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HentaiGamerKitty -> RE: How to aproach a slave on the net? (3/15/2006 5:31:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Slaveless1
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ORIGINAL: HentaiGamerKitty
Well seeing as how I'm a person looking for a mostly vanilla partner (with weekend bdsm playtime), he better damn well treat me like royalty when he meets me! He won't even get vanilla sex from me until he proves he can treat me like a lady and worship the ground I walk on. Once I decide he's worth my time, THEN we can talk about sex...and if he's good at that, then after a while we can talk about him tying me up and beating me. However, that's definately a privelege he has to earn, lol....
I will never worship anyone at any time not even you. You are not on stable ground. Good lord get a grip..............
I do not care if you are the queen of england, you are nothing more than a human being with an attitude that needs adjustment. As human beings, we are all equal and to be treated with the same dignity.
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I think you took me a bit too literally. I mean "worship the ground I walk on" in the old fashioned sense of love me, need me, treat me well, be concerned for my well being, treat me with dignity and respect, care for me when I'm sick, cheer me up when I'm down, let me know how much I mean to you both in words and actions, don't forget my b-day, call when you say you will, bring me flowers for no reason every so often, etc. You know, the old-fashioned idea of a man opening doors, paying the bill at the restaurant, and being a gentlemen. I don't see how that makes me unstable????
I don't think my attitude needs adjusting just because I want someone who will love and adore me as much as I love and adore him. When I'm in love, I give all....he should be able to do the same.
When I say I want to be treated like royalty, I mean I don't want to be with someone who thinks my purpose in life is to sexually pleasure him while recieving nothing in return, to be his maid, his doormat etc.
Once I've decided he's the kind of sweet and wonderful person I'm looking for, THEN and only then, do I consider engaging in bdsm activities with him. Once I know he's the right guy, then he can tie me up, whip me, beat me, humiliate me, do all sorts of nasty vile things to me, etc. BUT the minute he starts acting like I'm truly inferior to him, it's over. Oh and he might as well forget asking me to do his dishes or cook his dinner. That is SO not happening!
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