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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/30/2009 4:46:07 PM   
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This thread is a great disappointment: I was hoping for loads of subs saying: "I am Spartacus!"


You mean you don't make your subs dress up like Kirk Douglas and fight in the arena!? Whatever is this world coming to?


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/30/2009 5:01:39 PM   
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This tends to be the way all forums work
nine out of ten people will read your post, get where your coming from and not feel motivated to post.
one out of ten people will have issue with something you say and sometimes come of as aggesive in the way they disagree.

Its really rare someone posts on any forum from football, to politics, to science fiction, to the correct usage of butt plugs and all the other posters just agree or stick to the spirit of the original post.

Ok maybe if people are slaves you expect them to act with more respect.
But as many have pointed out, if they are not your slaves then they are free to say what they want.
Ultimatly people are just people.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/30/2009 11:31:44 PM   
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This is not about me, I am speaking of the average slave on here behaving like a hooligan.


Perhaps this has been the problem all along. Hands up all slave on this thread that think they are average. I don't. Nothing about me is average from the over large chest to the warped sense of humour. So not average.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/30/2009 11:54:29 PM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 12:57:39 AM   
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My owner likes me as a firecracker. Since I'm interested in serving him why the fuck should I care what some random dude on the internet wants?


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 12:59:41 AM   
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This is not about me, I am speaking of the average slave on here behaving like a hooligan.


Perhaps this has been the problem all along. Hands up all slave on this thread that think they are average. I don't. Nothing about me is average from the over large chest to the warped sense of humour. So not average.



Although, strictly speaking, (and assuming a normal distrubution) nearly half of you will actually be below average ;-)



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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 1:56:34 AM   
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Although, strictly speaking, (and assuming a normal distrubution) nearly half of you will actually be below average ;-)



Pshaw. You're just crazy. :D

People who contribute to forums do so because they like to write. People who like to write also tend to like to read. Readers are, generally, above average in intelligence over the general population. That's point one.

Point two; submissives who read the forums have access to a diverse opinion set and this may help them in understanding their own submission and gain them an awareness of self which the general population does not access through this media. I would mark this as an above average submissive simply because they have a wider knowledge base from which to choose their own unique path. Not always true, of course, but often enough that the 'average' submissive here is going to be above average elsewhere. The bar is raised on forums and the average population doesn't frequent forums at all. As a general rule, 'average' and forums don't really hold hands very well.

To answer the actual OP: Why slaves are often aggressives? Wolves hunt in packs and kill the weak so that the pack gets stronger. When a flailing so-called dominant saunters in waving his sword around demanding subservience and respect, it's generally a sign of inherent weakness of character and the pack attacks so as to stay strong. In other words, submissives are aggressive because the lack of power is apparent and the weak must die or the whole sub species will take steps backwards!

For dominants on here who believe submissives or slaves are too aggressive, I would suggest you look in a mirror to find the reasoning behind it because there are plenty of dominants who have earned the respect of both dominants and submissives. See what they have which you are lacking then try to emulate it and perhaps all those aggressive slaves will stop seeming so aggressive in your eyes when you are seen differently in theirs.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 5:35:49 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 6:56:34 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 7:33:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

This is not about me, I am speaking of the average slave on here behaving like a hooligan.


Perhaps this has been the problem all along. Hands up all slave on this thread that think they are average. I don't. Nothing about me is average from the over large chest to the warped sense of humour. So not average.

Are you saying you really do not understand what is meant with ''average'' in the context of this thread or are you pretending?
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good call, Susie!
In what way?

< Message edited by Eigenaar -- 12/1/2009 7:35:55 AM >

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 7:44:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I will simply answer the original OP. "Why slaves are often aggressives"

Because many self proclaimed D and M types are often obtusives.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 7:56:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Although, strictly speaking, (and assuming a normal distrubution) nearly half of you will actually be below average ;-)



Pshaw. You're just crazy. :D

People who contribute to forums do so because they like to write. People who like to write also tend to like to read. Readers are, generally, above average in intelligence over the general population.

For dominants on here who believe submissives or slaves are too aggressive, I would suggest you look in a mirror to find the reasoning behind it because there are plenty of dominants who have earned the respect of both dominants and submissives. See what they have which you are lacking then try to emulate it and perhaps all those aggressive slaves will stop seeming so aggressive in your eyes when you are seen differently in theirs.
My post concerns the average slave on here, meaning the average slave on this site, not the general average slave.

Concerning your remark aggressive slaves are caused by dominants, this sounds like you are saying it is the fault of the customers shops don't have the goods these customers want.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 7:59:28 AM   
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Greedy I adore her also. She is one of the people who's writings I would advise anyone new, coming into all of this, to read. I have learned so much from reading her stuff.


Agreed.

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Perhaps this has been the problem all along. Hands up all slave on this thread that think they are average. I don't. Nothing about me is average from the over large chest to the warped sense of humour. So not average.

Are you saying you really do not understand what is meant with ''average'' in the context of this thread or are you pretending?
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

good call, Susie!

In what way?


See post #287

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:01:08 AM   
GreedyTop


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My post concerns the average slave on here, meaning the average slave on this site, not the general average slave.


Am I the only one confused by this statement?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:02:54 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:04:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I will simply answer the original OP. "Why slaves are often aggressives"

Because many self proclaimed D and M types are often obtusives.

With this you are saying slaves are aggressive to non obtusive dominants because these slaves found other dominants obtusive.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:08:03 AM   
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:13:49 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:17:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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good call, Susie!


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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
In what way?


See post #287
I saw post #287 and it misinterprets.

< Message edited by Eigenaar -- 12/1/2009 8:19:08 AM >

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/1/2009 8:19:01 AM   
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(I am only reposting on this increasingly obtuse thread because I saw something about an overly large chest)

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