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KateyCaine -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/4/2009 4:57:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood When I had passed through all my groceries at the check out and realised I had forgotten my wallet. So ashamed. i passed all my groceries at the check out, had my wallet, paid for the damn things (almost 200.00) then left without 'em... D'Oh!!! Hopefully you were able to see the funny side - the whole "Murphy's Law" aspect to it :P

Underumam -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/4/2009 5:09:01 PM)
Well, for me it wasn't exactly humiliating, but I was a little embarrassed. My ex and I were playing one afternoon at her place. I was a pony for a while(complete with tail)lol. We had only been together for a few weeks and I didn't realize she was an alcoholic. Anyhow, after riding me around the living room for a while, she shoved a large dildo up my ass and had me set on it, at her feet in front of her chair. She blindfolded me well, so I couldn't see anything. She instructed me to remain silent, while she "looked at me". The sting from several snaps of her riding crop made sure that I was completely obedient.lol. It was quiet first, for 5 minutes, then ten, and after fifteen, I was getting stiff, sore and the dildo was becoming a real pain in the ass. But still, I was afraid to move or ask her anything. Finally after what I'm guessing was almost a half hour, I heard her snore. I thought WTF? That wench!! Yep, she was passed out cold, and left me setting on her living room floor with a dildo up my ass! It's funny when I look back on it..lol.

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/4/2009 5:16:08 PM)
Humiliation is a state of mind. It is completely perceptual. The most humiliating act is going to vary from person to person, depending on what it is that causes that upwelling sense of abject weakness and objectification. The thing that humiliates one person may be completely arousing to someone else, and have no impact at all on another individual. Dame Calla

auburnvixen -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/5/2009 8:51:04 PM)
I adore acts of humiliation but there is one act that I utterly dread and that's if a Master either gives me an enema or watches me while I give myself one. ~shudders~ So far I have managed to avoid having that happen.

sunshinemiss -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/5/2009 8:53:48 PM)
Hello? Auburn Vixen's Master? She needed some help in letting you know something... *edited to add a wink cause I don't really know you and wouldn't want you to think I was serious. Naughty, yes, nasty, no.

auburnvixen -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/6/2009 4:50:53 PM)
sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to just accept the inevitablility of its happening someday

dreamerdreaming -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/6/2009 5:34:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to communicate very clearly from the start, that its a hard limit for me. Fixed. [:)]

breatheasone -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/7/2009 8:44:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to just accept the inevitablility of its happening someday quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to communicate very clearly from the start, that its a hard limit for me. Fixed. i have to agree with dreamerdreaming, Why in the world would anything being done to your body you don't want, be "inevitable" ?

ranja -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/8/2009 7:33:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to just accept the inevitablility of its happening someday quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations. My former Master was always threatening me with an enema, but never made me do it. I suppose I ought to communicate very clearly from the start, that its a hard limit for me. Fixed. i have to agree with dreamerdreaming, Why in the world would anything being done to your body you don't want, be "inevitable" ? maybe because making it a hard limit would take it off the menu? and that would maybe be such a pity... there would never be a need to beg to get out of it anymore.... and maybe it is much much much preferable to be disgustingly trilled by something sooo taboo...

dreamerdreaming -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/8/2009 2:19:10 PM)
Did you even read auburnvixen's post? [8\|] quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen "sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations..." What about the above suggests that she might be "disgustingly thrilled by something sooo taboo"?

ranja -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/9/2009 3:12:36 AM)
yes i did read her post dreamer and i think that exactly because she said "I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations..." so making it taboo for her but not enough to state it as a hard limit... so ineffect must like the occasional threat with it???? even come here to mention it.... that it might be inevitable... i think i got a different feel from her posting than you did, not to say either of us did not read it... she might well take your advice... i doubt it though

ambiguitydefined -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/10/2009 8:53:27 PM)
ah...that sounds SO famaliar to me. as i read your experiences, i had this insane rush of memories of my ex doing something similar after she had accused me of cheating. taller, and stronger, she definately had the advantage in the situation. in refernece to "Being dragged into the bathroom by my hair and having my head shoved into the toilet", i would have to add "humiliated and angry and very turned on". "Being dragged into the bathroom by my hair and shoved into the bathtub and having him piss all over me"--nothing close to that ever happened but when we had initally met, i was not interested in watersports, but with her command to do so, i fucked her with my hand as she came and pissed all over me. it was wonderful predecessor for other times. *sigh* i was lost inside her, would have done anything she wanted to please her, even if there was some inital reluctance on my part. we're no longer together due to various circumstances, sadly enough. i miss her. [:(]

Domitianus -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/11/2009 7:27:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming Did you even read auburnvixen's post? [8\|] quote: ORIGINAL: auburnvixen "sunshinemiss, I seriously do dread that - it's not a secret, oh-I-really-WANT-that-but-can't-admit-it, like so many other luscious humiliations..." What about the above suggests that she might be "disgustingly thrilled by something sooo taboo"? Just because a sub dreads something does not necessarily mean the sub is absolutely unwilling to have it done if her Dom wants it of her. There are many things a sub may dread, but would be willing to tolerate to please the one she serves. Given her experience, I suspect auburnvixen would communicate it as a hard limit if it truly was one. Of course, that doesn't mean she is disgustingly thrilled by the possibility of the act, either. But it seems pretty clear from her post that she's willing to tolerate if required of her because she takes more joy in her service than she dislikes the prospect of the act.

HOUDINI1961 -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/11/2009 10:48:43 PM)
woof, could someone do this to me???

stripmymanhood -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/12/2009 6:15:18 AM)
you know...i'd almost forgotten about this one but...i'd say it was when a Domme wanted me to fuck myself with a dildo....in front of a vanilla ex-girlfriend....while she was on the phone talking with the ex....and i did it...i think it was so humbilng and got me so excited at the last time i took that 9 incher to the hilt...needless to say...that was the last i'd seen of the vanilla ex...though on some level, she did seem to enjoy it...maybe because i wasn't terribly good to her when we split.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/12/2009 9:51:49 AM)
Roger, that. Thank you for your considered thoughts, ranja. [:)]

WendyMorning -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (12/14/2009 5:39:17 AM)
AnimusRex...I always look forward to seening your comments...and laughing or learning...Thanks

xssve -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (8/12/2010 6:22:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hierodule I would have to have a heart to heart talk with any stranger who planned on humiliating me. You also have to look inside yourself and really be honest about isuses that might come to the surface There are certain forms of humiliation that would not work for me, that might even cause emotional damage. What is the hotest play ever for one person might be a traumatic experience for someone else. As I mentioned earlier, ridicule and verbal insults are a trigger for me. If someone made me stand in front of them naked, told me I was an ugly worthless slut, said they didn't even want to be in the same room with me because I'm such a mess, spit in my face, and then fucked me I would break down. I know that about myself. However if the right person spit on me, pissed on me, and ordered me lick the piss of their boots while I thanked them for being so kind, I would enjoy it. However I would need "good girl" for obeying. After the "good girl" I could probably handle a "see you liked that didn't you? You dirty little girl?" edited to be slightly dirtier ;-) So I guess my answer is: insultee know thyself quote: ORIGINAL: donnatvma quote: Message << Older Topic Newer Topic >> What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 4:37:33 PM i am about to meet a Man for the first time...and he is interested in humiliation and i am somewhat inexperienced...i know we plan to take it slowly...so i am not worried..but is there some way to get up to speed? required reading? cliff notes? humiliation for idiots? [image]local://upfiles/911665/A6BF2B830A754B3086004C4FB27CF833.jpg[/image] Pretty much my first question now is always: "are you a good girl or a bad girl"? You get those Two mixed up, and all hell can break loose.

xssve -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (8/12/2010 6:36:38 PM)
I'm actually with Cali girl here, I have no idea what anybody else would find humiliating, you just never know about people until you do - there are people who wouldn't bat an eye at even some of more extreme public humiliation scenarios presented here. When it comes to verbal humiliation, I'd have to say I plan on sticking to the good girl/bad girl thing: you do a bad girl number on a good girl, she shuts down, you do a good girl number on a bad girl, she bust's out laughing, neither really desirable to setting a tone, if you know what I mean. I'd have to know her really well to do a public scene, and it would have to be under pretty airtight controlled conditions.

ModTwentyOne -> RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? (8/12/2010 10:10:33 PM)
Just a quick note, before anyone jumps on someone for resurrecting this dead thread - it was resurrected by a post that has been removed as a TOS violation, not the post you see above that appears to be resurrecting it. Mod21

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