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Serving my lady from afar. - 12/2/2009 12:31:17 PM

Tinkerer

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I really miss serving my lady, and I'm really starting to see how much I enjoyed getting things around the house for her, driving her where she needs to go, cooking for her, cleaning the kitchen or bathroom, carrying things, giving her massages, etc... I'm going to be away for three more months before I'll even be back in the same country, and I miss doing those things for her. I still call almost every day and try to write frequently (though my penmanship is atrocious), I'v even found a few gifts that she'd really like, yet I still feel like I need to do more. I know people here tend to be creative. Do you have any ideas of things I can do for her from a few thousand miles away?

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/2/2009 1:24:33 PM

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Aww you sound so sweet. For me, I'd like to get emails, hand written letters, text messages, spontaneous gifts, and phone calls. Those cute e-cards are nice too, but I'm a romantic at heart.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/2/2009 1:37:42 PM

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Letters and calls are sweet, but if you feel like you should be doing more you can always find out if she has any digital needs. I personally have a database I am working on and could easily set it up for online entries. Perhaps your Lady has something similar.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/3/2009 8:49:52 AM

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i also serve as i can from far away and one thing i do is have a set time to chat and respond to posts on the bord here. one of the best things i have done from afar is to have a maid service sent to my wifes home to clean for 2 hours. she loved it as it was a complete suprise.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/4/2009 7:15:17 PM

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Hi.

I own a sub that's long distance and it works no problem because I'm always telling him to contact me about what he's doing for me and I'm always giving him new things to do for me. Some times he's writing articles or posting and other times I tell him to punish himself. The ideas are endless. There's so many ways I dominate him from far away. I've owned him for a few years and we're both really happy with the relationship.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/4/2009 7:34:50 PM

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Hi.

I own a sub that's long distance and it works no problem because I'm always telling him to contact me about what he's doing for me and I'm always giving him new things to do for me. Some times he's writing articles or posting and other times I tell him to punish himself. The ideas are endless. There's so many ways I dominate him from far away. I've owned him for a few years and we're both really happy with the relationship.

Hope this helps.

I'm not sure what the thrill of punishing ones self is, but it seems a bit like self-masturbation..lol.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/4/2009 8:58:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Underumam

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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hi.

I own a sub that's long distance and it works no problem because I'm always telling him to contact me about what he's doing for me and I'm always giving him new things to do for me. Some times he's writing articles or posting and other times I tell him to punish himself. The ideas are endless. There's so many ways I dominate him from far away. I've owned him for a few years and we're both really happy with the relationship.

Hope this helps.

I'm not sure what the thrill of punishing ones self is, but it seems a bit like self-masturbation..lol.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 11:26:55 AM

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I'm not sure what the thrill of punishing ones self is, but it seems a bit like self-masturbation..lol.

If it's actually a punishment, it's not supposed to be a good thing.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 6:01:34 PM

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He often works away from home. I get assigned research tasks. I've been asked to research how to build a concrete shower. The last was how to connect pvc drain pipes to a 50 year old cast iron pipe packed around with lead.

I seem to have more patience and better luck in finding the right keywords than he does. I'll go through pages of wrong stuff till I eventually find the keyword that takes me right to what he needs.

If she hasn't finished her Xmas shopping yet, and has an idea of what she wants to get loved ones, you could look through different sites to find several options for her to choose from.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 7:05:41 PM

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Slave does my finances whether he is close or away.
Slave does most of my correspondence. Checking email for me, answering some and forwarding me others.
I run two companies so I make all the major decisions, hiring, firing and so forth but he implements them.

If you are looking for service long distance:
Online grocery stores -- ordering, arranging delivery
Online dry cleaners -- arranging pickup and delivery
Bill Paying
Financial Reports, weekly and monthly
Social secretary, online calendar, arranging appointments and reminders.
Weekly reports of social events and movie times, sporting events etc.

No matter if he is here or away, slave sends me daily emails with various items in it from soccer schedules to reminders of UM's dentist appointments. he has found a place to have a shoe repaired and texted directions and hours, he has called appointments to say I'm running late etc.There are a million ways for a creative person to serve another long distance. If there weren't then we wouldn't be outsourcing to India.

Because slave operates like a secretary I find him both invisible and indispensable..highly desirable qualities in my (a) slave.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 7:23:00 PM

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I'm not sure what the thrill of punishing ones self is, but it seems a bit like self-masturbation..lol.

If it's actually a punishment, it's not supposed to be a good thing.

Oh- ok...I get it now..lol.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 7:57:30 PM

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He often works away from home. I get assigned research tasks. I've been asked to research how to build a concrete shower. The last was how to connect pvc drain pipes to a 50 year old cast iron pipe packed around with lead.

I seem to have more patience and better luck in finding the right keywords than he does. I'll go through pages of wrong stuff till I eventually find the keyword that takes me right to what he needs.

If she hasn't finished her Xmas shopping yet, and has an idea of what she wants to get loved ones, you could look through different sites to find several options for her to choose from.

Leave that pibe joint to a real pro. The one who was involved in the renovation of my place changed every cast iron to plastics leaving only the joint to the main incomer. He said it will leak adventually, but i should be pushing up daisies by then. Something with the difference in how the two materials work together. A real shit job.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/5/2009 8:32:50 PM

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I have total faith in Celeste. More importantly, so does her Gentleman.

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RE: Serving my lady from afar. - 12/6/2009 2:18:44 PM

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Thank-you for the replies so far. Lots of good ideas.

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