PrimalConsonance
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(CNJDom here) OP: I know I'm probably going to hate myself, since I really don't want to promote this form of edge-play at all, but if you are going to insist on playing with plastic bags; at least consider this alternative: Take a nice bag like a large gallon-sized glad bag or a packaging bag...something with substance and some rigidity (not just some Walmart bag laying about). At the bottom of this bag, take a pair of scissors and cut approximately an inch off at a forty-five degree angle in the corners, which will allow for air to come in and not be a sealed death-trap.
You can then pretty much do what you like without the actual threat of dying right off. Of course they need to trust and be willing to submit to this or you will be a lonely person quickly. The mind-fuck: (Type-A personalities will enjoy), would be to blindfold them and then slip the modified bag over the head. They can feel the plastic, you can make it even feel like it's sealed somewhat about there neck... all the senses say ALERT: "bag over the head", but there will be available air to sustain safely. This alternative can be a bit like non-alcoholic beer: The senses say it's real, but in reality it's not...then you are faced with being content with it. IF you are not content and you have to have the real thing even though it's not good for you, then that is up to you and your choice. But the odds are, you'll have something go wrong with breath play and it just isn't worth it.
As I have stated before in another post, we already had a couple die locally in the area that had years of experience, and the tragedy was too much to bare for the Dominant once he found that he couldn't revive her. He killed himself right beside her, adding to that awful outcome to a routine session of breath-play for them. We play dangerous games, and some of more than others, but it is still dangerous no matter how safe we try to be. I just feel that the risks outweigh the safety factor here, and it is something that is a wrong path to go down, no matter how many times you've gone down that way.
And one last thing: Jay Wiseman knows what he's talking about and I would recommend it as good reading for those getting into playing with others. He is very informative on not only breath play, but impact play, bondage risks, and other do's and don'ts. SM 101, and his other books will have something for every level of kinkster to take something from. Now with Christmas and Hanuka around the corner....you can get these books and others like it even from Amazon (what a wonderful world we live in!). Take care, and good luck.
< Message edited by PrimalConsonance -- 12/3/2009 11:28:03 PM >
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