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thegood1saregone -> Who knew? (11/25/2009 4:50:36 AM)
When I first found out this past Spring that my fiance was into all this different stuff I was a little taken aback. I'd never had any experience with anything other than straight vanilla sex as he put it. I wasn't disgusted or put off on marrying him but.... Now. Now I'm finding myself more and more into it. On our honeymoon two weeks ago I let him tie me up and I loved it. I'm definitely the dominant one in our relationship but there's something about relinquishing all that control that really turns me on. We're experimenting with a lot of different stuff. He's not experienced either just open enough to know he wanted to explore and had just started doing so in the months before we got together. Granted we're just doing some very mild stuff compared to what I see being posted about on here but this is a big step for me and I'm really enjoying myself. He's easing me into being more dominant with him and today one of our toys will be arriving in the mail! I'm really excited about it. I can't believe I'm excited about it but I am and holy cow does it get me worked up just thinking about it. I still blush furiously and am a bit shy discussing things but I'm getting better about that. Who knew a month ago that I'd be doing these things and loving it! I'm really just amazed at myself and so crazy in love with this guy who has opened up a whole new world of pleasure for me :)

sirsholly -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 5:07:13 AM)
That is awesome!! Much happiness to both of you [:)]

DarkSteven -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 5:36:33 AM)
That is so cool. I loved that sweet post!

kanina -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 5:43:41 AM)
most of the people start as you do :) nice post [:)]

BitaTruble -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 6:08:28 AM)
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PapaKayne -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 8:00:32 AM)
Reminds me a lot of how I introduced my ex fiancee into BDSM. While we are no longer getting married we still cherish our D/s relationship.

lapgirl -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 8:54:14 AM)
[color=# FF3399] best wishes to you both for years and years of happiness...

Bluekitty -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 9:57:55 AM)
That's really lovely, I wish both of you every happiness

LadyPact -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 10:14:41 AM)
I really enjoyed your post. Thank you for sharing that with us.

wisdomtogive -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 11:53:14 AM)
Thank you for sharing such an enjoyable post, OP. It is nice to read this:) Welcome to the boards. wisdomtogive;)

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 3:34:23 PM)
This really mde me smile; thanks for sharing.....and have fun with the toy grins Zeph

elleX -> RE: Who knew? (11/25/2009 7:17:47 PM)
... i know , i will repeat here what everybody wishes both of you happiness for years !!! and to each one of you,, stay tranparent to each other !

pompeii -> RE: Who knew? (11/26/2009 3:42:38 AM)
I've introduced perhaps a half dozen women into D/s, only one of which actually got into it, so, YMMV.

badlilthang -> RE: Who knew? (11/26/2009 5:53:02 AM)
this made me smile so big....thank you for sharing- and may you have MANY fullfilling, exciting and loving moments in the years to come..s...

scattered -> RE: Who knew? (11/26/2009 7:25:14 AM)
That's great! Congratulations :D

leadership527 -> RE: Who knew? (11/26/2009 12:52:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thegood1saregone I still blush furiously and am a bit shy discussing things but I'm getting better about that. laughs I can so sympathize. I wasn't particularly used to discussing the intimate details of my relationships with other people either. But in the end, if you want to study some odd corner of human relationships, you gotta be willing to talk about it. quote: Who knew a month ago that I'd be doing these things and loving it! Once again, i can so sympathize. I routinely do, say, and think things nowadays that three years ago would've been unbelievable. quote: I'm really just amazed at myself and so crazy in love with this guy who has opened up a whole new world of pleasure for me :) That, along with trust and commitment are pretty much enough to go the distance.... any distance really, not just BDSM-ey ones. I'm really happy for you.

SirAntonio -> RE: Who knew? (11/27/2009 4:49:15 AM)
Congrats!... The best of wishes to both of you. I have help introduce my fiancé to the lifestyle almost a year ago. Yes, she has enjoyed many new things in her life. She was totally suprised about the lifestyle. I am a blessed man for having her for eternity.

devilishpixie -> RE: Who knew? (11/27/2009 6:28:38 AM)
Thank you for sharing, it was a wonderful post to read this morning. I hope you continue to grow and explore together!

BalletBob -> RE: Who knew? (11/27/2009 3:17:40 PM)
CONGRATS ! I am so happy for you two. Are the the Top to his Bottom? I wish my wife liked these kind of things, but she isn't/ I have to find friends elsewhere, for the control and guidence I need. You never know what you might like, till you try it. Years ago I seen MADAM use a Riding Crop on her Husband/sub, and asked if I could try it too, since I am very curious. She used it on me, and WOW ! I NEVER knew I would love someone whacking my BUTT with a Riding Crop before. Good luck and ALWAYS HAVE FUN ! Hope you happy Gagging and Bondage, sub BalletBob

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