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AcademyForSlaves -> What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:10:14 PM)

Hi.

We're curious what other Mistresses are wanting from their subs for Xmas. We always post a wish list of what we want or we tell our subs. Some times they give us exactly what we want and some times they give us some thing that's not on our list but they thought a Mistress would like that gift. We usually get clothes, books, movies, jewellery, perfume, chocolates, bdsm equipment, or tributes.

Mistresses, what gift are you hoping your sub will give you this Xmas?

Slaves, what gift do you plan on giving your Mistress this Xmas and why?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:15:36 PM)

I never ask for specific things--at this point in life, I don't *need* anything. I do feel the need to remind about what I don't want, though! (No milk chocolate!). I have a wishlist on Amazon, and I hope that those who are close to me know what I appreciate: thoughtful gestures that show they thought of me while they were dressed and not aroused!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:16:56 PM)

NM :)



DommeyProfile -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:17:22 PM)

Love.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:17:55 PM)

So sorry for the multiple posts! My blackberry went wild!



Venatrix -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:22:43 PM)

Someone to cuddle up with on the sofa whilst we listen to Lena Horne singing 'Let it Snow'.  Fortunately, this is one gift that I have virtually a 100% chance of getting. :-)



slavekal -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:22:47 PM)

Ms. Mlicious is getting a big wall shoe rack a la Mariah Carey/Christina Aguilera. Should be finished building it this weekend.



LadyPact -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:24:27 PM)

My boy can't give Me what I want for Christmas this year.  Christmas is too close to the date for him to be finished for his deployment (less than 60 days after Dec 25) so he will be in Afghanistan for the holiday.

If he were here, I'd be very inclined to beat him, use him hard, and put him away wet.  (I've had it on the brain for a few days now.)  Really, I'd be content just to see him sitting at My feet, hearing him call Me "Mistress" from his lips, and being able to reach out and stroke his hair.





AlexandraLynch -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 8:29:47 PM)

I have a birthday a little before Christmas, and I intend to have a very good play session the day after my birthday. I count the whole month as the party month, anyway. 



Lockit -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 9:58:31 PM)

Mine arrives before Thanksgiving... we are thinking tomorrow night! Woohoo! Way before we expected it could happen. So I get two holidays all in one. It will be Christmas when he arrives. I want nothing more. It will be our first holiday season together and maybe we can bring in the New Year as well!

I typically don't ask for anything specific. I want to see how well he does on his own. How well he knows me and such. If we have a problem in this area I may direct him a bit with multiple choice type ideas. Like one year I got told... oh man you are going to love this! I can't wait to give it to you and see your face! Well... he saw my face. It was stunned as I said... oh.. a doll lamp.

You know those little girl doll lamps. I was so stunned I just couldn't do much but say thank you... omg... what the hell do I do with this? I thought it was a joke.. it just had to be! lol 

To me it is the thought. I don't even need a gift... I want the spirit of the season... the joy, laughter and good times with people I love. To me Christmas is all year round. When you think of the person, see something they would like or they need something or time and attention, do that... all year round.



Tantriqu -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 10:11:56 PM)

What I request and receive every year:
one pair earrings, sterling silver;
one poem, home-made;
one poetry reading, followed by:
orgasm, multiple, Mine;
one snuggle, post-coital, as he softly sings Christmas carols in My arms.

Repeat on New Year's Eve, except I wear the earrings, and he aims to time My orgasm as close to but before midnight ;-)



Lockit -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/20/2009 10:21:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My boy can't give Me what I want for Christmas this year.  Christmas is too close to the date for him to be finished for his deployment (less than 60 days after Dec 25) so he will be in Afghanistan for the holiday.

If he were here, I'd be very inclined to beat him, use him hard, and put him away wet.  (I've had it on the brain for a few days now.)  Really, I'd be content just to see him sitting at My feet, hearing him call Me "Mistress" from his lips, and being able to reach out and stroke his hair.


Lady Pact, maybe you can celebrate a belated Christmas with red bows or something when he gets back. That won't help on Christmas... and I don't know what it would be like for clip or any of the family... but maybe you will be able to meet online or something for a bit of a treat. I know it cannot be easy for any of you, but I know many of us will be thinking of the sacrifices you all are making on our behalf!



LadyPact -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 1:24:46 AM)

Lockit, yes, we're kind of used to it.  I was really surprised last year when all of us were together for part of the holidays.  In fact, after I read what I typed in the above, I remembered saying the same thing last year and then got a special treat for New Year's.

Actually, I get a lot of support and good wishes from a lot of the CM folks.  One last week that was so sweet that it completely blew Me away.  (It's a bit of a secret, but I'll clue you in on the other side.)  Those good thoughts for us mean quite a bit.

And, I'm glad you're getting your Christmas a bit early.  [:)]



Lashra -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 2:22:37 AM)

A jewelry cleaner, yes I know it sounds boring, but it is something that I could really use.

~Lashra



MsStarlett -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 3:50:28 AM)

Shoes are always good.  I'm pretty sure that Wall-e found me something nice and they are on their way for my birthday.  Haven't thought ahead for Christmas yet.

One said something about building me a shoe rack... but I think that's the one that crawled away sometime in October. 

I'm meeting with a new one today.  We'll see how that goes.  Who knows?  Maybe I'll get a new boy for my Birthday, after that, we'll work on Christmas.  One holiday at a time.



LaTigresse -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 5:30:09 AM)

No sub or slave here but when the important people in my life have asked, I've answered "good wool socks". It's a weird request I know, but I am picky about socks for winter and my ugly old military hand me downs are getting see through. I spend a lot of time in the cold weather and only good wool socks will do. They are not cheap as far as socks go so I have put off getting any. Yet, in a Xmas shopping budget, one pair is a pretty reasonable dollar amount. My kids will know they are getting me something I really want and can use, my feet will be happy, and I will know they didn't feel they had to spend more than they could afford.

However, I know that money is tight for most everyone yet we all like to give one another something special. So I thought of the socks.

If I had an s type, what I would expect from them would depend on the individual. If she was a broke student, the socks would be delightful, as would a DVD or CD. There are several coming out that I would love to own. If she was well off, my expectations would probably be higher.

Christmas is not one of my favourite holidays and, for some reason, the very thought of it is making me sick to my stomach this year. I am just in an over all funk right now and I am ready for December and January to be over.



SweetDommes -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 6:15:31 AM)

a new book from one of my favorite authors, a cd from one of my favorite musicians (or even better, one that he makes for me with songs that he knows that I like), chocolate is always good, clothes (preferably warm ones) are always good. mostly just something that shows he was thinking of me and wanted to get me something he knew I would like.



AbsoluteDivinity -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 6:50:57 AM)

Ahh, well now this topic is most definitely worth popping my posting cherry with.

My Christmas present comes early this year and there are no words that can even come close to how excited I am.

On December 5th, when my boy walks off the plane and to my feet, my present will be complete. I ask and want for nothing more from Santa this year.





littlesarbonn -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 7:37:52 AM)

I guess this thread is an example of why I probably never left this site completely. The OP asked a very obvious self-interested question designed around the concept of believing slaves to be money pits (even if that wasn't the intention, the feeling definitely transcended any altruistic purposes that could have been meant), but the participants in the thread answered in very humanistic ways that actually made me feel pretty good about most of the people who responded. Instead of "I want (insert some monetary valued item)", many of the responses were geared towards achieving some sense of mutual satisfaction in their concepts of relationships, and that was very nice to see.

So, I wanted to thank most everyone who responded in this thread, because I've been slowly moving further and further away from this lifestyle mainly because of the thought process that seemed to be the one directed from the original posting.



RumpusParable -> RE: What should a Mistress get for Xmas? (11/21/2009 7:40:29 AM)

Plugs and tunnels for my stretched lobes off my bodyartforms wishlist,  some flowers, spa day or buying me a class or other experience.  Ive no full-time sub/slave here right now (no time for it) andmy spouse is deployed, so Ill probably not get xmas til February when spouse has leave.



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