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What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/23/2009 10:19:06 PM

starletprincess

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My question I am posing to you today is, what is your definition of "lifestyle" as it pertains to 24/7?

I know that for Master and I, it is the 24/7 exchange of power. I need his guidence and structure in my life or else I am just a mess. While I do work, because unless your are at least a bit wealthy, two incomes are required to survive, the thing that describes us best is a 1950's household. I do the cooking, cleaning, and take care of him. That is always number one on my list, that he is happy.

I know that for some 24/7 means that the "kink" ( for lack of a better word because I cant think and am completely exauhsted) is constantly involved, and I just wondered how others viewed it?

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/23/2009 11:15:29 PM

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To me, it's the fact that I am his wife, 24/7. Anything else is just icing.

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 4:23:50 AM

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That is always number one on my list, that he is happy.

That defines it for me. That's the desire - your resultant actions are the service.

The suspension bondage and single tails are just the "icing", as Greedy put it.

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 5:11:11 AM

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24/7 means *all the time* (to me, anyway). So it just means that he owns me all of the time and I am owned all of the time.

I could never claim with any honesty that HIS *happiness* is my main concern. I don't spend my life trying to make him happy, he's never required that, nor would he. We BOTH are considerate and kind toward each other in our own ways. It's more a WE thing , than a ME thing.

The *kink* is a thread that runs through our lives, it's part of how we relate and always have. Yes, it's always there to a certain degree as it's part of our personal language.

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 5:18:26 AM

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For many people, 24/7 means that the power exchange doesn't just happen in the bedroom or during play sessions. It means that the power dynamic is there and operating in all aspects of your life.

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 7:37:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: agirl

24/7 means *all the time* (to me, anyway). So it just means that he owns me all of the time and I am owned all of the time.

I could never claim with any honesty that HIS *happiness* is my main concern. I don't spend my life trying to make him happy, he's never required that, nor would he. We BOTH are considerate and kind toward each other in our own ways. It's more a WE thing , than a ME thing.

The *kink* is a thread that runs through our lives, it's part of how we relate and always have. Yes, it's always there to a certain degree as it's part of our personal language.

agirl

to me is more like this, i don´t live with him but we are always in contact, not sure if it qualifies as 24/7, but he is always on my mind

and i want him to be very happy and He want me to be very happy

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 9:14:34 AM

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for my Mistress and i it is a 24/7 relationship even while im away serving overseas.Her happiness and contentment are the primary things for me to acheive. the rest is icing as it has been mentioned. i am collared 24& and it is very importaint to me to maintain that.

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RE: What does "lifestyle" mean to you? - 11/24/2009 9:30:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: starletprincess
I know that for Master and I, it is the 24/7 exchange of power. I need his guidence and structure in my life or else I am just a mess. While I do work, because unless your are at least a bit wealthy, two incomes are required to survive, the thing that describes us best is a 1950's household. I do the cooking, cleaning, and take care of him. That is always number one on my list, that he is happy.
As always, intelligent feedback and comments looked forward to, all others, spit upon.

Yep, that part pretty much describes us.

Now wipe the spittle off your screen.

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