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Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 2:15:25 PM

walkonme10

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Hello is the type of photo you put on your profile important and also how you set out your profile is what will make you stand out from others, is this correct and if so could I have a little help and information about my profile and how to make it better

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 2:19:51 PM

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The type of photo is very important to me, more so than whether or not they have one.

I do not want to see a photo of someone's naked crotch, no matter how lovely it may be. I would not be interested in someone that puts a photo of multiple people on their profile. If the back ground is a disaster, I notice. I also notice if I have seen the same photo in other locals or on multiple profiles. I also place important on whether or not they have multiple photos.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 2:23:50 PM

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It is but you can't please everyone with any one picture. Your best bet is to consider how you want to be seen and put up a picture that reflect that. Then those who are drawn to that will be pleased.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 3:00:05 PM

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Thankyou for your kind words and yes it would appear that it is importnat to get a profile right but mostly right for you and what you stand for, If possible I would like a little help on mine if that is ok

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 3:08:26 PM

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It is but you can't please everyone with any one picture. Your best bet is to consider how you want to be seen and put up a picture that reflect that. Then those who are drawn to that will be pleased.

I agree with AquaticSub.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 3:16:33 PM

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How your photo looks online is almost as important as how you present yourself for the first time in real life. If you look bored or dirty (in a non-fun way) in a photograph, or if the photo is of bad quality; that shows you have little interest in yourself or how others percieve you, and that is decidedly unattractive.

In my profile, I'm very specific about what I'm looking for in a Domme. Some percieve that as being to agressive, but most find it attractive because it makes it easier to find a good match. I also include a few small, safe details about myself because it gives someone trying to contact me a starting point for conversation besides 'How are you?'.

Good luck!

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 3:19:25 PM

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Yes, a proper photo is vital. The person's expression shows a lot about their intelligence, kindness, and general attitude. Look through various profiles---do you feel motivated to talk to he grim, frowning folks?

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 3:25:34 PM

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I just checked out your profile and I think you're off to a good start. Your picture is clear and you look very domestic, which is what you seem to want in a relationship. You may want to get another one, though, that shows your full body in relation to a door or bed or some such piece of furniature to make it easier to judge height.

You also may want to work on your grammar in your description. Bad grammar is a staple of online relationships, and makes you sound less intelligent than you actually are. That is going to attract people who only want to cyber and not the real time relationship you actually seek.

Hope this helps,
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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 7:49:35 PM

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Hello again, yes my spelling is slowly getting better it has never been very good and has always been weak piont of mine but I am getting better and have a little way to go with it but thankyou for trying to help

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 11/30/2009 8:06:24 PM

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I take bad pictures anyhow, so the main reason I use them at all is so people can see who they're talking with. Hey, at our age, we don't have the Barbie/Ken thing goin on anyhow..lol.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 12:37:36 AM

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I agree with all of the above....except...- Tiger multiple pictures??????????????????????????????????????????????????????
What's the importance of that?

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 6:11:27 AM

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I'm fascinated by the clarity and warmth of your photo. What type of lights were in that room?

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 6:51:18 AM

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I agree with all of the above....except...- Tiger multiple pictures??????????????????????????????????????????????????????
What's the importance of that?

Most of the frauds only have one. If the writing is suspect and they only have one photo, I ignore them. I prefer to see several, obviously taken at different times and locations.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 6:54:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

Sfortzando

I'm fascinated by the clarity and warmth of your photo. What type of lights were in that room?

If I was going to guess, it might be in a bathroom with the above mirror/vanity lights.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 7:09:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Most of the frauds only have one. If the writing is suspect and they only have one photo, I ignore them. I prefer to see several, obviously taken at different times and locations.

I've had 1 pic for like ages n sometimes none! depending on da mood and way too detailed to no profiles..
gee me ish fake

Some people hate cameras, I for one hate cameras so 99% of the pics of me are taken when I'm drunk or acting like a jerk.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 7:18:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Most of the frauds only have one. If the writing is suspect and they only have one photo, I ignore them. I prefer to see several, obviously taken at different times and locations.

I've had 1 pic for like ages n sometimes none! depending on da mood and way too detailed to no profiles..
gee me ish fake

Some people hate cameras, I for one hate cameras so 99% of the pics of me are taken when I'm drunk or acting like a jerk.

I am trying to think how to explain. You, I know from here, there is a history that gives me a strong sense of who you are. I don't care whether you even have a photo, though I know that you do.

I was writing from a perspective of receiving an email from someone I have zero clue about. We've all seen the profiles, hot chick, one photo, very little written OR, what is written is vague and could appeal to a variety of potentials, sending an equally vague email that is probably a form letter.

Or, a profile that is similar, but usually more personal in their email, looking for "what would you do to me?" type information. One photo of hot chick, or the occasional 2-4 but all taken at the same time and location apparently. It just screams male looser looking for wanker material.

I get a lot of emails from both types. Usually they are deleted without an answer but on the rare occasion I give them a chance to prove themselves, they've always tanked.

Does that explain my reasoning a bit better?

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 7:28:20 AM

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hmm yepyep I must admit I've never thought about it that way though. If a person has 1 picture or 20 picture..if you want to put an effort into being a fake you can just find a blog site and take pictures from there that could be taken from all around the world.. but I do understand where you're coming from!

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 7:54:52 AM

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Only the bathroom lights. They are very warm, and I just got lucky with that snapshot. It's one of my favorites!

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 7:56:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I take bad pictures anyhow, so the main reason I use them at all is so people can see who they're talking with. Hey, at our age, we don't have the Barbie/Ken thing goin on anyhow..lol.

Welcome to the funny farm walkonme. *cheers*

Hey now! No one says you have to look like Brad Pitt, but your pic is clear and you look put together in it. This says a LOT.

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RE: Is the type of photo important - 12/1/2009 8:00:34 AM

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Well they used to say that picture don't lie. Then they invented photoshop

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