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TazDevil -> why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 12:37:16 PM)
it could be said anything can be made in to a kink, that could mean that everything is, so why do's all every little odd and end kink need it own word/term? can't it just be a like a (for example) "blow job fetish" and that’s that?

Justme696 -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 12:38:29 PM)
It makes us look more interesting then vanilla's...that is it.

mnottertail -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 12:40:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TazDevil it could be said anything can be made in to a kink, that could mean that everything is, so why do's all every little odd and end kink need it own word/term? can't it just be a like a (for example) "blow job fetish" and that’s that? I have one of those, and that is what I call it. Ron

breatheasone -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 12:45:03 PM)
~~FR~~ ....well i have a breathing fetish[;)]

Lockit -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 12:46:02 PM)
Oh you men of few words... lol... everyone knows... but might not admit, that we women often need to title everything so that you can understand our fifty words to your one, commentary. hehe

AlexandraLynch -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 1:07:31 PM)
I suppose it's a holdover from the medicalization of sexuality.

doublesweetness -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 1:21:37 PM)
Well there is obviously a medical/scientific/knowledge based reason for accurately describing any phenomena, sexual or not. We could call everything "grunt" but then we'd still be living in caves. Communication and knowledge both demand accurate descriptions. Also there is that little thing called ego. People like to belong to groups, but they like special attention paid to the tiny details of their existence even more.

AquaticSub -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 1:29:04 PM)
~Fast Reply~ Because "queening" takes a lot less time to type than "I lay on the ground and put my head under this little wooden chair thing that has a hole in it and then she sits on my face"?

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 1:31:42 PM)
OP: BJS are not a fetish.. a fetish is the eroticism of a thing( no RON not a peener!) or body part NOT USUALLY thought of as sexual... or conventionally thought of as so then we get into this: I think feet are erotic so to me it is not a fetish or kink but to someone else it might be.. or even gross then we get into humilations.. to me a man panties is erotic not humilating but others may think so.. I heard one I never heard before...TWINK...adn I like to see TWINKS in action Then there was the time a guy on here... and I fukkin kid you not.... said to me "I will come over and bring you a rose and fuk you missionary.. *are you intrigued?"[:-]* so is missionary the new anal or what??[:o] I'm confused GM [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image]

Lockit -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 1:40:45 PM)
GM... my ex from Canada... father of my children... called farts a rose. You might be on to something there. [:D]

AquaticSub -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 3:20:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO so is missionary the new anal or what??[:o] I'm confused The way people talk about it on these boards, it's pretty fucking taboo. Personally, I love missionary and get my best orgasms in it.

Drifa -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/9/2009 4:55:17 PM)
Specific terminology makes it easier to talk precisely about a topic on many levels. There is a reason poets struggle to select JUST the right word. Words contain nuance, and nuance enhances meaning. "Blow job fetish" is okay, people understand what it is, but fellatio is a good word, so is head, so is... etc. And in fact, a person may enjoy giving or receiving a blow job without having fetishized it. Is there some word people are using that confuses you?

TazDevil -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 1:43:56 PM)
well there is one you pointed out giveing head or head, too me that just sucking the varey top of the dick, so now we need a hole new turm just for sucking down the hole dick..... after some time it get to be too meeny words to meen one thing

TazDevil -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 1:47:51 PM)
just as an example I can't remember the name but I just fond out there is a term for "a husband who is not in to kink but like to see he's wife sub to other men" :O come on lol

AquaticSub -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 1:53:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TazDevil just as an example I can't remember the name but I just fond out there is a term for "a husband who is not in to kink but like to see he's wife sub to other men" :O come on lol Do you mean cuckholding? That term has been around forever. I'm pretty sure I saw a version of it while I was studying Shakespeare's plays.

Drifa -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 4:57:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TazDevil well there is one you pointed out giveing head or head, too me that just sucking the varey top of the dick, so now we need a hole new turm just for sucking down the hole dick..... after some time it get to be too meeny words to meen one thing I don't think so. I think "giving head" is when someone is having sex with your head instead of the other end. It incorporates all the fun things you can do with a mouth and a cock. I can't imagine that you could do a quality job just focusing on the head of the penis when there are nerve endings everywhere else... and a good sub wants to do high quality work!

DarkSteven -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 5:00:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Personally, I love missionary and get my best orgasms in it. /Stands in awe of Aquatic's high perversion/kink level/ [sm=jaw.gif]

sunshinemiss -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 9:33:56 PM)
Hey Taz, From a language perspective, the things we find important have the most nuanced names. It just allows us to be more exacting in our communication. Plus, it's really hot to hear.... all them nasty words. *or so I've heard.

QuirkyAnne -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 11:26:31 PM)
quote: The way people talk about it on these boards, it's pretty fucking taboo. Personally, I love missionary and get my best orgasms in it. Nice to know I'm not the only one. Hold up though... It's taboo?! [:-] Anne

AquaticSub -> RE: why evrey kink needs a name? (12/10/2009 11:30:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Personally, I love missionary and get my best orgasms in it. /Stands in awe of Aquatic's high perversion/kink level/ [sm=jaw.gif] I know. I just completely bypass the moldy, old reverse cowgirl and dig up the forbidden MISSIONARY to indulge in my sinful pleasures.... God I'm so wicked... quote: Nice to know I'm not the only one. Hold up though... It's taboo?! [:-] On kink boards, it feels like it. So many kinksters regard it as "beneath them" that it's like talking about anal sex in a born-again Christian group. [:D]

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