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RE: Chastity - 11/21/2009 6:58:50 PM

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 10:54:35 AM

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My initial reaction is more fool you for allowing a Woman any Woman to lock your penis up, i mean seriously. every man needs to go to the loo. it must be seriously uncomfortable. But seriously i think you have to ask her to let you out and failing that sue her for unwarranted imprisonment. Other than that you dont have many options. It goes without saying dont allow any Woman to lock up your penis again
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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 11:00:46 AM

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kevin, a lawsuit for unwarranted imprisonment would result in national exposure and being made the butt of jokes on Letterman and Leno.

OP is simply finding out what he likes and what he doesn't - the hard way.

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 11:04:41 AM

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kevin, a lawsuit for unwarranted imprisonment would result in national exposure and being made the butt of jokes on Letterman and Leno.

OP is simply finding out what he likes and what he doesn't - the hard way.

LOL.... if that was an intended pun, i thought it was GREAT!

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 12:47:42 PM

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Well to use a 1980s expression from the most political of dominatrixes, ill let you guess who she is, if the Lady is not for turning in terms of not letting him out of chastity, im afraid a lawsuit while embarrasing is the only way to liberation for this poor sub, yes he will be laughed at but ultimately he will be free, not that I would get myself into this predicament, but were i in his shoes right now, i know which one i would choose. He could try and take a hacksaw or a knife to his chastity device but im not sure if it will work. If his Lady does not cooperate a lawsuit is the only option
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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 1:06:59 PM

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My fiance is starting to take to the concept of a female led relationship. To that end, she determined I was masterbating and decided to lock me up. I am currently wearing a Birdlocked device. At first, I was into this, but it is starting to get out of hand. She has the keys and won't let me out.

Any ideas on how I can convince her to be more reasonable?

Thanks.

Kind of hard (no pun intended) to give you advice on this one. I mean did she put it on weeks ago and still refuses to release you? or did she put it on like early this morning and now it's mid day and you want out? Also, have you "seriously" asked her to free you? or is it like mine does with the "please Mistress can I cum" type begging? There is a difference. I can't believe that if you seriously talked to her and asked her to let you out, that she wouldn't.

Kind of wonder just how serious this all is since you have yet to say anything other than the original post, you have had no response at all.

If you've been in a long time, as in days, then I suggest you sit down and have a chat with her as you should have before you "talked" her into all this. You should've researched, and made a list of your likes, dislikes, and limits, then talk to her, but better late than never. I mean ya don't want anything "falling off" now do ya? research will help with that. There is a time limit and things that need to be done when in chastity, the same thing about being bound, there are limits and safety measures for this as well. Actually, there are safety measure for just about everything we do in the lifestyle.

If you've just been in a few hours, you really don't have much to whine about...I mean you did have to purchase this didn't you? if nothing else you did agree to wear it...guess you can see this isn't all fun and games. You both have to know yourselves and for goodness sake TALK before you go getting into things.

If like some have said and it's all about the fantasy, forget the device and go get some of those fuzzy cuffs that vanilla couples use on their anniversary and be done with it :>

Seriously, I hope it all works out for the both of you.

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 1:13:54 PM

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"Dear readers,

My fiance has finally decided to dominate me like I wanted her to do, but now that she's doing what I want, I want her to stop and she won't! What's a good way of getting out of this situation I've put myself into?"

Dear poster,

Tell her you don't like it, and that she needs to let you out, and then completely drop the whole BDSM thing with her, since you're obviously not really 'into' it and only like the fantasy.

Because someone doesn't like one thing, they are fake? Is that your take on WIITWD? Hmmm... narrow.

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 1:21:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: subwaldo

My fiance is starting to take to the concept of a female led relationship. To that end, she determined I was masterbating and decided to lock me up. I am currently wearing a Birdlocked device. At first, I was into this, but it is starting to get out of hand. She has the keys and won't let me out.

Any ideas on how I can convince her to be more reasonable?

Thanks.

Define "out of hand" no pun intended

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RE: Chastity - 11/22/2009 2:06:49 PM

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I agree with submissiveboy76. Ask her what you can do to earn the reward of release. Surely she can come up with something.

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