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dreamerdreaming -> RE: A question about strap-on play (11/29/2009 1:49:47 PM)

No, just my fingers so far. We're still new to each other. We'll work up to my whole hand later, maybe. He's awfully tight to begin with, so right now I'm enjoying that. Just training him to respond the way I like... Yummmm... [:)]

Don't confuse me with Mal's dom, LOL! [8|]


Edited to add: Lockit, you are so evil! [:D]




Underumam -> RE: A question about strap-on play (11/29/2009 1:50:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

But darlin... I have a small arm! hehe


bad Bad Bad BAD Domina!!




MsFlutter -> RE: A question about strap-on play (11/29/2009 4:19:47 PM)

Enjoying strap-on play no more makes a man gay than standing in a garage makes one a car. 




Underumam -> RE: A question about strap-on play (11/29/2009 4:23:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsFlutter

Enjoying strap-on play no more makes a man gay than standing in a garage makes one a car. 


HEY!! There's already enough bad ideas floating around about what to park in my garage..lol.




PhoenixRed -> RE: A question about strap-on play (12/1/2009 10:54:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Underumam

There's something extremely sexy and appealing about being taken from behind by ones Mistress. I'm not gay, or even truly bisexual. Other than our mouth, the ass is the only other hole we have to offer Her. Being taken in this way is one of the most trusting, and humbling things a man can do for Her. It requires a complete submission, as well as one of the most pleasurable sensations I've ever known. It's not meant for everyday as it will eventually mean losing ones ability to orgasm during "conventional sex", and this can cause a multitude of other more complicated problems in the relationship. However, I fail to understand Her reluctance to even try it, or experiment. I guess it all boils down to personal choice and preferences, meaning that She might not ever desire to participate in the experience. I'd strongly suggest at least trying it on for size as it won't harm anyone, and most definitely doesn't make you gay. There's a big difference between being taken by a plastic cock being wielded by feminine energy, than a real one attached to a male........



Hi. I would like to know where you got the perception that the bolded statement above purports! I've used my strapon with a lot of guys, some on a regular basis, and "losing ones ability to orgasm during "conventional sex" " has never been an issue I've encountered! Their abilities in that realm remained intact. Also, "more complicated problems in the relationship" may be if you have a partner that doesn't share as wholeheartedly as you do regarding that activity in the dynamic you have.

As per your "garage".... just about anything can be accomplished with enough time, patience and lube! heh heh Just gotta have the trust and the patience yourself to let things evolve, if that's where you both want to go with it. Get'm Lockit! hee hee




Underumam -> RE: A question about strap-on play (12/1/2009 12:45:01 PM)

PhoenixRed,  I was speaking from a purely physical sensation and degree of  pleasure regarding my own orgasms. For me, anal stimulation during climax is the most pleasurable and intense sensation I've ever experienced. It was in fact a sort of Pandoras Box for me, in the fact that once I fell into a groove of this form, ordinary stimulation from a vagina without anal didn't work as well anymore. In fact, it became increasingly more difficult to achieve orgasm witrhout it. (maybe I'm just wierd lol.) It's been a while now since I've been with a woman who actually understands and enjoys this form of love-making, and conventional will not be a problem, yet I still crave being taken by Her in this manner. My point is that my personal experiences seems to indicate a need for establishing a delicate balance between the different methods, so that neither Her nor I have to forego the pleasure and satisfaction of remaining active and enjoying the conventional methods,and/or kink. No matter what the method, it is still an honor and a very sacred act to me. I don't mean to insinuate that I put my pleasure ahead of Hers, or over prioritize anal, as this is most definitely not the case.

W/we apperciate Your comments.





kentlad4urfun -> RE: A question about strap-on play (12/1/2009 1:19:54 PM)

Strap on sex is the biggest thing i want to try. Is it true it can make a bloke cum? Something to do with a blokes g spot is up there. Is this true and has it ever happened to any one?




mnottertail -> RE: A question about strap-on play (12/1/2009 1:20:59 PM)

yes, lad, you can cum, they are massaging the prostate, all in all done.

Ron(ne)




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