I've been spending more time looking at profiles than reading in the forums, but there's a lot of interesting discussion going on here, so maybe I'll spend more time here in the future.  CM ain't perfect but it's a very cool site, especially considering that it's free. 

 

The biggest gripe I have is with the fakes in the profiles section, but every site has those.  If anyone wants to share tips on how to spot them, feel free to message me or just post it in this thread.  One common type I've noticed has just one picture of a very pretty girl, with a few lines of broken English verbiage which read as if they were written by Borat.  Some of the people writing those things don't even seem to realize that this is a BDSM site!  Also, any profile with an email address or Yahoo/AIM screen name in it seems pretty fishy.

 

I've seen other "red flag" items, but that's enough for now.  I welcome any replies - well, unless they're rude. [;)]