adaddysgirl
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Bita,
Once in got into D/s, i KNEW vanilla would never work for me. What the heck....something was missing there before i even knew about D/s. Once i realized what it was, i felt i could never 'go back'. BUT.....
A year after my last D/s relationship, i decided to join a vanilla adult personals site (not just vanilla....but adult vanilla). Hmmm....all i found there was vanilla with kinks. It was quite disappointing. Without going into detail, i can say that it just did not work for me in trying to find not only the kink i was looking for....but the dominance as well. So i scratched that idea.
Now....another year has passed. It's funny that i have a lot of 'vanilla' things going on in my life right now. But right now, i still would not seek out a vanilla partner. As a matter of fact, i've even had to put a hold on my seeking here. But i want to add this. i will be 50 in March. i honestly don't know if i will ever find what i am looking for as far as D/s goes. So how long do i search?
i can imagine that if in the next 10 years i do not find what i am looking for in this 'lifestyle', i may very well go back to vanilla. Who knows? Maybe i won't care by then. And well, it's either that or be alone and although i have no qualms with being alone right now, my views may change when i suddenly face 'being 60' (ugh!).
So although i have never given up on D/s since i discovered it, i can foresee the possibility of going 'the other way' should time prove fruitless. But that would be the only reason.
DG
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RE: D/s to nilla and back - 
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