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LaTigresse -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:20:32 AM)

No! Now give me those shoes!




thishereboi -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:26:35 AM)

Show him this thread and ask him what he thinks.




ranja -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:30:08 AM)

on my thread about sex with marble eggs Aileen advised me to try it... she was one of the few more adventurous people replying... when i commented on that; Aileen admitted that she had been sarcastic... i was soooo disappointed....

op... my main concern was that my Husband would lose respect for me... i told Him i was scared... and so far we're very good (He even dug the marble egg adventure)




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:39:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ranja

on my thread about sex with marble eggs Aileen advised me to try it... she was one of the few more adventurous people replying... when i commented on that; Aileen admitted that she had been sarcastic... i was soooo disappointed....

op... my main concern was that my Husband would lose respect for me... i told Him i was scared... and so far we're very good (He even dug the marble egg adventure)


And once again Aileen touches a soul and left her permanent mark upon them. (kind of like a slutty Mother Teresa on Crack)!




breatheasone -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:54:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Shen, I do not come here to babysit. If a person is so uber sensitive that they require kid glove handling they are in the wrong place.


I dont think that is what she was saying. But if we get snarky with people they can run the other way. Go to some really yucky place for guidance. That would be baaad. Im not saying one has to be the B.D.S.M. ambassador, but if they are not trolling and really new and trying to reach out for help and community....well we dont have to be pit bulls guarding the gate.



i 200% agree with this. What i highlighted is the norm for some people, and it gets OLD.




LaTigresse -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 8:58:33 AM)

As I have said over and over and overrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, it is all about perception. What I perceive as honesty without a lot of silly sickening fluff, someone else sees as rude and offensive. What I see as sickening fluff, someone else sees as appropriate.

I cannot stop the sickening fluff and no one else can stop the blunt honesty. If either of us do not like it, we have a choice to NOT READ IT.

If someone does not like my style of writing, yet the mods have no issue with it, quite frankly I do not care. I suspect Aileen feels similarly.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:00:37 AM)

Pit bulls are also usually misunderstood.




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:04:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

As I have said over and over and overrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, it is all about perception. What I perceive as honesty without a lot of silly sickening fluff, someone else sees as rude and offensive. What I see as sickening fluff, someone else sees as appropriate.

I cannot stop the sickening fluff and no one else can stop the blunt honesty. If either of us do not like it, we have a choice to NOT READ IT.

If someone does not like my style of writing, yet the mods have no issue with it, quite frankly I do not care. I suspect Aileen feels similarly.



Ohh you are so sexy when you are frank. Spank me Mama![8D]




LaTigresse -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:07:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

Pit bulls are also usually misunderstood.


Usually only by the hissing kittens they are about to devour.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:17:03 AM)

oh piff!




Aileen1968 -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:42:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Shen, I do not come here to babysit. If a person is so uber sensitive that they require kid glove handling they are in the wrong place.


I dont think that is what she was saying. But if we get snarky with people they can run the other way. Go to some really yucky place for guidance. That would be baaad. Im not saying one has to be the B.D.S.M. ambassador, but if they are not trolling and really new and trying to reach out for help and community....well we dont have to be pit bulls guarding the gate.



i 200% agree with this. What i highlighted is the norm for some people, and it gets OLD.



I don't quite get why people equate bluntness for being rude.
So let's see...had I originally said "OP. I'm so sorry that you seem to have a communication issue with your man. My personal advice is to sit down and talk to him so that he can understand what you're thinking and you can understand what he's thinking. And then the two of you can continue on with your wonderful young love and ride off into the sunset."

I don't think I've ever spoken like that to anyone in my life. I write like I think and I write like I speak.

All of what I wrote can be summed up in a few words. Ask him. How would we have any clue?
There was never any rudeness in my words. If people saw that then they were projecting.
I assume that when people come here that they are functional adults until they show me otherwise.




sirsholly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:56:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

oh piff!
piff?


<---trying to use it in a sentence:

Piff on you...
You're really piffing me off...
Gotta take a piff...
The litter box smells like cat piff...

[sm=dunno.gif]






mnottertail -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:57:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

oh piff!
piff?



shes foreign, it sounds alot worse with her accent.

just sayin'

Ron




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:57:38 AM)

puff?

Ron....................................................................................................................................




mnottertail -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 9:59:23 AM)

the magic dragon......

Ron




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 10:00:36 AM)

[sm=tongue.gif]




sirsholly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 10:02:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

the magic dragon......

Ron
yanno...i nearly piffed my pants when i realized i was singing a song about wacky weed to my toddler...




mnottertail -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 10:04:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

the magic dragon......

Ron
yanno...i nearly piffed my pants


thats how ben franklin would have done it and spelt it as well




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 10:06:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Shen, I do not come here to babysit. If a person is so uber sensitive that they require kid glove handling they are in the wrong place.


I dont think that is what she was saying. But if we get snarky with people they can run the other way. Go to some really yucky place for guidance. That would be baaad. Im not saying one has to be the B.D.S.M. ambassador, but if they are not trolling and really new and trying to reach out for help and community....well we dont have to be pit bulls guarding the gate.



i 200% agree with this. What i highlighted is the norm for some people, and it gets OLD.



I don't quite get why people equate bluntness for being rude.
So let's see...had I originally said "OP. I'm so sorry that you seem to have a communication issue with your man. My personal advice is to sit down and talk to him so that he can understand what you're thinking and you can understand what he's thinking. And then the two of you can continue on with your wonderful young love and ride off into the sunset."

I don't think I've ever spoken like that to anyone in my life. I write like I think and I write like I speak.

All of what I wrote can be summed up in a few words. Ask him. How would we have any clue?
There was never any rudeness in my words. If people saw that then they were projecting.
I assume that when people come here that they are functional adults until they show me otherwise.


I thought you were fine.




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Will my dom get more aggressive? (12/1/2009 10:16:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

oh piff!
piff?


<---trying to use it in a sentence:

Piff on you...
You're really piffing me off...
Gotta take a piff...
The litter box smells like cat piff...

[sm=dunno.gif]




[sm=tongue.gif] lets minus the "i" then




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