ actually had sex with someone. 

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:55:25 PM   
LadyPact


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Makes you wonder if the lil woman at home knew about that one, considering it sounded like unprotected sex.


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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:28:40 PM   
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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 12:56:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL Dream on...


No kidding.  The big surprise, though, is that AZ actually had sex with someone. 


Yeah, it would be a big surprise if I met a real woman at CM to have sex with.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 1:03:08 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Yes, it would, considering most of them aren't interested in males cheating on their wife.

I have to wonder which part of that is difficult for you to understand.


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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 1:16:07 AM   
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Not if he paid for it. 

Makes you wonder if the lil woman at home knew about that one, considering it sounded like unprotected sex.



Do you do dress like a nurse when you role play as a CDC investigator?

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 6:11:34 AM   
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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 7:25:39 AM   
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Not if he paid for it. 

Makes you wonder if the lil woman at home knew about that one, considering it sounded like unprotected sex.



Do you do dress like a nurse when you role play as a CDC investigator?



LP dressed as a nurse?  Hot, hot, hot! 

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 7:27:20 AM   
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What about Cut, Color and Clarity?  Don't they count?



You know how women are:  all we want is a big, hard rock.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 7:55:48 AM   
amy19808


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It is common for a male to lose his submissiveness once he orgasms if he is only submissive when sexually aroused. A "bedroom slave" or "sex slave".

Plus, you might be enjoying "making" the Mistress cater to your demands and topping from the bottom with a power struggle game more than you enjoy submitting. Could you perhaps be slightly resentful of Women?




I am certainly not resentful of Women. I have found that after orgasm, the immediate reaction is that I dont to be fed cum, and I get this manly feeling in me. However, give me 15-20 minutes, and I end up saying to my self "I wish i could have been forced to eat the cum."

I know the idea of O-Ring was suggested, do you have any other recomendations such as that?

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 8:08:58 AM   
DominaGea


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Status: offline 		I know how *I've* done it before. I give oral sex and once it's in my mouth, smile sweetly and kiss the boy - pushing it in his mouth as a surprise. If he tried not to swallow, there are ways of encouraging it. <veg>

Yes, I'm one of the (apparently) rare, truly female Mistresses who have sex with my subs. I enjoy sex (since menopause) and have actively sought out boys to serve as my sex slave.

I won't go into how I end up giving oral sex during play. I know it sounds like I'm the submissive here, but believe me, I make it work.

Anyway - my 2 cents worth .....

BTW - soooo many men seem to love for women to accept it - what makes the men any better than us? (Especially one who claims to be a submissive?) Also, after they have given us oral sex, most want to kiss us - soooo we're eating OUR cum, aren't we? Again, what makes men so much "better" than to NOT accept it??

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 8:09:39 AM   
txurinal


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Status: offline 		i have a MASTER who only allows me to cum once a week. i have also been told to consume all of it. i realize that the fantasies in our head fade quickly afer orgasm but you have to just do it.

i do not remember the 1st time i ate my cum but i am sure i proably did not care much for it but the more you taste it, the less "nasty" it is and you willsoon get to want to eat

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 8:10:56 AM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		I hate to be cynical (because, of course, I never am), but you either want to do this or you don't.  I doubt very much that the words of a bunch of strangers will have much impact on changing your mindset, and that is the thing that needs to be changed.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 8:39:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Not if he paid for it. 

Makes you wonder if the lil woman at home knew about that one, considering it sounded like unprotected sex.



Do you do dress like a nurse when you role play as a CDC investigator?



LP dressed as a nurse?  Hot, hot, hot! 


Thank you, V.  LOL.

As to the comment prior to that, there actually is a gentleman of My acquaintance from SC who does work for the CDC.  He's a very prominent member of the leather community.  He's probably one of the best resources for outreach that I have ever met.  Often, he'll bring his 'bag o' tricks' to parties and events (condoms, both latex and non, dental dams, etc.) to encourage people in the practice of safe sex, rather than risk disease.

It is completely unfair to risk the health of a partner at home who is not knowledgeable of sexual exploits outside the relationship.  All it proves, AZ, is that you don't really give a damn about her.  If you're having unprotected sex, you don't give a damn about the women you're cheating on her with, either.  You only care about yourself.





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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 9:59:29 AM   
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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 10:00:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: amy19808
I am certainly not resentful of Women. I have found that after orgasm, the immediate reaction is that I dont to be fed cum, and I get this manly feeling in me. However, give me 15-20 minutes, and I end up saying to my self "I wish i could have been forced to eat the cum."

I know the idea of O-Ring was suggested, do you have any other recomendations such as that?


So I understand what you are saying as I have also experienced this thing.  For a number of years, it was the female clothes that -had- to come off immediately after climax.  I have done a lot of thinking about this as these days, climaxing makes me feel even more feminine, and frankly, submissive.

I put up a post about evolution in another topic here on the Mistresses forum.  I believe that what you are experiencing is a desire that you have not taken the time to really explore in yourself, process, and actually integrate.  It is not the act of cum eating I am talking about, it is integrating the desire for sexual connection with your partner, feeling at home in your female-self, and coming to terms with who you are. 

I did not set out to intentionally do this myself, I think it just sort of happened.  Once I became really -okay- with who I was inside, then bumps like that rush after climax were not events that made me feel different, they actually made me feel more of who I actually was.  There was no longer part of me sort of agitating against myself if you take my meaning.

Sort of a Zen of Transexualism thing I know...but hey, it seemed to work for me! 

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 10:12:16 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Mal, the difference between poly and cheating is simple.  Cheating is done without the consent/knowledge of all parties.  Poly is done with consent/knowledge.

It's like the difference between making love and rape.  Exact same things from a physical point of view, but vastly different.


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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 10:22:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm laughing a little inside at the CM junkies. Not that I'm not one of them....

Anyways, guys often loose a great deal of energy because of the sudden drop in endorphins. That kills the the chemical process that drives fantasies. Now, I might suggest owning up to who you are with yourself about this stuff before approaching a Domme, pro or not. And when you've re-evaluated what want, then figure out what you need to get there.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/8/2009 10:38:53 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I missed the part about the CM junkies.... lol.

I do have to agree with the part about how it shouldn't end up there by default.  Part of that goes back directly to some of the things that Otters wrote in his prior post.  Some of it is the wanting the acceptance and so on so much is part of what draws certain folks to us.  The combination of the two concepts of ownership and acceptance of the whole person has got to have amazing appeal.

There's nothing wrong with wanting that.  I think as humans, we all want that.  Yet, I think the examination of the reasons behind it could be fascinating discussion and might help some folks who are asking those questions in themselves.


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