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how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 11:51:50 AM   
lucylucy


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Status: offline 		My boyfriend wants to watch me be professionally waxed. I’m not sure how to arrange it—it seems like it might be strange to call a waxing place and ask if they would be ok with my boyfriend watching . . . but maybe they’re used to such requests.

Does anyone have experience with this?

(If you’re in the Denver area and can recommend a particular waxing salon where having a spectator would be ok, I would be eternally grateful!)


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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 11:55:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you have someone who does it on a normal basis for you, simply speak with them about having your b/f with you but talk them BEFORE the appointment.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 12:43:28 PM   
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Since it's not unheard of for men to get waxed, just tell them he is thinking about having it done and would like to watch it be done to you first. That should work easily for a one-time viewing. For anything longer, you'll probably just have to say that you like having a hand to hold. As long as he isn't masturbating in the corner, it'll probably be an odd request but one that won't get a lot of thought.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 12:46:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm thinking they know why he wants to watch, you just need to find someone that is down with it, no biggie.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 12:51:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm thinking they know why he wants to watch, you just need to find someone that is down with it, no biggie.


That's my thinking. I just want to be sure not to offend anyone.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 12:52:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		hey, fuck it. life is just a series of offenses.........you can quote me. Fuck em if they cant take a joke, it aint even illegal. ask in all innocence, all doe eyed, and if they wrinkle up their nose and giggle, hell, you're in.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 1:05:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

hey, fuck it. life is just a series of offenses.........you can quote me. Fuck em if they cant take a joke, it aint even illegal. ask in all innocence, all doe eyed, and if they wrinkle up their nose and giggle, hell, you're in.


Ha--I might quote you!

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 2:06:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me, you would want to make sure someone is VERY comfortable with someone watching as i would think i would hate for them to have fumbly fingers while trying to tear hair out of you, it could become a very long and extra painful process if they have to keep redoing because they are distracted.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 2:07:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		The place I go has a tiny cubicle for waxing. I'm not sure you could fit a watcher in there. You may want to keep that in mind.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 2:12:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

To me, you would want to make sure someone is VERY comfortable with someone watching as i would think i would hate for them to have fumbly fingers while trying to tear hair out of you, it could become a very long and extra painful process if they have to keep redoing because they are distracted.

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mores the accomplishment, I should think.

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RE: how to arrange waxing with a spectator present - 11/15/2009 7:48:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		My Master has accompanied me into the examining room on a doctor's visit. He didn't ask permission and they didn't have any problem with it and no one batted an eye. If they didn't take issue, I don't think someone whom you are paying to wax you should. If they do, pay someone else who's not so uptight about what you want...........luci

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