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lucylucy -> RE: BDSM, sexual or not? (11/17/2009 7:11:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
So for me, BDSM is sexual. D/s which is so often classified as part of the chain is also sexual because I respond to control. But D/s is more relationship stuff, less reliant on physical sensation and for that reason I can enjoy D/s without the craving for cock.
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BDSM makes me wet. What about you? Is BDSM sexual? If not, how do you view BDSM? Is it relief? Is is power? What is your motivation for this stuff we do?
For me, BDSM is everything—sexual, emotional, intellectual . . . what have you. BDSM makes me wet.
For me, D/s is less reliant on immediate physical sensation, but it is indeed sexual. When my boyfriend tells me to do something—even something entirely mundane, like make an appointment to get new tires installed—I have a sexual response, getting wet, but I also have a full-body physical response. It’s almost as if he’s putting his arms around me when he tells me to do something. It’s sexual, but also incredibly intimate on an emotional level.
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