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RE: Nasty Dominant Males:( - 3/12/2006 9:57:32 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold


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ORIGINAL: kc692

To the OP....first, welcome to the boards. I see on your profile on the other side this is nto the first time you have been a member. Personally, I don't think in the time I have been on this site, that I have received at most one or two emails that doubted by dominance. Don't get me wrong, I have had many nasty emails, chuckles, but none along those lines. The thing on your profile that jumps to my view first, is that at one point you considered yourself submissive and have since learned differently about yourself. That may possibly be why the idiots that are emailing you concerning this subject are trying to persuade you that you should still submit to their "domliness".



**Waves to KC**
This is precisely what I was going to write. I have not received more than a small handful of these types of emails in the almost 3 years I have been a member. I get the disrespectful idiots, but have hardly ever had emails which question My Dominance or suggest that I should submit.
So My first thought also was that you are making it clear on your profile that not only are you new to this, but you used to be a submissive to boot.
A bit too tempting for some of the male D types, and you have probably heard or will hear from all of them. Just shake it off and hit that block button!
Welcome, and hope to see you at the boards often!



**waves to Dusty and smiles**..I knew great minds thought alike!! Seriously to the OP..I think that you listing you used to be submissive is a hot button for some to make comments about. I am not suggesting you remove it, since you thought it important enough to bring up, but do be prepared to laugh off those who read that and start to mail before reading the rest of the profile.

Dusty, again, congratulations to You and yours, hope everything is going wonderfully!!!!!!! I'm waiting on pics, lol!!!


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RE: Nasty Dominant Males:( - 3/12/2006 10:05:10 PM   
MHOO314


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It's called block and move on, I've been on this site almost two years, I've never been called a fake--however, I have had Doms want to secretly submit to Me---if you are a Dominant--you know what to do, deal with it.

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RE: Nasty Dominant Males:( - 3/12/2006 10:18:12 PM   
BeachMystress


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I don't think it is just because you're new to BDSM that you're getting these idiots. I'm very definitely not a newbie and actually had some "dom" ask three days ago who owned me. I was in a chat room comprised mostly of people who are active in the so cal scene and know each other in real life. I found the whole thing to be hysterical and laughed at him. There are some males who are so sure that a Domme just hasn't found a "real" man yet.. These are the same males often who think they could show a lesbian the light.

There are a lot of unhappy, immature miserable people out there and they like to share. It is your decision to allow them to bother you or not. You can choose to click the delete button without bothering to internalize what they write or you can get ulcers over it. If you get the ulcers though, you're allowing them to control you. Being Dominant is a journey not just in learning to controlling others, but in learning to controlling ourselves.

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