LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact It is My personal opinion that the parents of the kid should be placing blame exactly where it belongs. The 'kid' is 19 years old, which means he is an adult, and fully responsible for his own actions. Even if there were outside influences encouraging him to break into a home (somewhere in this thread, someone mentioned it *may* have been a gang initiation) there wasn't a soul in that room but him and Orion when he was told to show his hands. It would have been easy enough for him to do that. Do I think those parents are grieving that their son has been wounded? Yes, I do. At the same time, as a parent Myself, I always taught Mine that they were responsible for their own actions, and those actions certainly can have cause and effect. I do agree with some of what you say except the parents are often not to blame. They do thier best...just as good as you ...and still their child became a murder or burglar....why… who knows there is just something in the child different from most. But it is hard for a parent not to feel it is their fault, even though it is not, and they still feel love and loss. Butch Since you seem to have missed it in My original statement, I underlined and bolded exactly where I said the blame lies. At no time did I blame the parents for this. I agree, they may feel that they are to blame, but that may or may not be the reality.
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