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RE: Code Words? - 11/22/2009 8:20:40 PM   
Hierodule


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A hilarious vanilla one (that I don't really understand and don't particularly want to understand) is "salad tossing." I know what it means folks, I just don't want to know WHY it means that, if you get my drift.


OKaaaaaaay... at the risk of sounding really naive, what the hell is salad tossing????



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RE: Code Words? - 11/22/2009 9:36:40 PM   
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When i got involved from the start there was no internet. There was no munches. Even contact advertisement in newspapers was hardly used. You ventured in to the vanilla world as there was nothing else and you did drop hints, used codes or whatever you called it. One of the great things i remember about that time is this cat and mouse game, to really establish contact on the kinky level. Ok, when the cat was out the bag the rest was normally fairly simple. You had to use a lot of language which was open to a dual intepretation. Like trowing out a fly and see about the trout raised to the bait. My very first experience, the shoe was on the other foot so as to speak. Well everything we did was packed in codes after that. Still get a smile on my dial when i think about her.

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RE: Code Words? - 11/22/2009 9:44:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		A 'code word' is anything that has meaning for you and whoever you choose to clue in. Personally, I do not use them because if I can't be the real me... then I am not having fun.

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RE: Code Words? - 11/24/2009 5:51:30 PM   
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Of course there's the UM factor. We use code around innocent ears, but that's pretty much self-explanatory.

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RE: Code Words? - 11/24/2009 7:19:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hierodule

psssst its licking the back door like this

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ORIGINAL: AnnaOfAramis

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A hilarious vanilla one (that I don't really understand and don't particularly want to understand) is "salad tossing." I know what it means folks, I just don't want to know WHY it means that, if you get my drift.


OKaaaaaaay... at the risk of sounding really naive, what the hell is salad tossing????




But why....

(slams duct tape over mouth) Oh yeah, wait. I DON'T want to know. :D I don't even want to try to figure it out!

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RE: Code Words? - 11/24/2009 8:06:09 PM   
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A hilarious vanilla one (that I don't really understand and don't particularly want to understand) is "salad tossing." I know what it means folks, I just don't want to know WHY it means that, if you get my drift.


Salad tossing is vanilla? I would think it would be chocolate, if anything. Hotcha!

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