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karleigh1957 -> just a thought....... (3/14/2006 5:55:40 PM)
doesnt a Domiant/slash Master..have as much to learn and grow from ...His submissive/slash slave? (rhetorical question...)

cillydom -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 6:04:55 PM)
The smart individual learns from everyone that touches him or that he touches, but in a d/s relationship he learns about both she and himself. I wrote an essay which you’ll find in my journal the futher explains my phylosophy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 6:18:22 PM)
Each person has to learn what they have to learn. Sometimes we're gifted, sometimes we're talented, sometimes we were lucky to have excellent teachers at an early age. But yes, what we have to learn and how to operate effectively in a relationship has nothing to do with what orientation a person happens to have.

IrishMist -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 6:20:13 PM)
The day you stop learning is the day you stop living [8D] No matter who or what you are.

cillydom -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 6:30:01 PM)
I meant that in a good d/s relationship this learning can be so much deeper as more is shared

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 7:32:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom I meant that in a good d/s relationship this learning can be so much deeper as more is shared Depends on the relationship. I think my sister and her husband in a vanilla relationship have shared a lot more in their 8 years of marriage and 2 children than a lot of Ds relationships out there in the world. I don't think M/s relationships have shared more than I do with my partners. Ds is not inherently deeper than any other relationship.

FangsNfeet -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 10:00:34 PM)
Pet and I continue to learn from each other. Education, experimentation, reading, and discussion, is a continuing process for us. New idea come to mind now and then and we research them together.

amayos -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 10:51:21 PM)
A Master must be comfortable in his own skin, balanced with knowledge of forethought and understanding always that though he is essentially a teacher, never does he cease to learn.

ownedgirlie -> RE: just a thought....... (3/14/2006 11:51:34 PM)
quote: Ds is not inherently deeper than any other relationship. Perhaps for some. This is not a universal truth for all.

fastlane -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 4:54:33 AM)
Oh My God......Yes! You can not help but learn more about an individual that your in a relationship with as you spend more and more time together. Secrets, fantasies, bitchiness, jealousies, emotional stability or instability, as well as a million other personality traits and quirks, are all things that come out over time not in a day or two, and it doesn't matter if your the Top or the bottom, you will both continue to learn. Peace, Kevin

RavenMuse -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 4:57:57 AM)
When you stop learning then it is time to nail the lid down.

LokisBrat -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 5:06:35 AM)
"The wisest mind has something yet to learn." -George Santayana (1863 - 1952) To stop learning is to stop living. brat

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 8:51:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Perhaps for some. This is not a universal truth for all. Ds as a relationship is no deeper than any other type of relationship. What makes it deeper is the person. For my sister, her vanilla relationship is far deeper than any Ms relationship you could show her.

ownedgirlie -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 8:56:28 AM)
quote: Ds as a relationship is no deeper than any other type of relationship. What makes it deeper is the person. For my sister, her vanilla relationship is far deeper than any Ms relationship you could show her. You speak in absolutes. i'm not speaking about your sister, nor about anyone in particular, nor am in some sort of competition about it. i am simply saying it is not an absolute truth, as you continue to state it is. If you wish to believe it is, we will simply disagree on it.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 9:00:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie You speak in absolutes. i'm not speaking about your sister, nor about anyone in particular, nor am in some sort of competition about it. i am simply saying it is not an absolute truth, as you continue to state it is. If you wish to believe it is, we will simply disagree on it. It is a truth in that "heterosexual relationships are not deeper than homosexual relationships" "Ds relationships are not deeper than vanilla relationship" You're right, it's not a competition- there is no "winner" or "deeper" or "better." FOr an individual person, one type is better FOR THEM. That doesn't mean the relationship type itself is better or deeper universally.

ownedgirlie -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 9:03:45 AM)
quote: FOr an individual person, one type is better FOR THEM. That doesn't mean the relationship type itself is better or deeper universally. Then you agree with what i have been saying. While it is not a universal truth that D/s is deeper, it is also not a universal truth that D/s is NOT deeper. Correct?

cillydom -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 9:23:52 AM)
You can have a marriage of many years without having any understanding of each other, that wouldn’t be possible with in a d/s relationship.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 10:18:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom You can have a marriage of many years without having any understanding of each other, that wouldn’t be possible with in a d/s relationship. Sure it is.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 10:20:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Then you agree with what i have been saying. While it is not a universal truth that D/s is deeper, it is also not a universal truth that D/s is NOT deeper. Correct? Your multiple negatives confuse me. However I have not changed my feelings on this. One type of relationship is no deeper than another type of relationship. A particular person might feel deeper within a particular type of relationship. BUt that has nothing to do with the relationship- but with the person.

RavenMuse -> RE: just a thought....... (3/15/2006 10:51:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross A particular person might feel deeper within a particular type of relationship. BUt that has nothing to do with the relationship- but with the person. Ladys, Let me help you over the language barrier. You ARE saying the same thing, just from opposite viewpoints. ie. That it is a personal, not a generic thing. Some will find D/s to be more intense for them, others will not.

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