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First Dominatrix - 12/4/2009 12:43:28 PM

TallLeedsSub

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Hey im a 22 year old male and im very much considering going to see a Dominatrix to see how much i enjoy it. im hopeing for some puppyboy play, been bound, caned, whipped etc and maybe some anal training. I was wondering if any one has any advice about seeing a Dominatrix for this first time.
Thank you.

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RE: First Dominatrix - 12/4/2009 1:34:51 PM

missannabellee

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If you are talking about a professional- look through the reviews first. Be certain you are clear about such things like safe words and be willing to communicate what you crave.

Good luck.

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RE: First Dominatrix - 12/4/2009 1:44:33 PM

GYPSYMAMBO

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TALK...TALK..get things clear...

and TALK...

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RE: First Dominatrix - 12/4/2009 2:49:18 PM

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Hey op, just a little word of caution- if you only want to experience the bdsm kinks, then seeing a pro is fine. If you are like me and have an empty heart with the honest desire to serve/be in a relationship with a Domme, a pro might do more harm than good. Pros are human beings too, and as such, you might be very tempted to allow your heart strings to start attaching and besides becoming very expensive, this will lead to all sorts of emotional instability. Be careful who you get involved with...

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RE: First Dominatrix - 12/4/2009 7:00:37 PM

AcademyForSlaves

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Hi.

-Be polite.
-Don't forget your place. Always be sub until your out the door and down the street.
-To get real domination don't hand her a script, but when making the appointment you can nicely discuss what you'd like to try.
-Don't show up drunk.

There's a really great article about this on GoddessClub.com I think it's called, How to behave in a session, or something like that. It has great tips in it that a lot of subs say were helpful.

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RE: First Dominatrix - 12/6/2009 12:14:00 AM

MasterK13

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Try Mistress Alexia Jordan or Domina Snow I have heard that they are suppose to be exelent pros.

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