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RE: basic questions - 3/13/2006 1:23:15 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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As MsSonnetMarwood has already stated, when you approach something with the attitude than you think it is pretty submissive sexual behavior, but it is a turn on for you and what you want, it isn't submissive at all. You are after your own pleasure, and not really concerning yourself with the person on the receiving end of your ministrations.
I consider the acts you are seeking to be extremely intimate, and I would not engage in them except with a long term partner.
And I am a part time Pro...
Best of luck.

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RE: basic questions - 3/22/2006 11:19:16 AM

SenseANDseamus

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I am glad to have come across this website and have had a chance to explore areas of interest shared by Puck. Although my intentions have been to explore how such interests fit into a BDSM paradigm--not necessarily actively pursue such activities, both GoddessDustyGold and MsSonnetMarwood have been instrumental in augmenting both mine and Puck's exploration.

Having had recent textual contact with MsSonnetMarwood's influence, through another forum here on this website, I offer a public thanks to her overall knowledge of the BDSM practice and complimentary balance of concern for the welfare of those on their BDSM quest. Not that I am some professional critic of the BDSM lifestyle, goodness no...I have figured out that I am more like Puck, enjoying the pleasure that is evidenced on my female partner's face while entertaining her femineity, which in response peaks my male psyche. But to the point, I am just like any other individual who can sense another person's fortitude toward self-development, I simply want to move toward acknowledging such positive characteristics. I tell you, MsSonnetMarwood is a multi-dimensional person, who is able to TRULY listen to another person's perspective, ask questions when necessary and give excellent advise--at least within the scope of this website--but I am sure she carries it into other areas of her life also.

And GoddessDustyGold gave a very enlightening post within this thread that was to the point, but she worded it with compassion for us passer-bys, who have explored and found our answers within her same message.

Although this thread was originated by Puck, not me, the responses within the above posts carry a lot of significance during my search...I wanted to be sure that both ladies have been textually complimented for their time taken to share with us their compassionate, comprehensive guidance on this thread and elsewhere throughout this website. Although I have a few remaining questions involving the typical intentions and practices of smothering within a BDSM perspective, the core of my quest has been reached! Thanks to Puck for having the fortitude to follow through with his questioning, and to the ladies for their helpful replies.