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RE: to all slaves - 3/13/2006 6:32:34 PM

Cloudz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn

There are many kinds of owners ... they don't have to all be Masters and Mistresses and it doesn't have to be part of a lifestyle.

Mine was being burned with cigarettes. Bad enough at the time ... but even today it's the gift that keeps on giving.

caitlyn,
I am very sorry to hear that, you are so much better than someone who would even think to abuse you. Be well, dear heart.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/13/2006 7:43:04 PM

ropesubby39

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ORIGINAL: lardass

what is the most servere punisment your'e owner has inflicted on you and what was the reason.

He ignored me for a few days, that was even worst than the cane on my innertighs and He did so cause i had crossed the line. Also, the fact that i had disappointed Him at that point, it made me very sad.

ropesubby

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RE: to all slaves - 3/13/2006 8:17:30 PM

iwearpanties

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as a sub male i was gievn tooa male DOM . who had no clue i was a sisy type wearing panties n bra n garter n stockings unde rmy male clothes when i was given too him he truely humiliate me

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 8:05:49 AM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tempestspet

It was. But, it also made for a lasting, and very poinant lesson. I also feel that I deserved it too. If that makes any difference, or sense.

Tempest's pet
jennifer

That is always my Master's goal - long term effect. Something i will remember, always. Any time i have been punished, it has had a lasting effect. His disappointment in me is enough to make me feel absolutely horrible, but i have a history in my life of getting stuck in behavior patterns - "the comfortable cycle of dysfunction" brought about by earlier life traumas. Feeling his disappointment wasn't enough (although i wish it were) to keep me from emotionally reacting to "trauma triggers" as i like to call them. He would never go so far as to ignore me or remove my collar even temporarily, but his punishments have a severity that have been effective in changing unhealthy behavior patterns. While it would not be rare for him to administer corporal punishment (i remember them well), there is always an element of emotional consequence, whether i receive a corporal punishment or not. my Master is big on exploring thoughts and emotions, so i will always have a writing assignment or two afterward. There will always be an analysis and a lesson learned.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 8:55:02 AM

ShivaTS

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The hardest physical punishment he has done is have me sit a foot back facing a wall and lean into the wall bracing myself there with my nose. It makes my eyes water and is very hard on my neck and back.

The hardest emotional thing he can to to me (I haven't displeased him enought to warrant this) is to tell me I have displeased and more so disappointed him and leave me alone to think about it. I work very hard at making sure I am a good sub and it would kill me inside to know I have done something so bad that he doesnt even want to be near me. Just thinking about it makes me emotional.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 2:42:57 PM

Tempestspet

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The collar I am referring to, is just a physical thing. A necklace to him. That's what he took from me, I didn't mean to make it sound as if he's one who those fools that thinks it's ok to remove ownership, and give back.... he doesn't do that. It's either there, or not. Period. We've been together almost 17 yrs now... and married almost 14 of those. We are simply past playing those kinds of games. Thank god.!!!..smiles..

It was seeing it come off.... and knowing that he's was angry and dissappointed that did it. Seeing the "necklace" go in the trash.... was just the poignant physical manifestation of that.

Master's punshiments are never physical, I enjoy pain. Why mess up something that brings so much pleasure?... smiles... but writing assignments, and finger on the wall.... these are things that do, definately, work.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 3:24:59 PM

SillySubBoy

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The oddest was being "I-POD'ed"

I ticked one Dom off and she tied me down and made a recording that I will never forget.

She called it rule learning, I call it enduring. Here is the basics

She tied me down (not a big deal) and then did a few things we had talked about but never done or done part of but not all at once.

So I was blind folded, gaged (w/a gag the could be open air or not), and had ear phones taped on my ears. What happened next never allowed me to forget the rules. She had made a recording of her rules, basic slave commands and my responsibilities as a slave. She put the recording on repeat and entertained herself with a movie. During my listening over and over again to the recording I got bored and would fall asleep. She would wake me up with some torment (twist a nipple, spank thighs, etc) occasionally she would stop the recording and ask me a question. Finally, I think the movie ended, she stopped the recording for a few minutes and turned on classical. A few minutes had gone by and she stopped the recording and told me how many right/wrong answer I gave during the movie. Turned back on the classical, a few minutes go by, recording stops and asks me different questions. I was nervous and did poorly. This question, punishment, reward, classical music, teaching cycle went on for a bit, then the Dom recording came back on and looped a few more times. Eventually it stopped... I will never look at the IPOD's repeat function the same.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 3:46:49 PM

Dollbecky

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the worst and cruelest thing ever done to me by my beloved was he just didnt speak to me and just looked tired and contempting untill we went to bed ...then he rolled over and went to sleep :(
I cant remeber what I had done or said ....that evening is a haze of tears ....
but it must have been really bad
I only got a public spanking and no ice cream for exterme tauntlng and a awful prank using his fear of hights when we walked over a 6 storery overpass...

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RE: to all slaves - 3/14/2006 5:07:06 PM

Belladonna82

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The most severe is what is happening to me presently.....
Master sent me away and has little contact with me but to check on me every other day....I feel the worst punishment for me is to not be able to serve.I still belong to him but it will be a month before i am allowed at his side....Why this punishment...pride and being a mouthy little slave...i forgot my place at his feet not where ever i wanted to place myself.....he knew the only way to correct me is to deny my one desire...to please him!

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RE: to all slaves - 3/15/2006 10:19:25 AM

plantlady64

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Hello All,
This morning I was released from being his slave and now am just a vanilla girlfreind. That is hugely painfull & is one of my worst. I choose not to discuss the specific reasons as I think it's not polite to bad mouth a Dom.
Prior to that he'd broken his word to me and we were discussing it. He got a very harsh attitude and dragged me to the car with a leash right in front of our neighbours. Once at the dungeon I was instructed not to speak & to take off all my clothes. After about three hours of staying behind him to his left while he went about talking to friends and playing with others he allowed a Dom to use bent clothes pins on my nipples & this Dom whipped me so intensely for five minutes with a crop that I had bruises that lasted three weeks. After that we went home and didn't even talk to each other till the next day when he was ready to talk to me. At that point I was told I couldn't speak unless it was to answer him & I was still not to look anyone in the eye. This lasted three more days.
My lesson was even when Master breaks his word I'd keep my mouth shut as pointing out he breached our contract only got me in trouble and I was innocent.
SO there's my worst pain in being released this morning & most nightmare experience we had when I was his slave.
Suzanne

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RE: to all slaves - 3/15/2006 1:14:20 PM

caitlyn

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Sorry to hear about this Suzanne ... and hope the pain passes quickly.

Sometimes stories like this make me wonder if it's all worth it. Even more to the point, I wonder if, given time, total power will always corrupt totally.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/15/2006 1:45:25 PM

plantlady64

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Thanks caitlyn,
For me the lifestyle is way worth it as it's who I am and has brought me more contentment than most things in my life.
The problem lies in being sure the things that are important to you are the same things tha are important to those you give your will to.
Rick is a good Master, I'm just a stickler for integrity in different ways than he is.
We still are living together, I'm just not his slave any longer. I may return to being his slave one day, but there's going to have to be a whole lot of actions speak louder than words happening before I'm convinced things are going to be at a point I can trust him to be my Master again.
BTW- I did not ask for release that was his choice. I would have never ask to be released as I love him and have hope we'll work it out one day.
Sincerely,
Suzanne

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RE: to all slaves - 3/15/2006 2:12:43 PM

pupofMoGa

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Hello E/everyone!

The worst punishment Mistress has done to me occured when i lied to Her. She ordered me to stand against a wall in Her living room (which was right in front of an open window in broad daylight) and whipped me 24 times as hard as she could. While doing this, Mistress had me repeat "I will not lie, Mistress" until She told me to stop. I was almost yelling out the phrase and had repeated it 76 times when She came to stop me. I was saying the phrase fast and loud because i thought Mistress was right behind me, ready to whip me again if i lowered my voice or stopped all together. When Mistress, stopped me She informed me that She was on Her computer the whole time after She whipped me and was looking at posts here on CollarMe. LOL, i was so embarresed that i thought She was right behind me the whole time. I definatly learned my lesson and love and respect Mistress more than ever.

-pup

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RE: to all slaves - 3/17/2006 11:01:13 PM

scratchingpost

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not being used.

the reason not taking care of His property and making sure it is healthy and strong...i overwork myself on tasks then fail to rest eat healthily and work out until i am ill (the working out was was different i got way out of shape this last year)

He is right if i cannot take care of myself how can i serve Him?

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RE: to all slaves - 3/18/2006 6:44:07 AM

swtnsparkling

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quote:

Prior to that he'd broken his word

He Breaks HIS Word

quote:

My lesson was even when Master breaks his word I'd keep my mouth shut as pointing out he breached our contract only got me in trouble and I was innocent.

HE Breached your contract....... and......
you get punished- then released

quote:

I'm just a stickler for integrity in different ways than he is.

How so? integrity means what it means - either a man has it or he doesn't
when did integrity become part time quality?
you say he is a good master- God love ya girl
I wish you the best

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A "No" uttered from deepest conviction is better than a "Yes" uttered merely to please

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RE: to all slaves - 3/19/2006 9:02:06 PM

RiotGirl

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Uuuuuuh couple of things.

i remember once way back in the first couple of months, something happened. some inconsitancy. No matter the explanation i didnt take it. We werent living together. i hung up on him and went out ot party. He called and called and eventually i answered, we talked and things chilled out and he notified me i should go home. Didnt want to go home. Told him i was out with a friend of a friend and the friend was there. Turned off my phone and i suppose i was still pissed off. Thought i was bright and clever enough to get away with it. He eventually got the friend of a friend's number found out the friend wasnt there and called. i tried to play off i was sleeping when the friend of a friend was talking to him.. but well it didnt work. Twas the most humilating thing ever. To be caught being so damn sneaky.. and then to have to talk to Him nd then have to tell the whole group at the apartment (who all realised what was going on) that i was sorry for causing a disturbance, had to go home and i wouldnt be back again and then actually walk out and go home.

it ws so humilating to be caught so to speak being so damn sneaky and uh.. ect.. and then treated like a little kid and sent home that i've never pulled another stunt like that.

then of course the punishment that actually followed the next time i saw him wasnt pleasant.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/20/2006 9:16:39 PM

enslavegirl

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i was late getting home from work one night, i had a code blue that ran for hours. i was very tired and forgot to call Him on His cell to inform Him of the event and resulting overtime. i guess i assumed, albeit wrong of me to ever do so, that since He was working in the same hosp He would have heard through the grapevine.

when i finally made it home i was met with a fist in my hair and a dragging to His playroom and multiple kisses of His singletail until i fell to an unconscious state.

i never forgot to call again

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RE: to all slaves - 3/21/2006 6:14:48 AM

petcerina

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i was forbidden to do anything BDSM related for 3 days. i don't remember what the crime was.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/21/2006 6:54:12 AM

krikket

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He made me take my collar off (which was a necklace i wore 24/7) and hand it to him. He kept it almost a month before putting it back on me. At that time it was possibly the longest and worst month of my life.

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When your heart speaks take good notes.

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RE: to all slaves - 3/21/2006 7:24:58 AM

justjill

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Had to write out "I will never lie to my Master ever again" 1000 times. I still remeber how sore my hand was after that.

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