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Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 10:05:25 PM   
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I wanna punch this fucker out.

He's been dating this chic for like 8 years or so....I know this chic through work (trust me....I'm not interested in her...no really...not at all....let's be clear....etc......okay...she's hot...but really).

She's nice (no...really).

And....tomorrow I have to go to their house for dinner.

She loves him (and no....she's not dragging me along to make a point)....

I wanna smack this guy around and tell him to wake the fuck up.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 10:17:11 PM   
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I'm not sure I understand it clearly.  They live together and have invited you for dinner?  You are friends or acquaintances with both of them, it seems.  If she loves him, isn't that her responsibility to communicate to the guy?  If they are living together, isn't that something they would discuss anyway?  What is it that you are supposed to do... propose to him that he propose to her?  *ABORT MISSION!!!*  Getting involved will be disastrous.  You can only do so much when grown people won't be communicative enough to be straight with the person they love.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 11:01:14 PM   
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I'm not sure I understand it clearly.  They live together and have invited you for dinner?  You are friends or acquaintances with both of them, it seems.  If she loves him, isn't that her responsibility to communicate to the guy?  If they are living together, isn't that something they would discuss anyway?  What is it that you are supposed to do... propose to him that he propose to her?  *ABORT MISSION!!!*  Getting involved will be disastrous.  You can only do so much when grown people won't be communicative enough to be straight with the person they love.

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This is so fucked up....I can't possibly in this venue....he's just fucked up.

She's gonna walk away (I'm happily, by the way, etc.).

(Very).

He's a fucking moron.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 11:23:54 PM   
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I'm also lost... if she planning on leaving him and you know ahead of time?

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 11:36:47 PM   
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Is this the plot to "Jessie's Girl"?  He doesn't treat her the way she deserves, and you secretly yearn for her?  

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/27/2009 11:39:54 PM   
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I would go with... Guess who isn't coming to dinner. Seriously.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 4:29:27 AM   
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ohhhhhhh....

on the other hand, maybe she lusts for you, lnn, and this whole dinner thing is a ruse to sedate you with a delectable meal, and then seduce you, and fulfill one of her many fantasies, in which you are the star de jour.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 4:48:11 AM   
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ohhhhhhh....

on the other hand, maybe she lusts for you,
or HE does 

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 9:00:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I would go with... Guess who isn't coming to dinner. Seriously.


Yeah, that's the plan.

This guy is like an 8th grader.

And she's such a nice girl.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 9:02:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ohhhhhhh....

on the other hand, maybe she lusts for you,
or HE does 


Nawwww.....I'm a one woman man....and she ain't that girl.

(But he thinks I do...always has LOL....that's the whole problem with this guy....anyone even looks at her and he goes off....it's nuts).

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 9:17:55 AM   
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Nawwww.....I'm a one woman man....and she ain't that girl.

(But he thinks I do...always has LOL....that's the whole problem with this guy....anyone even looks at her and he goes off....it's nuts).


Ahhhh so it's a case of he thinks every man who looks at her is after her....including you. That would make me nuts, especially if there were no justification for it.


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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 4:31:20 PM   
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Okay, there shall be no lusting after LNN here! *I* am third (fourth?) In line!

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 4:50:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

I wanna punch this fucker out.

He's been dating this chic for like 8 years or so....I know this chic through work (trust me....I'm not interested in her...no really...not at all....let's be clear....etc......okay...she's hot...but really).

She's nice (no...really).

And....tomorrow I have to go to their house for dinner.

She loves him (and no....she's not dragging me along to make a point)....

I wanna smack this guy around and tell him to wake the fuck up.

Advice?







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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 6:07:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Acer49


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

I wanna punch this fucker out.

He's been dating this chic for like 8 years or so....I know this chic through work (trust me....I'm not interested in her...no really...not at all....let's be clear....etc......okay...she's hot...but really).

She's nice (no...really).

And....tomorrow I have to go to their house for dinner.

She loves him (and no....she's not dragging me along to make a point)....

I wanna smack this guy around and tell him to wake the fuck up.

Advice?







Stay out of matters that don't concern you, especially ones of a romantic nature



Excellent advice Acer.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/28/2009 6:26:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I would go with... Guess who isn't coming to dinner. Seriously.


Yeah, that's the plan.

This guy is like an 8th grader.

And she's such a nice girl.



And it's entirely possible she's aroused by fart jokes and snot rockets. Not your problem, don't put your nose where it doesn't belong. If she asks, give your opinion. Till then... oh well.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/29/2009 2:16:25 PM   
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Well in that situation i probably head for a burger bar and my favourite watering hole later

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/29/2009 5:46:51 PM   
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If you can see a train wreck coming, definitely stay off the tracks. About all you can do though, is ask him why he mistreats her when everybody else thinks she's great and he knows there are a dozen guys who would love the chance to treat her right. And ask her the same.

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RE: Okay....I have a friend....and.... - 11/30/2009 7:06:38 AM   
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I'd have to say Mind Ya Own Business

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