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Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 5:48:49 AM   
HOUSEofSIRE


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Status: offline 		What are your favorite protocols and rituals?

Are there any that you do so often that they simply become a part of the routine and you hardly notice when you are doing them?

If something changed in you life and the two of you could no longer maintain all of them what few would you really really want to keep?
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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 5:57:48 AM   
HOUSEofSIRE


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Status: offline 		Some of my favorite rituals include, bathing Sire, undressing Him before bed, being 'put down' every night (this involves Sire putting my wrist and ankle cuffs on and chaining my right ankle to the bed, then kissing me goonight), waiting for the car door to be opened and giving Sire and hug and kiss when getting into and leaving the car, and our morning ritual.

If all the rest of them were gone, i would want to keep these because they reaffirm my place as His slave and alternately express our love for each other.

And yes there are a few that i do now out of reflex and am not always aware that i even did it. The car door for one. When we are together i am not allowed to begin eating until given permission. If i am waiting for Him i automatically go into the San or Shi position regardless of whether or not He told me to go there.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 6:00:28 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		We don't have a lot since we're not high protocol.
I keep certain items in the house at all times because he has requested that they should always be there.
Other than that we tend to be quite casual while following the one basic rule that I do what he says.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 7:43:37 AM   
lucylucy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

We don't have a lot since we're not high protocol.
I keep certain items in the house at all times because he has requested that they should always be there.
Other than that we tend to be quite casual while following the one basic rule that I do what he says.


This is similar to my situation. Keeping limes, vodka, and tonic stocked is #1. Keeping creamer for his coffee stocked is #2.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 7:59:07 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		We have a few rituals and ongoing protocols. Some are great ways to keep our passion on simmer while out and about in public; others are a bit more strict and for times when we are in private or with people who know of our dynamic.

By far our favorite and the one in place the longest, it my morning coffee ritual. beth brings me my coffee in bed with my 'cream' served as whipped cream on her nipples. We've order whipped cream in hotels. In over six years I don't think there has been but a few dozen times when circumstances, or an empty can, prevented us from following that morning ritual.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 8:14:24 AM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		there are many things i do for my Mistress when i am with Her but while im deployed i still chat with her and remember that i am to kneel before Her when she sends me to bed sinbce i cant be tucked in to bed.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 8:15:13 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Since we have children in residence and frequently our time is not our own, we're very low key. I wait for him to open doors. I walk next to him in stores, this is a problem since I will get distracted and linger for a moment by an end cap and then not know where he's gone. Especially in Home Depot or Lowes. I should come sit next to him at all times which involves a lot of jumping up and tending to stuff in the kitchen.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 8:32:27 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		We are just now forming our ritual's and protocol and I am sure that whatever we do will change depending on our needs, desires and what is going on in life. The one that stands and I expect to keep even when work hours might mean modifying how things are done, is my morning greeting. When I awake, he sets me up with my coffee, milk or whatever else I might want. We are still working on the bonding time with him kneeling after I wake up, but that is more my fault since it can take hours some days and by that time he is busy working on something.

So far life gets in the way of a lot of things, but I feel he really wants and needs some ritual... maybe because we are new to being in person. But he goes through the day looking for ways to ease my way or serve and care for me. I've found that he has expectations of himself in opening doors or helping me and can get quite bossy (BBB) when he thinks I am doing too much. lol It's rather sweet and funny and I often get reminded that a good sub is right there and can be told what I want done. lol

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 9:41:49 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		We do not have a lot of them, but a few. I cannot drink Coke because it makes me sick. Master likes Coke will not drink Pepsi. I alway make sure i have some Coke on hand for him.. I also have to give him a kiss when i leave and return to his side. That is autimatic now. That is a ritual i love.

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 9:47:09 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		No, none here, but Master and i don't living together either. We are M/s because that who We are, not because of what We do. We probably look as vanilla as the bean right now, because We are in a place where theres not a lot of time for getting together and practicing what is in Our hearts. 

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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 1:28:41 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		Unless there is a serious time constraint, I always remove and put on Master's shoes.  I kneel, always on a pillow, and do this, then kiss His feet and bow forehead to the floor, straight backed with my ass up, hands on the floor in front of me.  Master usually praises and compliments me at this time, and sometimes gets up to walk around me, or touch me, sometimes putting His feet up on me.  After some time, He commands me to embrace Him, which I do, upright on my knees while He is sitting, resting my face in His lap.  He then wraps His arms around me, kissing the back of my neck and lowering His head to mine. 

It is a very special communion between us, where I show my submission and devotion, and He shows His acceptance and love for me.  It is very tender and intimate. Short of breaking my legs or a hip, I will always do this for Him...


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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 4:41:00 PM   
KateyCaine


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Status: offline 		When i was over in the US, i would kneel before Him at night, untie His shoelaces, and remove His shoes and socks. i would then place them next to His computer desk by the bed, with the socks inside His shoes. i would then massage and kiss His feet. i would then retrieve one of His white T-Shirts that He wears to bed, from the drawer, and place it before Him, neatly folded from when i did the laundry. In the mornings, i would always retrieve fresh boxers, a clean black T-Shirt and a pair of jeans from the drawer and neatly place them on the bed and wait for His instructions to dress Him. This is something very beautiful that we share, and will share again when i return to the US in 10 days. Hopefully that will be part of our routine every day once i am living there permanently.

Although i did actually bathe Him several times, i would always have His towel ready for Him after He had showered, and i would lovingly and thoroughly dry His body and rub His freshly-shaved head with the towel to dry it, then wipe the water from His face, and kiss His lips. i would then hang the towels on the door to dry (it was summer when i was over in the States), as per procedure for after every shower.

Before we would go out, He would tell me to bring Him His keys and packet of cigars, and anything else He needed or wanted me to bring to Him.

To me, this wasn't just a ritual or routine, i expressed my love for Him, and my devotion and obedience to Him every time i did these things. Seeing the absolute love and acceptance and approval in His eyes when i serve in this way, will always fill me with joy and warmth that no words can express.

k :)





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RE: Protocols and Rituals - 12/4/2009 4:51:14 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		Life gets in the way of almost everything right now..lol.

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