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sirsholly -> RE: Being dommed before Domme's children (12/6/2009 7:38:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
Well divorce is even messier and i know it happens. But particularly if a person is divorced isnt there enough upheaval already without subjecting the kids to another partner. So in your opinion a divorced mom must never have another partner?
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As for interests by all means. But why should it involve a strange man who is not related to the kids
Ahhh...she can have another partner, but he must be a relative...
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and who does work for no payment or worse still pays Mammy to be around Her. Kid s would find that strange particularly if Mammy does not work and takes payments off men for work done in house.
Do you think every business transaction happens in front of the kids? The children should not be aware of any financial arrangement between the Domme and sub. Children also have no business knowing the arrangement between a vanilla parent who hires a housekeeper.
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Interests could include with young kids, going on holidays, trips to the zoo, golf, pitch and putt, going to the beach. And by all means go for evening classes go to university etc. Don t put your life on hold no way.
Sure...don't put your life on hold.... do all the things Kevin suggests, but without companionship, because you do not introduce a stranger into the family, even if Mom desires a relationship.
Kevin, let me tell you something...Dommes do have solid, lasting relationships with their subs. A submissive will be a stranger to the children at first, as would a vanilla man be to the children of a vanilla woman he is dating.
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But do it in a manner that most kids think is right socially.
Young children really do not have a handle on the social behavior of adults...nor do they dictate it.
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If word got round that Mammy was a money merchant and did no work but lived off male payments, what is kid to think, what is Mammy teaching kid, you can get very wealthy in life by doing nothing, just acquire a number of male friends and they will pay for your livelihood in exchange for work duties that male has to do
Why are you assuming a Domme will have a revolving front door with a harem of male submissives passing through? I get the impression you feel a Domme is not capable of a manogamous relationship with a submissive. Also, you seem to think the kids will be informed of every move mom makes and will then share it with everyone they know ("OK kids.....meet Mommy's submissive of the week, here to wash the windows and clean the litter boxes, just for the thrill of serving me. Now...you young'uns run along and tell all the neighbors!!")[8|]
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