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dobbyhouseelf120 -> Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:07:30 PM)
Iwas talk to a Mistress from Collarme .com her name is xxxxxxxxx and use this name on yahoo messger xxxxxxxxxxxxx, 2 times she has asked me to go to this website and put in my bank card info , First time I told NO and I don't use or go to those type of sites or give my Info out. Now I talk to her again a few days later and She askes me again to do and When I say No again she Jumps all over about this how you please your Mistress and treat her . I told her good night and good took her off my list. When Has No stop meaning No and I will not do that or stop? Did I do right by tell her off and Say no? please Help. [Mod Note: username deleted]

CarrieO -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:15:16 PM)
Your profile states you're "a Slave and I am collared and owned." maybe this is a question you should be asking your owner.

dobbyhouseelf120 -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:17:03 PM)
I am allowed to chat with others , I wanted to know If i did right by my feelings and thoughts on this.

Missokyst -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:25:36 PM)
Why is there any confusion? If she isn't your mistress she has no right to be upset. quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 When I say No again she Jumps all over about this how you please your Mistress and treat her .

DrkJourney -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:32:23 PM)
First of all you're probably gonna get into a wee bit of trouble for naming names, it's totally against TOS. Second, why go through all the headache, why didn't you just say I am owned and not intersted, then simply walk away? Why was this an on going dance? And since you are owned....why do you even care?

CarrieO -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:35:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 I am allowed to chat with others , I wanted to know If i did right by my feelings and thoughts on this. My response had nothing to do with whether or not you're allowed to chat with others. I would think if you had a Domme, she would be the one you would ask this type of question. Why ask a group of online strangers when you could ask your owner?

DrkJourney -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:42:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CarrieO quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 I am allowed to chat with others , I wanted to know If i did right by my feelings and thoughts on this. My response had nothing to do with whether or not you're allowed to chat with others. I would think if you had a Domme, she would be the one you would ask this type of question. Why ask a group of online strangers when you could ask your owner? what she said

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 7:47:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 she has asked me to go to this website and put in my bank card info No offense, but do you really have to ask this question in this age of identity theft? Someone that you don't know asks you for your back card info, and you're asking us if you did the right thing by saying "no". Okay, since you seem to need approval, "yes", you did the right thing by not giving a total stranger your bank card info. Now to thank me for my kind support, please send me a private e-mail with your social security number, bank account numbers, credit card numbers, and expiration dates. [:D].

DarkSteven -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 8:55:54 PM)
1. Yes, it was a scam, and you avoided it. 2. If you're owned, you should be addressing this with your Mistress. If your owner is the online Mistress that asked you to hand over your cc info, then I'd say you're unowned and looking now. 3. You have a cool username.

DrkJourney -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 9:00:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 she has asked me to go to this website and put in my bank card info No offense, but do you really have to ask this question in this age of identity theft? Someone that you don't know asks you for your back card info, and you're asking us if you did the right thing by saying "no". Okay, since you seem to need approval, "yes", you did the right thing by not giving a total stranger your bank card info. Now to thank me for my kind support, please send me a private e-mail with your social security number, bank account numbers, credit card numbers, and expiration dates. [:D]. [sm=rofl.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 9:05:25 PM)
First things first. If My boy was allowing anybody else to make this statement to him (and I'll quote) "about this how you please your Mistress and treat her" and he didn't correct that, there would be an issue. No woman in this lifestyle has the power to usurp My authority in that way. Believe Me when I say that I expect him to uphold the type of protocol that I have established in this dynamic and he is not a happy boy if he doesn't. As to the credit card info, I can only echo what Rochsub said above. Not only did you save yourself whatever charges you were agreeing to on your credit card (a complete waste of money in My opinion) you saved yourself from any possible unscrupulous uses. Take it from someone who's dealt with identity theft. It's not fun fixing it and you have no clue of how extensive it is.

Rhodes85 -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/23/2009 9:22:45 PM)
quote: No offense, but do you really have to ask this question in this age of identity theft? Someone that you don't know asks you for your back card info, and you're asking us if you did the right thing by saying "no". What he said. Never EVER give anybody that kind of info.

redwoodgirl -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 7:41:38 AM)
[/quote] No offense, but do you really have to ask this question in this age of identity theft? Someone that you don't know asks you for your back card info, and you're asking us if you did the right thing by saying "no". [/quote] sorry but no one is ever getting my back card info!

LadyPact -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 7:51:28 AM)
Why? If they use the info for more charges than he expected, he's going to get fucked up the ass anyway.

Politesub53 -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 10:48:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 I am allowed to chat with others , I wanted to know If i did right by my feelings and thoughts on this. So why ask our advice and not your owners ? My own view is no one I am uninvolved with gets my bank details, I am suprised you even had to ask.

EbonyWood -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 10:59:27 AM)
Dobby the Validation Elf more like it..

MistressOfGa -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 11:34:31 AM)
I am in complete agreement with Lady Pact. It is rediculous that you have come on here to ask for validation from complete strangers. You have not answered the question of "Why do you not ask your owner if you have done the right thing?". I am curious to see your answer about that. Unless of course, it was your owner who asked you for your cc information? If my boy ever kept something like this from me, much less asked advice about it on an open message forum, he would not be mine for long. Communication is the key to everything and you apparently are hiding this information from your Mistress (Providing she is not the one who asked for your cc info). Have you discussed this with your owner? Was her suggestion that you come here to get validation as to whether you did the right thing or not? Curious minds want to know. MoGa

dobbyhouseelf120 -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 7:40:43 PM)
Ebonywood Like anyone asked you if you cared, if you didn't then why post here! Some people are not know it alls like you. And do need help from time to time ! quote: Dobby the Validation Elf more like it.. _____________________________ "You're looking at me like you think I care... BIG mistake."

EbonyWood -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/24/2009 7:48:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dobbyhouseelf120 Ebonywood Like anyone asked you if you cared, if you didn't then why post here! Some people are not know it alls like you. And do need help from time to time ! quote: Dobby the Validation Elf more like it.. _____________________________ "You're looking at me like you think I care... BIG mistake." Everyone on this thread questioned why you were seeking validation in a forum for such an obvious course of action - and yet you choose to respond to me. I'm honored. Please don't put on a "everybody needs help" act after you had to ask people if not signing your ass away was the right thing to do or not. Just makes you look like an idiot.

pixelslave -> RE: Did I do this right? (11/26/2009 4:02:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood Please don't put on a "everybody needs help" act after you had to ask people if not signing your ass away was the right thing to do or not. [sm=jerry.gif] Not to mention that he still hasn't answered the question everyone seems to want to know regarding whether or not he's owned, and if he is, why he didn't ask this question of his owner! - pixel

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