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Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 12:24:34 AM

Wenchlette2

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I find it pathetic that I have been a member of this site for perhaps 24 hours and have been judged as self centred and hedonistic by someone who took My words from My profile and judged them to read what they felt it should read...

Not only did this person judge Me but they blocked Mwithout even giving Me the opportunity to answer the condemnations in email....

I did however get My opportunity and have decided the likes of that person are not what I wish to have in My life...

The beauty of the lifestyle no matter which one we all choose to live is to respect the way others wish to live thier lives....we may not like it but doesnt mean we have to cast stones at others....we wouldnt like it done to us...

Ive always said...if you dont like Me,you dont like the way I live dress look or talk......forget I exist.

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 1:29:30 AM

MistressDREAD

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welcome to the world of Collarme
Sum times you gotta take the good with the bad
We get judged all the time, dont let that little
issue worry you in the least. We have sum here
whom get off on contacting newbies and then
clipping their wings. Its a fetish for a kind of
humiliation. Just laugh it off as there loss and
move on to Us crazy judging callous folks in
here just sit back and see how many judgements
I get in a day when I am here.
oh yes welcome to Collarme

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 5:23:51 AM

LadyShoshin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wenchlette2

I find it pathetic that I have been a member of this site for perhaps 24 hours and have been judged as self centred and hedonistic by someone who took My words from My profile and judged them to read what they felt it should read...

Not only did this person judge Me but they blocked Mwithout even giving Me the opportunity to answer the condemnations in email....

I did however get My opportunity and have decided the likes of that person are not what I wish to have in My life...

The beauty of the lifestyle no matter which one we all choose to live is to respect the way others wish to live thier lives....we may not like it but doesnt mean we have to cast stones at others....we wouldnt like it done to us...

Ive always said...if you dont like Me,you dont like the way I live dress look or talk......forget I exist.

No matter where you go, when you get a group of people together, you are bound to find a jerk or two. You have an excellent attitude about it. Welcome to the site and I trust your future experiences will be positive ones.

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 5:35:30 AM

ShrewWhisperer

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Mistress D and Lady S have the right of it all.

Esp, about a class of folks who harrass new people, it develops because John Q. Dom has tried 345 times to get a cyberdate and so far its only him and rosie doing any dancing, so that anger becomes a vial of puss they pull by pushing new folks around.

Even as a sub...push back...subs have all the power in a relationship between dom & sub (wait save your rotted vegtables you're getting ready to hurl) a dom is there for the sub...he/she trying to fufil the dreams & desires of the sub --thats power, now a good dom will know what to do and a bad dom will call you names when you push.

and as far as the hedonism charge...um...does the fellow understand we are all here for one form of carnal interest are another...makign us all guilty of it?

as my dog would say, "there are people should hold a whip..and some should just have an anal-oral gag with one"

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 7:44:49 AM

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Welcome Wenchlette2to the world of internet groups were every one judges every one on what they say and do for it is much safer to do it on line than to your face. It sad to think there people who do not have any thing better to do with their life than get on line and attack every one they do not like based on what they say or agree with. MMMMMMM Sound like a Democrat way of doing things mmmmmmm

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 12:19:48 PM

jillwfsub4blkdom

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Welcome to the board. Please do not judge all of us based on a few misguided souls. It does seem that the internet allows people to put on a persona that they would normally not. As was said previously, it is their loss that they won't take the time to find out what type of person You are.

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 1:01:57 PM

proudsub

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quote:

Not only did this person judge Me but they blocked Mwithout even giving Me the opportunity to answer the condemnations in email....

It's not worth your time to answer ones like that, just delete, block and forget., IMHO.

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 2:54:51 PM

UtahGoddess

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Hi there :)

I kinda enjoy being self centered and hedonistic!

Ms Sandi

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 3:39:21 PM

sub4hire

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Hey There Wench,
Welcome to the human race. We all judge and we will be judged. Hey, where have I heard that from before?

It is not an internet thing. It is a human thing. You are judged no matter what walk of life you are in. Your kid's friends judge you. "Hey, she has the cool parent"
What matter's is those close to you like you. You like them back. It's easy to judge someone without getting to know them. Just as easy for you to ignore them as well. Why should their words matter to you?
Do they know you? Have you ever spoken to them? Will your paths cross in your entire life again?
Don't waste your time on those who cannot understand you and spend some of your time with those of us who do care to get to know who you are.

So, welcome to the boards. Don't forget to introduce yourself and do you have any questions so we can get a discussion going?

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/3/2004 6:31:37 PM

MissFem

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wow.....well like that which was already spoken....welcome to the net....if we were not so judgementel....we would be perfect

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/4/2004 12:30:16 AM

lanette

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damn, MissFem, you mean we aren't perfect??? But you told me last night that i was.....

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/4/2004 12:56:59 AM

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Enjoy the bitter with the sweet. No place is without its potholes, the beauty of the rose is enhanced by the thorns(love those thorns). When you find the ones that are open and willing to interact then the work will be worth the effort. Remember you hold the things most precious that cost you in sweat and time. Welcome to the boards, nice to meet you. Sundew

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RE: Judging people you don't know - 9/22/2004 6:39:55 PM

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