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Rochsub2009 -> RE: This thing called service. (11/8/2009 9:14:49 PM)
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ORIGINAL: agirl
What IS service to you? When you *serve* your dominant, what actual form does it take?
To me, service is merely placing the needs of another ahead of your own needs. The actual physical manifestation of that commitment can take many forms.
i have been in this lifestyle for many years, and i have served many Dommes. The form of that service has differed with each Domme.
My most recent Domme was married, and so there was very little sexual contact in our relationship. my role was to do work for Her to make Her life easier. i primarily cleaned Her home, maintained Her lawn, removed leaves in the fall, removed snow in the winter, ran errands for Her, and massaged Her. i also served as Her guinea pig anytime She purchased a new toy for Her dungeon.
Prior to that, i was a 24/7 live-in sub for a dominant girlfriend. The mere fact that She was also my girlfriend, and that W/we lived together, made things very different. In that relationship, i did ALL of the housework, cooked all of the meals (or took Her to dinner), chauffeured Her anywhere She had to go, and paid all of the bills. i bathed Her most nights, and massaged Her most nights. i also served as Her sexual servant. She initiated all sex, and dictated when, where, and how often W/we had sex. In short, She was in charge of every aspect of O/our lives and had the final say in all decisions.
Both relationships were enjoyable, but both were very different. The nature of the service was defined by each Domme. Each of my relationships before those two were equally unique. The nature of the service was a unique as the Dommes themselves.
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