Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape.

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BeastPriest -> Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 10:29:43 AM)
I’ve noticed that with my current profile, and profiles I’ve had in the past, there are some Kinks and behaviors that I appositely hate that I can’t seem to escape. Like every sub I find is into this or that and all I can do is shake my head. Mine are adult babies, diaper lovers, cross dressers, guys into feminization, and self-deprecation. I can’t seem to escape people who want to wear dresses, can’t stop telling me how worthless they are (which most of the time I just agree with them and move on cause I want something of worth), and want to be treated like a one year old. If that’s your deal that’s cool, do it, love it, but why do they all have to be attracted to me like needles to a magnet? Does anybody else experience this a lot? What stuff can you not escape? I figured it would be a fun conversation/bitch session.

EbonyWood -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 10:35:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeastPriest Mine are adult babies, diaper lovers, cross dressers, guys into feminization, and self-deprecation. I can’t seem to escape people who want to wear dresses, can’t stop telling me how worthless they are (which most of the time I just agree with them and move on cause I want something of worth), and want to be treated like a one year old. I like your list of what you are into. Ohhhhhh, you hate them. Got it.

LadyPact -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 10:51:37 AM)
What you are experiencing is a mere fraction of what most Dominant females on this site are bombarded with daily. Welcome to Collar Me and enjoy your stay.

DaddyArms -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 10:52:14 AM)
Most people who are attracted to me cannot use words correctly. I am amazed at the appositeness of my post.

BeastPriest -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 11:06:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact What you are experiencing is a mere fraction of what most Dominant females on this site are bombarded with daily. Welcome to Collar Me and enjoy your stay. Meh I wouldn't say otherwise, I have a Domme friend in town, we read her e-mail together, its hours of laughs (and rum)! Oh and she is bisexual and trust me, the women folk can be just as strange and confusing as the men folk.

LadyPact -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 11:10:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeastPriest quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact What you are experiencing is a mere fraction of what most Dominant females on this site are bombarded with daily. Welcome to Collar Me and enjoy your stay. Meh I wouldn't say otherwise, I have a Domme friend in town, we read her e-mail together, its hours of laughs (and rum)! Oh and she is bisexual and trust me, the women folk can be just as strange and confusing as the men folk. I get those too, but not nearly as often. Both My husband and My boy have had the same opportunity as you. A good bit of it they find just plain out amusing. No rum required.

LaTigresse -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 11:12:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeastPriest I’ve noticed that with my current profile, and profiles I’ve had in the past, there are some Kinks and behaviors that I appositely hate that I can’t seem to escape. Like every sub I find is into this or that and all I can do is shake my head. Mine are adult babies, diaper lovers, cross dressers, guys into feminization, and self-deprecation. I can’t seem to escape people who want to wear dresses, can’t stop telling me how worthless they are (which most of the time I just agree with them and move on cause I want something of worth), and want to be treated like a one year old. If that’s your deal that’s cool, do it, love it, but why do they all have to be attracted to me like needles to a magnet? Does anybody else experience this a lot? What stuff can you not escape? I figured it would be a fun conversation/bitch session. I escape it just fine by ignoring it.

a49015Dom4subF -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 11:15:12 AM)
Does constantly choosing to involve oneself with bad partners count?

LaTigresse -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 12:28:16 PM)
I wouldn't know. I haven't done that in a few decades.

littlewonder -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 3:40:01 PM)
I haven't looked at your profile but just from viewing your pic on the forums here..sorry but you've got a baby face and I'm assuming you're pretty young and I'm betting a lot who are into ageplay are sorta attracted to that in you. I can't really say for sure..it's just a guess on my part since I never get those types of emails or anything.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 6:50:43 PM)
quote: there are some Kinks and behaviors that I appositely hate Don't hate cuz you can't relate! No but seriously, I'm not into any of those neither, but I really don't have the energy or desire to hate other people's kinks. I focus on loving mine! - LA

CaringandReal -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 6:53:28 PM)
It's not a good strategy to put what you don't like in an ad because people search on those key words, and when they find someone who has them in their profile, most don't bother to read the context. They just think, oh he mentioned Fetish X on his profile, he'll be into me. I have a few very obscure interests and when I keword search on them, 9 out of the ten profiles that turn up are people saying "I am NOT into Y!" It annoys me, couldn't they have just left themselves out of my keyword search by not listing everything they are not? ;) Other than that, white pickup truck. Which means that if you really don't like something you tend to give it more attention and emotional energy than something you are neutral or positive toward. Emotional energy engraves memory, so when you look back on the week, you remember all the dorks into diapers but overlook all the cool people who wrote who didn't have that fetish.

Hierodule -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 6:56:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CaringandReal It's not a good strategy to put what you don't like in an ad because people search on those key words, and when they find someone who has them in their profile, most don't bother to read the context. They just think, oh he mentioned Fetish X on his profile, he'll be into me. Good point. It's the internet version of "the Secret." Doesn't matter if you think of something negatively or positively. If your mind dwells on it, you attract it. That's a good reason to keep your profile and mind to things you do want instead of things you don't.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 7:51:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact What you are experiencing is a mere fraction of what most Dominant females on this site are bombarded with daily. Welcome to Collar Me and enjoy your stay. Isn't that amazing!? lmao quote: ORIGINAL: Hierodule quote: ORIGINAL: CaringandReal It's not a good strategy to put what you don't like in an ad because people search on those key words, and when they find someone who has them in their profile, most don't bother to read the context. They just think, oh he mentioned Fetish X on his profile, he'll be into me. Good point. It's the internet version of "the Secret." Doesn't matter if you think of something negatively or positively. If your mind dwells on it, you attract it. That's a good reason to keep your profile and mind to things you do want instead of things you don't. Maybe that's why I seem to get the married Ones writing to me when I include "NOT MARRIED" in what I'm looking for...and it's the only negative thing I say.

sravaka -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 8:13:16 PM)
quote: Maybe that's why I seem to get the married Ones writing to me when I include "NOT MARRIED" in what I'm looking for...and it's the only negative thing I say. A positive way to put that is "single" or "unattached." :-)

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 8:38:22 PM)
OP: yes I get many messages a day about being worms..useless..etc.. or to cam...or "teach me to eat cum" on-line(wtf?")[X(][:'(][:'(] even though I state *in the first few words I never do on-line and I am loving..* well ya I can't escape it[:o]..but in a way I can.[:D].I just do not answer... unless I see WHAT I have asked for in my profile.. I state what I want to see in a message to me..if it is not there...bye GM

Lucienne -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 8:43:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddyArms Most people who are attracted to me cannot use words correctly. I am amazed at the appositeness of my post. Smart. Ass. :)

Lucienne -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 8:48:31 PM)
Jesus. Kinky and gay in Manhappenin, Kansas. Best of luck to you, sir. Best of luck. The interest in crop production was a sweet touch.

leadership527 -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 9:02:42 PM)
Nope, I haven't experienced this... ever. I married and then subsequently collared a nice, stable adult who's sensibilities roughly match mine so I don't experience a lot of melodrama at all. Can you clarify a bit how it is you cannot escape these people? I mean seriously, you're the dom, right? Perhaps I'm missing something but I thought it roughly went like, "Dom calls the shots". How is it, exactly, that you are finding subs yet the ones you find don't match your kinks nor are they willing to submit to your kinks (or lack thereof in some areas). The entire post confuses me.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Kinks and behaviors you can’t seem to escape. (11/23/2009 10:12:07 PM)
These people are single (or searching) for a reason. They're shoving their kinks in your face, rather than taking the time to get to know you first. And AB, crossdressing, lowly me, etc. may be some of the things that turn a lot of people off, because of this. (I say may be, people). There may be a perception that these are do-me subs- and when they act that way to you, they're proving it. I'm overgeneralizing, of course. Bedtime for dreamer, time for dreaming while I sleep.... <------- fluffing my clouds, for a pillow ZZzzzzzzzzz.....

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