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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 5:16:50 AM   
MsStarlett


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OP - I know the responses may have sounded a touch harsh, but the truth of the matter is that - sorry to be blunt -

PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET LIE!!!!

Ok.  That fact being well known to all of us, just understand that we are actually trying to help you and protect you.  You said:

She's the warmest/kindest/most loving person I've ever had the good fortune to meet.
Never has She once uttered an unkind or mean word to me or others that She works with.

Yet you admit:  W/we haven't even met in RT yet.

On another thread where Dommes were talking about the subs they love, you posted "I guess my Queen is slumbering..lol." which, to me, sounds like you were disappointed that she didn't jump all over that thread to gush about how much she loves YOU.  You don't know her.  Not the REAL her.  Don't go all head over heals over someone on the internet.  The odds are that you will be emotionally devistated when you find out that the reality does not match your fantasy.  You are shoving this woman SO HIGH up on that pedistal that no living being could live up to those expectations.

And then there is this little nugget:  I pray for Her pain to be taken away every single day.

Are we talking about emotional or physical pain?  Is she claiming to be ill?  Seeing a doctor or pyciatrist?  Has she asked you to help pay her bills?  Watch out for those!  Some people are CON ARTISTS!  That means Confidence Trickster.  These are terrible people who extremely skilled in knowing exactly how to push the buttons of needy people who WANT to help.  They will say ANTHING to get cash.  Be aware of the situation.

It is very sweet that you feel such devotion toward a Lady, but it sounds like you're moving way to fast.  I've had a couple of male subs who started spouting their undying love for me from the get go.  Honestly, that's scary and sort of stalkerish.  Protect yourself!  Don't believe everything that someone tells you on the net, not even those of us posting here.  Just understand that none of us actually know you and your situation.  It just sounds so familiar.  And it's a story that rarely turns out well.






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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 5:49:00 AM   
Underumam


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Yes She likes being called Queen(this came AFTER Ms.) 
I've seen Her work on these boards with others, and though She might tell another exactly what She thinks(it's usually right on too), I have yet, nor do I ever expect to see Her intentionally harm another.
Yes, Her medicine is strong. Strong in ways that are rare, and I know this from personal experience. Anyone truly paying attention to what I was saying in my original post would know that the fact I haven't met Her in RT yet is a testament, not childish foolery.
It's my birthday today and as mentioned, my birthday prayer is not for myself, but for Her physical healing......

Yes, She is IN DEED my Queen. I am simply honoring Her, and letting Her know that I'm firmly behind Her. In the same way that Her healing embrace touched me from afar, my strong shoulders and warm embrace are there for Her as well..

I've been around the internets for many years myself, and have been exposed to all kinds of people. It's a pity that others wounds run so deep they can no longer see the forest through the trees. Some persist on attacking others and since the written words, (like the spoken ones) are only a reflection of one's TRUE inner nature, folks always tell on themselves every time they open mouth/hit keyboard, and can easily be easily read by anyone with a discerning eye. My Queen is especially good at this, and so am I.  lol. 

Life doesn't have to be so difficult, however so many are bent on making/keeping it so. An attitude of change and self betterment can be self-ordained in an instant, however the consequences of imagining that we know it all can take lifetimes to overcome. May those such afflicted, find their peace.........

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 5:58:24 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Underumam

. An attitude of change and self betterment can be self-ordained in an instant, however the consequences of imagining that we know it all can take lifetimes to overcome. May those such afflicted, find their peace.........


FUKKIN A!!

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 6:05:13 AM   
Santoro


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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 6:08:45 AM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Underumam

My queen wonders at my choice of words. Especially after She asked me to call Her Ms.__________. I felt a twinge with Her request, yet Ms. seems so formal and cold. She's the warmest/kindest/most loving person I've ever had the good fortune to meet. She's become my world, and W/we haven't even met in RT yet. It's a spiritual thing..... Her words speak on so many different levels all at the same time, and I feel Her warm strength surrounding me from afar. I still honor her request and call Her Ms., yet I also know that in my heart of hearts, She is my Queen.....Wise, caring and thoughtful..........I have NEVER in my entire life met someone who's very soul has healed centuries old wounds that I mistakenly imagined  would be destined to carry around like a dross for eternity. I speak the truth- how can I possibly not bow down in humility before One such as this? Never has She once uttered an unkind or mean word to me or others that She works with. I have truly been blessed, and have done nothing to deserve such a Woman. It's all about Who She is, and I pray for Her pain to be taken away every single day. If it were possible- I would storm the heavens for Her and all that She represents...She TRULY gets it-----Let the world take note of TRUE Womanhood at its finest.

Bless You my Queen.............



Is there a point to this? A forum is meant for the exchange of ideas. what you have written does not fall into that catagory and is more suited as a journal entry

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 6:17:51 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Acer49


quote:

ORIGINAL: Underumam

My queen wonders at my choice of words. Especially after She asked me to call Her Ms.__________. I felt a twinge with Her request, yet Ms. seems so formal and cold. She's the warmest/kindest/most loving person I've ever had the good fortune to meet. She's become my world, and W/we haven't even met in RT yet. It's a spiritual thing..... Her words speak on so many different levels all at the same time, and I feel Her warm strength surrounding me from afar. I still honor her request and call Her Ms., yet I also know that in my heart of hearts, She is my Queen.....Wise, caring and thoughtful..........I have NEVER in my entire life met someone who's very soul has healed centuries old wounds that I mistakenly imagined  would be destined to carry around like a dross for eternity. I speak the truth- how can I possibly not bow down in humility before One such as this? Never has She once uttered an unkind or mean word to me or others that She works with. I have truly been blessed, and have done nothing to deserve such a Woman. It's all about Who She is, and I pray for Her pain to be taken away every single day. If it were possible- I would storm the heavens for Her and all that She represents...She TRULY gets it-----Let the world take note of TRUE Womanhood at its finest.

Bless You my Queen.............



Is there a point to this? A forum is meant for the exchange of ideas. what you have written does not fall into that catagory and is more suited as a journal entry
i think there is an interesting exchange of ideas and thoughts going on here....


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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 6:24:52 AM   
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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 7:52:45 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL.. oh my! I haven't had my coffee yet and this Ms... isn't awake! But life roll's on whether I am awake for it or not!

Please let me explain a few things here. I am his Ms... his queen... the one he meets in person very soon... and I think I know how to cover my bases... and I gushed a little... okay, a lot... yesterday, trying to bring some positive to the mistress board after a whole lot of discontent over there.

I've walked on these feet for fifty two years and I am surely not living in a fantasy world, nor one so ugly that I cannot see clearly that there is something very different between this man and I. Though his words and feelings may be a wild expression to many, especially since we haven't met, we have met in many ways, all is needed next is the physical meeting and believe me, though we are very happy with the turn of events, we are not acting blindly. Excited maybe, but not blind. lol

I am not a dude. lol No offense taken, I might have said the same thing to someone else! lol I am really sick and this wonderful man doesn't ignore that fact, but takes my word as I have proven myself to him in many ways and damn it... I can scan any document needed to prove such. lol He cares for me anyway. lol There are no little or big surprises as we have discussed all sorts of things. And I find that we each tempered things, explored things and have finally allowed ourselves to flow with some emotional things once all else was covered.

So unconventional... yes... but there are real feelings there. Hard to believe, yes... but also very easy to beleive because it came so easily without fairy dust blocking our sight or enhancing it. You just don't know what this man has done for me and I am not going to share what he has done. It was amazing, unasked for and private, but I am telling you... no one... ever, has done anything like it and I was stunned that he did because it was so unlike anyone or anything that has been done before.

We come to know people on these boards that we can honestly say we love... we may have never met them and yet we have formed bonds that are of love and have a sound foundation. This is what Underuman and I have done and I see nothing wrong with it because I know us both fairly well and believe in both of us.

Whatever the future holds for us... whether we are lovers and mates for a time or for life or we are dear friends... matters not, because what we have shared already is and has been life changing for both of us. Neither had a life so poor or empty that we would enhance what is shared with fantasy and flimsy gushy moments that are not real. Time will tell eh? lol

I think my gusher and bull dog... so sweet is just overjoyed because what we see in one another is pretty amazing and has a great chance of being exactly what he has gushed about. Realistically. lol And I think his excitement is wrapped up in what we have shared... no... no cyber or anything of the like...lol... and that we meet very soon and because it is different than anything either of us has known in a very, very long time.

So... the test will be... in time and you can shread us when and if we turn out to be simple gusher's or the real deal. lol

So thank you sweetie for trying to give me a birthday gift on your birthday and since we gushed for some good reasons, understandable reasons... we now have a bit to confirm and prove! ROFL... You were very sweet to try to gift me and you have and do. Thank you!




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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:05:01 AM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Best of luck to you two. I misunderstood the OP in thinking that you didn't like being called Queen. I stand corrected ... (but you're still gonna be Lockit to me.. :P:grins::)

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:15:03 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

Please let me explain a few things here. I am his Ms... his queen... the one he meets in person very soon...


Damn...i recant what i said.

OP...you have found an awesome woman and i now understand why you feel as you do.

Lockit...you have been such an inspiration to myself and others in the past...it is your time for the happiness you deserve!!


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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:25:36 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I had a feeling.  LOL.

Yeah, but take a bit down from that pedestal.  She's a great person and all, but never a harsh word for anybody?   When harsh words are needed, she knows how to give them.  Generally properly placed and damn near always well deserved. 

Seriously, I have nothing but the best wishes for you. 

Now, OP, be a good boy and get your ass to see the lady in person!




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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:31:58 AM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		lol. Thanks Lady Pact, I'm working on it, but these damn reports and finals are keeping me grounded here until early december. Then W/we hope that my old Blazer will make the journey.

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:33:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wow...the plot thickens and comes right out of left field!  Yays Lockit!  I hope you two end up happy and wonderfully fulfilled for many years!  

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:41:12 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Bita... no problem! I think you could call me just about anything and it would be okay. lol I had never wanted to be called queen and didn't like it when I men talked to me like that... but this time... the guy really means it and it is very endearing! He knows I am human and just who I am and believe me, I have enough Lucy Ricardo to be very human to him! lol

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:46:08 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Holly... as always... you bring tears to my eyes! You and some other's have inspired me... kept me up when I might have wanted to slump and hide and although those times were few... because they were few, they were pretty heavy stuff and there you were with a kind word and helpful words.

I am very humbled by things you say... seeing your own life experiences and my own and I cannot tell you how deeply I am touched by you, your example and how you do what you do!

Thank you!

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:51:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ha...what a nice little twist. You've been here long enough to know that it's not far fetched to be leery of these kinds of outcomes since they tend to be rare. Good luck.

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:56:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lockit...I'm so pleased for both of you and wish only the best.  I love when little twists like this happen in a thread.

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:58:44 AM   
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Your queen is probably a dude.

thank you Aileen for saying it for me lol 

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 8:59:39 AM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		Hey...I started this thread to express my own "inner-mushiness". I see it's contagious..lol.

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RE: My Queen - 11/17/2009 9:02:27 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Lady Pact... man, I hate falling off pedestal crashes! No way am I goin there and no way is HE going there! lol I will allow some hard crushin, excited, spilling out mushy stuff... but I think he and I will be okay. lol Not too high in the clouds... just enough to be fun and up to a bit of cloud riding.

He knows I can be harsh... I think he is seeing the harsh as true so it isn't harsh. lol But he knows my mouth! lol

That queen word let it all out didn't it? LOL... I so didn't expect to wake up to this... lol But it is all good. lol

Thank you LP... it means a lot!



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