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The Strapless strapon? - 11/26/2009 7:42:30 PM   
QueenPenelope


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Status: offline 		To any woman who has ever used this, what is your opinion on it? Does it really give you a sensual pleasure as well? And does it stay in place or does it slip? I want to buy one but I want to know if its worth the money before I do.

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/26/2009 8:02:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-ons_36/feeldoe-slim-vibrating_1346.html

Here is a picture of one in case you do not know what I am talking about.


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/26/2009 8:17:18 PM   
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it looks great..

as a BBW I can see this to be an advantage in more ways than one


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/26/2009 9:26:11 PM   
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strap on sex with a woman does not make you gay just that you like anal play. i enjoy anal play with my mistress and i am not attracted to men. my Mistress enjoys the play as well you may like to try a feldoe dildoe for female to male play as it helps to stimulate her as well and no straps.


I just went ahead and copied clip's response on a thread from earlier today.  It seems a bit redundant to have to say it again within the same 24 hours.

For Me, it works pretty well.  There can be the occasional slip but you have to balance that out with the potential negatives of the harness.  (For example, if you happen to be above a certain size, you might find a harness uncomfortable.)  The cleaning of the one piece is exceptionally easy and there are no worries about storage.  Another advantage is the feeldoe is quicker to put on.  My other is one that has a harness and comes with a bullet vibe at the base.  Each type has their advantages, so you really have to decide what product is right for you.


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/26/2009 10:54:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Every woman's anatomy is going to be a bit different, and this may affect the Feeldoe. I found it to be a little uncomfortable to wear and it was not "hands free" - some positions were really awkward. If you are religious about doing your Kegel exercises and have strong vaginal muscles as a result, the Feeldoe will behave better, but for me, I really had to keep my legs clamped on it to make it stay in place, and that restricted my freedom and mobility in use. I haven't tried the Feeldoe with a harness, but bike shorts helped stabilize it a lot.

I found that I personally prefer the Nexxus with a Terra Firma harness best because it's much easier to manage "no hands" and seems to result in a better experience on both ends of the operation. Plus, I do think a woman in a harness looks hot.... (is it getting warm in here?)  I found that as the wearer, I got much better clitoral stimulation with the Nexxus, and I could indulge in a lot more rambunctious thrusting without worrying that it was going to go flying somewhere.

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 7:00:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		My ex had one and it worked quite well. The only drawback was that it wouldn't stay put in her when she wanted to shift into high gear. There are lots of other fun things it works well for too. The "her" end also functions well as handle, yet the "his" end it a bit small in circumference, so it works better on someone who's "tight". lol. It's also great for getting her off while the man is giving her head.

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 8:16:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		also there are diffrent sizes of the feldoe blue is smalest in diameter followed by the red and the black the thickest one

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 9:00:01 AM   
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LPslittleclip:
also there are diffrent sizes of the feldoe blue is smalest in diameter followed by the red and the black the thickest one.


Ah... uh... yeah.  The "black one".  It used to be the only size available.

*ponders a fleeting memory* :-)

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 10:17:12 AM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		I remember the blue one was great during my stretching out process, but soon became inadequate. A bigger one would have been better. lol.

Hey clip- have you and your Lady ever experimented with any ways to mke sure it doesn't pop out of her when the petal's to the metal?

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 10:26:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		fr, I have tried something similar but it didn't stay in well. I still find I have more control when I just hold it in my hand and use it that way.

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 10:46:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		underumam no W/we havent yet there are some that use a modified strap on it that uses metal o ring on the feldoe to keep it in place

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 11:12:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: QueenPenelope

To any woman who has ever used this, what is your opinion on it? Does it really give you a sensual pleasure as well? And does it stay in place or does it slip? I want to buy one but I want to know if its worth the money before I do.


In my experience from being on the receiving end of things, the women I've been with usually wound up needing a harness wearing these to prevent them from slipping out regardless of how strong their PC muscles were. Also, I personally don't like the Feeldoes because they're not at all flexible. If the "angle of approach" or insertion isn't "just right", things can be problematic and painful; potentially causing injury if things aren't adjusted right away.

Other double ended dildoes are more flexible, the Share being one example. Its far more flexible than the Feeldoe since its made from a silicone thats more like a normal dildo. I've not used a Nexus with a partner to be able to give a comparison.

The other thing I'd add is that all of them are shaped differently on the portion that's inserted in the Domme. Some women won't like the large bulb the Feeldoe has compared to say the Nexus while the Share is somewhere in-between; perhaps providing at least some amount of pressure against the G-spot for most women. The Share is definitely designed to provide very good pressure/contact on the clitoris of the woman wearing it which isn't obvious from the photos that are shown for it. On the down side, it does require a rather large ring though (approx 3") to use with a harness and doesn't fit one as well as the Feeldoe does. It also doesn't have the built-in vibrator feature.

Just some additional perspective being provided from the other end of the strap-on...

- pixel


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 11:34:12 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I remember the blue one was great during my stretching out process, but soon became inadequate. A bigger one would have been better. lol.

Hey clip- have you and your Lady ever experimented with any ways to mke sure it doesn't pop out of her when the petal's to the metal?



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ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

underumam no W/we havent yet there are some that use a modified strap on it that uses metal o ring on the feldoe to keep it in place


We haven't had too many issues with it.  We haven't even bothered with the harness because it hasn't been a problem.  I do tend to be a pro harness type, so almost any product that I would buy would have to have that as an option.  There are a lot of variables that go into this that you have to take into consideration, even over and above the product itself.  The height and weight of the wearer in relation to the height of the receiver can be one of these, as well as the level of the furniture used, etc.

In our case, it's been so far, so good.  Thankfully, even though he's a pretty good size (height) the boy is very, shall we say, flexible.


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 11:37:35 AM   
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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 11:51:35 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I thought you'd enjoy that one.  

Seriously though, sometimes it's good to have both of the people who are participating with each other be willing to discuss the topic.  It gives more well rounded information.  A lot of folks out there (no offense, but usually the males) don't give too much thought to the logistics of this subject.  Any female can tell you exactly what went wrong if they had the misfortune of choosing the wrong product based on a number of factors.


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 12:44:18 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		Well Lady Pact- this boy used to be very flexible until the old bod decided otherwise. lol. At any rate, I'm not too rigid (yet) lol. But with Her condition it's not even a remote possibility right now.  Damn it to hell.....*grimace*

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 12:52:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol, love the image of my 'petals to the metal' ;-)

I don't like the Feeldoe; the blue is the maximum I could insert, but it literally popped out with the first contractions of my climax! Major buzzkill!

Much prefer harness with the opening over my clitoris [not the pelvic bone as some instructions say!], and dildo of choice with a flared base + vibe.
Boo yah!

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 12:59:24 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		I don't want to think to much about this stuff right now. I miss it too much..lol.

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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 1:07:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Take a look at the Nexus....It works very well for me...


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RE: The Strapless strapon? - 11/27/2009 1:09:21 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Don't feel too bad there, Under.  My boy won't be coming back until February, so I won't be strapping it on, strapless or not, until he returns.  I'm more the intimacy type, rather than just willing to peg anybody.  It's worth waiting for.

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